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Archived questions from: 1 July, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

How bad is it to get together with your friend's ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - How bad is it to get together with your friend's ex? me and my friends girlfriend have been madly in love for a long time now and after months of debating and torturing ourselves for feeling the way we do we have finally decided we have to be to...

Left my husband for a guy, who later turned abusive so I left, but I'm still in love with both of them. I don't know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Hi, im not sure where to start in my head my problems are HUGE and i need advice so am hoping you can help. I have been married for 8 years my husband was faithful (i think but there have been some doubts and accusasions by my best friend of other...

Is this relationship ever going to go anywhere? Opinions needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5658 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now. We live about 2 hours away from each other, so we only get to see each other on the weekends. We were both separated when we started dating. I’m now divorced, but he is still in the ...

Can we ever be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I've recently split up with a guy who did me wrong - in a big way. Despite this I genuinely believe he loved me. We've talked and talked and I finally understand why he did what he did although I can't forgive him just yet. However I real...

What to do with ex and sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago. We had been together for almost 4 years. Right away he was with this woman he met on a dating site! All of our neighbors wanted to know what was going on! She started sleeping over just a few days ...

How can I get my ex's friends to stop bringing his name up every time I meet them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I broke up with my ex about a year ago. He ended it and asked for no contact which was good as it helped me move on. Trouble is whenever I run into one of his friends, they always bring him up, as if they have been coached. I am getting tired of it ...

Where do I stand with this man? I cant bring myself to tell him I still love him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of six years had broken up with me in April. I didn't see it coming. I was in total shock! Like any other relationship, we had problems. We've been in a long-distance relationship for so many years and seemed to work. At the begin...

He keeps boxes of items from his past. Am I wrong for wanting him to let go and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My husband (we got married last year)keeps everything he has ever touched: old typewriters, computers, manuals and boxes for things that he doesn't even own.He has 3 storage places that he has had for over 20 years. He is definitely a packrat. He ...

She says I'm her friend but friends do not do the things we do together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I seriously need some guidance or advice. Basically my ex girlfriend and i dated for almost 3 years, we lived together. We broke up around November last year, and she was involved with another woman for 6 months, things did not work out. For about ...

Do I really want him back or is he getting back at me for breaking up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together for 5 years. I broke up with him 3 months ago. I found out he meet someone. I on the other hand have been trying to get over him. Then bingo he calls after 3 months and wants to see me. So I thought I should ...

I love him, but he's still dealing with issues about his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - For the first time, I truly love a man, but I can't let him know because it would freak him out. His ex badly hurt him about a year ago - they'd been together for 5 years when she cheated on him. She's still with the other guy but still sees my one ...

I want my ex to have her closure...what do I say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - I dated a girl for two months a year ago. The relationship ended when I told her I had "hooked up" with someone else. That someone else was my old best guy friend. I only said "hooked up" but all I did was kiss him. After I told her I had "hooked ...