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Archived questions from: 3 July, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Step brother lover...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - This is actually quite hard for me to do, i am and have been deeply in love with my step brother for over 20 years. our parents were together when we were three till 13. he never lived with us and only stopped over once a month. our parents had kids ...

My first boyfriend has reappeared in my life, and married and I don't know how to stop living in the past.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I didn't start dating until I was 20, but I never had a serious relationship until I was 23. But the first boy I dated when i was 20, only for 3 months, but he was the sweetest, cutest, most lovely boy, and til now I still think about how wonderful ...

He has left me financially insolvent and hasn't shown any affection for years.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Yahoo!My Yahoo!MailMore Can anyone give me some advice? I'm a little nervous writing this because i really dont want any nasty comments just some advice please. 6 years ago I worked at the same place as my then fiancee and a good friend. I ...

How do I show her that I trust her and that I would do anything for her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - Hey there my girlfriend has recently finished me after a two year relationship, she says because she is emotionally drained due to me being quiet mean over the past month ( the reason i have been like this is because she started a new job and a guy ...

If I am having all these feeling and doubts should I still go though with the wedding?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for seven years and we are to get married in 2 months. I started dating her 1 year after my ex-girlfriend. Me and the ex had a terrible break up of course cheating was involved. The relationship ended and for the most ...

I know I should be happy that he is with his next victim...so why am I so sad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Please help. I have written before about this. My xbf keeps getting in contact with me - for sex. Silly me thinking he would leave his new gf for me for the amazing things I did for him. She is the complete opposite me and I realized this ...

He treats me badly, makes me feel sad, and strips me of my confidence...so why do I still want him and hope he'll change for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Its hard to express how i feel bout my ex do i love him still? Am i jealous of him? I dont know. Me and him have been so back and foward to the point it makes me dizzy. 3 yrs ive spent trying to make him realise and hoping that one day he will cha...

Did I do the right thing to say goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Ok so me and my ex were going out for about 4 months and i have been feeling a little captivated in our relationship. Like he expected more out of me than i can give, he also did little things like tell me what i couldnt wear (cloths, make up, ...

Should I get back in touch with my ex or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I dated a guy 5 years ago- it was great, he was a complete gentleman and he told me he really liked me, I told him I felt the same- things happened (id rather not say what) and I couldnt see him anymore, I never gave him an explanation or anything- ...

Did he truly love me? Should I contact him to ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Should I or shouldn't I? Sometimes, i think of my ex and I wonder if he thinks of me too. rarely are the times I think of him positively being that he made me go through so mamy emotional hardships. Times I thought he loved me and other times I ...

How do I not fall for verbally abusive ex's guilt trips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - So basically I am just wondering if anyone out there has some tips or ways to not fall for guilt trips? My ex-bf who was verbally abusive "jokingly" he called it, made a promise to change but he has lied about things in the past and I don't th...

Is it a bad idea to tell him I've started seeing someone else? I really like this guy, but he had a bad breakup.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I care a lot about a guy I've been seeing. I try not to think about loving him but I know I do. However, he's not over his ex girlfriend - not in an "I still love her" kind of way, but in a "she hurt me so badly and killed my confidence in ...

Why do I freak out my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - Hey, i was in town the other week and bumped into my ex who dumped me after a 2 month break she initiated. When i saw her she crossed the street to talk to me. We chatted for a while and i suggested we go for a coffee. We were walking to the c...