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writes:To our guys here: Granted that you still love your ex girlfriend, in your opinion, what actions from her will convince you to go back to her once more?Should she be apologetic and sincere?Indifferent and has moved on?Or if she is with someone else?If there are other considerations you have in mind, I would love to get your opinions...Thanks so much in advance...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Your Friend. Well, i really love him and maybe I am just blinding myself to the truth. The truth hurts but it will set me free. I guess I really have to move on with my life. It is really hard to do it but I will try all my best. Right now, even the thought of not seeing him again gives me the feeling like it is the end of the world, to be honest. I look around and wonder why everyone seems okay with their lives while I feel like dying inside.
LOL i mentioned the look in his eyes because this is what I know of him as a person. In fairness to him, he really did love me before. He tells me that and his actions says so too and that's where I based my opinion. I felt too that his love faded that's why we broke up. I know the difference between the two when he looks at me. And I know him, he's not the type of person who uses people as he has a good heart.
I spoke to him already and he apologized and gave me an explanation which is a valid one. I wont disclose why but the this talk I had with him convinced me atlast that there is nothing we can do but forget each other. It's for our own good.
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 You should have mentioned all this in your first post then you would have got more replies to support you. It just won't work, you can't look into a guys eyes and know he loves you then have him reject you the next day. If you can't read him you will never know him and judging from his reaction you don't want to know him. This man will bring nothing but heartbreak to you, life will be uncertain and you will be unlikely to hold his interest. Save your heart for another who will rejoice in receiving your gift..
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, i actually posted this just now at the forum..thanks Your friend!The reason is my ex talked to me the other day and said he had wanted to talk to me for a long time but he was scared that I wont accept him. he said he missed me so much blah blah blah and I believed him, I know from the look in his eyes if he was lying or not.Next day I asked him if he really wants me back..i kinda sounded like I was pushing him to give me an answer right away. It took him so long until he told me that yes, I should go on with my life and he hoped the best for me...What does he really want me to do? The actions he showed me was the opposite to what he said over text.So I wanna know now how to win him back, coz if I leave him alone like i did before, he thought I moved on and he just accepted it. But if I asked him direct he dumps me! What should I do then? I still want him back...
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reader, Your friend +, writes (14 July 2009):
This could be better discussed in the forum section.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009): With someone else,never. Apologetic maybe. Sincere is questionable as it depends what broke you up in the first place.
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