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writes: hi im christina.i have a guy problem..ill make this short..me and my ex still liked each other very much..but i made a mistake one night and did sumthing with his friend even tho i was intoxicated it was still wrong..no matter how i apologized he wouldnt forgive me and im starting to believe i shouldnt be forgiven but when i tell people my story their against me and it makes me feel worse cuz i never meant to hurt anyone..and i was pressured into it cuz i said no at first but he kept asking so i gave in..so does anyone have advice about how to get over him?thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwow i never thought about it that way.
u have a very good way of explaining things thanx
thats actually made me feel a lot better
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reader, Jason32477  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 Time. Thats it. Anyone that says they have never or would never has not really lived life. We are all subject to making mistakes and the evils of alcohol played a part in your misfortune. What you did was obviously wrong. First you need to forgive yourself. Realize that just because you made a laps of judgement does not make you a bad individual. Take a step back and see why it happened and try not to fall into the same trap again. I would advise anyone against drinking. Also if he was not able to forgive you after you were completely honest with him odds are he did not really love you anyway.Best thing is give it time.Maybe in a couple of days try talking to him after he has calmed down from his initial reaction.If that doesn`t work than just move on.And over time you will think about this less and less.
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