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Archived questions from: 19 July, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Is this normal on a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - Ok, my marriage to my ex ended in horrors. There were signs which i ignored thinking that I was the one with the problem, or I was just being too "investigative". First off, my ex used to hang out with gay men when we were in college, one of them ...

Is he scared of his feelings or does he not like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - This is quite a lengthy question, I've condensed it to the most relevant details! Thank you too anyone who reads it and answers! I'm 17 and my ex boyfriend is 19. He is in the RAF and so works far away, about 160 miles away from me. We start...

How do I know if it is just friendship or if it is something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - We were both deeply hurt by the town gossip and so we took a step back from the relationship. We are slowly stepping back into it but I am confused. Keep in mind that this man was head over heels for me as he put it I was life and his soul and he ...

Masturbating to an ex's picture?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

19 July 2009 (?) - So I was going through some old photos and I found one of my ex gf that is pretty provocative. I ended up masturbating to her picture. It felt really good, but at the same time, I felt vaguely guilty. My question is, how bad should I feel he...

Why does he choose to make nasty comments about me after all this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I split with my ex fiance 6 years ago Recently found out through mutual friends that he got married. I don't see or speak to him. They've also told me that lately he's made the odd nasty remark about me. We had a nasty split and I never saw hi...

He criticized my breast size now I can't get over it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - hello my ex has made many mitigating statements of how small my breasts are. He had his new girlfriend mock me. She told me how he laughed with her about me for having small breast. She compared herself to me and made me feel so insecured. Eversinc...

Addicted to my promiscuous ex girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (M) - I'd really be glad of your thoughts to my situation, although I'm honestly not sure there is a solution... I'm 32 and I started seeing a girl just over 3 years ago. The relationship only lasted about a couple of months. It was highly charged s...

Ex won't give back money he owes me! Is this his way of controlling me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - My ex b/f is being a jerk. He has some money of mine. I called him for it many many times and he said no problem. But then he tires to be soo sweet and I don't get it back. I have been very nice about this but I am beginning to think that it is ...

Do I put up a fight for him? Or just let him slip away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I know this is a question that probably comes up time again, but I'd like some advice on how to try and forget about my probably ex-bf as I can't stop thinking about him, despite trying to distract myself. We've been together 9 years. We lived...

Would not getting closure cause me to dream of my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I've been having dreams about my ex lately.We broke up last year.Im over him now,the problem is these dreams.For the past 3 nights now,I wake up and see him laying next to me(smiling and wisphering).Then another night it's a nightmare.He tried to ...

I don't want to be in a FWB relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - My b/f and I split up but now I think he wants me back but I feel that he wants me to call him and chase him. We have talked and have seen each other a few times. He said I have been waiting two months to see you. My question how should I handle ...

I wonder what would have happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

19 July 2009 (F) - I'm starting to really miss my ex boyfriend. We broke up about a week ago, and I missed him but not as much as I do today. He cheated on me.. and when I went to give him his stuff back, he came out and stood there.. and watched me walk away, now I...

Ex going after my best friend!

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19 July 2009 (F) - My exboyfriend and I dated for almost 6 years; we broke up in 2005. I am now married and have a baby and am very happy in life. I know my ex has been having trouble finding someone to settle down with. I haven't really talked to him for the past...

I'm paranoid that he is not ready for a committed relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

19 July 2009 (?) - I was seeing this man named "Ted", Jan. through Mar. Things just ended because he said he couldnt give himself to anyone just yet because he was going through a divorce. He was so exciting and fun. In April I started seeing a man named "Jim". Jim is ...