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Archived questions from: 25 July, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

(More questions from July, 2009)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I feel at an all time low after losing family members and breaking up with my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - hi everyone, I just need someone to talk to... everything seems to be going wrong at the moment. I have lost so many family members these last few years.. my dad, sister, brother, grandad, cousin, great aunt. Everyone that meant the world to me. ...

My ex mentioned he'd kill another guy if I was with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

25 July 2009 (?) - A while ago me and my boyfriend broke up and we decided to be mates with privileges, it was all good until we actually had sex, he got like half way through it and then said “what are we?” and I said “mates?” and he stopped? Eh, don’t think he’s got ...

My boyfriend still hangs out with his exes and stays over at their place way after midnight and tells me nothing happened.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I've been in a really weird relationship for the last year of my life and I would greatly appreciate any thoughts or advice. I apologize ahead of time for the "lengthiness", but I figured details will help you guys out. I've been with my bf for n...

Thought things were going well with my ex, but now there's a g/f??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Ok, So I bumped into an ex Boyfriend at a party and ended going back to his and staying the night. A couple of days later he messaged me on Facebook wanting to meet up again, he said i was gorgeous and all sorts of nice stuff. We went out for a dr...

I want him back so badly but don't know how to do it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Is it ok to just express yourself on this site? I am feeling the lowest since last night. I cried till 4 am but I still don't think I cried enough. I really thought I am slowly getting over my ex who I broke up with 3 months ago but realized las...

Do you think I still have feelings for her?

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25 July 2009 (M) - hay Im really confused at the moment i dumped my ex gf last year for this other girl, the mother of my child. anyway things never happened between us and i carried on sleeping with my ex, then i found this new girl who im still seeing and is pregn...

I just found out she slept with another guy 2 weeks after we split! I feel like he took advantage of her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - ok in need of advice. i just found out last night that my ex slept with a 26 year old guy 2 weeks after we broke up and shes only 20... i never liked this guy, he was a guy she met at her new job and in the last six months of our relation...

He's being hot then cold! Is he just getting me back for saying I wanted a break and not knowing what I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months now. Our relationship was fantastic, madly in love, couldnt keep our hands off eachother, loved spending time with each other etc. We had a little dis-agreement a couple of weeks ago and i told him that ...

How long does it take a person to decide whether they want to get back together with you or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I sent my ex a let's get back together letter. I told him to take his time and think about it. I know he'll definitely answer (he would never not answer) but it's been 4 days. It's a good sign that time is passing bc I know he actually is thinking ...

His g/f is pregnant yet he's sleeping with me & other girls, is he happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Hi everyone Ok i split up with my ex in october last year, anyway we have stayed good friends and since we split up we carried on sleeping together, untill januery this year when he got his gf who is now 3 months pregnent anyway before i found o...

My girlfriend says she shouldn't have to stop hanging out with her ex. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Ive been with my partner (we are a lesbian couple) close to a year and she still wants to text and talk and hang out with her ex and its killing me inside. Whenever my gf and I fight she goes to her ex and tells her about the fight in detail. Not ...

I'm not sure about my feelings for my ex. But I think I might want him back...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - So I've been talking to my ex frequently. Even though our breakup was recent and andom and didnt seem to have much behind it *hes having financial/work trouble* and ended it but still wanted to stay in contact/hang (we supposedly broke up cos ...

Am I jealous? Am I moving on? Or just tired?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - hello well ok me an my ex botfriend have been broken up for about a month now hes a jail bird an hes in another relationship. He called me recently trying to be my friend or something an that really confused me because i didnt want to hear from ...