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Archived questions from: 15 January, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

I feel like we have such strong feelings for each other but very confused as to what he is feeling.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I have been getting to know a man for a couple of months. He just got out a relationship recently.(3 months ago) He is a very withdrawn guy but trusted me enough to discuss his feelings with me. I've never met a man who had such strong emotional ...

Pregnant - How to spice things up when things are going bad please?

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15 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm just sad, and don't know what do to about my sex life any more, really it sucks! I HATE it, I'm not happee. I love my guy to death, but, the sex. Really, I HATE giving him oral, He doesn't give it to me, and I'm clean, I shave ...

First she loves me... now she hates me!

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15 January 2009 (M) - first she loves me... then she hates me A quick introduction. - I have been told that I'm very good looking - I've never kissed before (although I have come close) - I'm shy around girls, unless I know them well - I have good, kind-hearted p...

She said she wants space, but is still talking to me?

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15 January 2009 (M) - She said she wants space, but is still talking to me? So basically she said she needs space to figure her self out, because she still hasn't completely grieved over her ex of 3 years, so i think shes goign to use this space time to do that, while th...

How can I change his mind and get him back?

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15 January 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I split with my boyfriend 4 months ago, we still talk and get on as friends, well I still have feelings for him and I think he knows it, anyway he's met this girl through facebook and they met for the 3rd time last nite, he told me ...

Crucial concept...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - On June 29, 2008 my handsome son was born. He means the world to me. Prior to that I had been with my son's father for almost 2 years till I got pregnant. When I told him he lied to everyone telling them I was a hoe and that we never had sex. Soon I ...

Open mouth insert foot..now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - Last night I casually asked my gf if when we first started talking and seeing each other 6 months ago, if she was still thinking about getting back together with her ex as they had only just split up. I didn’t mean anything by it as I wasn’t ...

I'm angry and worried-no contact in 2 weeks!

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15 January 2009 (F) - Advice from men required! Am I overreacting or am I right to be upset? My ex-boyfriend has gone away with his friend for a few months to Vietnam. We agreed that this experience would do him good with the idea of us getting back together when he ...

My mum is stuck in a love triangle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - hi i need some help im doing this on behalf off my mum as she has never been on here before, she is in a relationship with her boyfriend who she has been with for 8 years and has got my brother who has just turned 8 living wit them, (ill explain ...

She is confused..meanwhile I'm waiting

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15 January 2009 (M) - So basically she said she needs time to figure out what she's going to do about her ex which she went out with 3 years for, she still has feelings for him and she needs to straighten them out, those feelings were getting in the way of are ...

I think his ex is still burning a candle for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I think my husband's ex wife may still be in love with him. This is such a bizarre story-- at least to me. My husband's ex walked out on him about 9 years ago. I'm sure there are two sides to each story and no doubt she felt like she had a r...

I truly believe this will work out, she just needs time.

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She panicked and ran away when she saw me!

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15 January 2009 (M) - So after months of being ignored and no contact from a girl that claimed was "in love" with me, I ran into her on the bus on my way back from work. When she saw me she turned around as if she didn't see me. I approached and called her name very ...

Girlfriend ended things but still has strong feelings... Confused!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - Ok here's the deal... I've been seeing what is now I guess my Ex for 7 months, but we were living together for 6 months before that and travelling together spending every waking moment and a lot of experiences together, so in reality it feels a lot ...

Eight years ago and I still think of my ex

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15 January 2009 (F) - How can I still have feelings for an ex, when its over 8 years ago? I am currently with someone else, for quite some time, but i often think about the other guy, often think what it would of been like to still be going out with him, i often have ...

Whenever we have a row, I text the ex

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15 January 2009 (F) - So Ive been going out with my current boyfriend for 4 years, things have been pretty rubbish for the last 6months, he just seem not to be bothered at all.. so everytime we have a row i text by ex, i still have feelings for my ex.. now i dont kno...

He lies but expects my help

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15 January 2009 (F) - I have a small question which i would love some help in deciding. Have you seen those websites where you can send sms off to other people, well my ex uses them when he has no credit. I asked him the other day how come he never text's me off this ...

Ex is good for nothing but sex!

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15 January 2009 (F) - We got divorced after 21 years of marriage. After two years, I have now slept with 5 different men, but not one of them can make me have an orgasm, like my ex used to give me. My ex is a good for nothing except when it comes to sex. He won't have ...

Should I go no contact with my ex

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15 January 2009 (F) - Ok, i've been reading alot about no contact and various plans so i was wondering what's best for me. so here's my situation. we were together for 2.5 years. it was a very good relationship with few problems. were both 21. he broke up with me...

I just recently started talking to my ex again, but I have a fiance, how do I make the right choice?

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15 January 2009 (F) - I just recently started talking to my ex again, but I have a fiance, how do I chose the right choice? I have been dating my fiance for 2 and a half years now. My family loves and I do, too. But just recently my ex started talking to me again an...

Three years and he still calls me by HER name

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - HI. I am having a similar problem to one problem that I just read. My Fiance called me by his ex wives name. AGAIN!!! First time we were in bed in the A.M. and he said "H" go make my coffee. Now my name is "P". Those names are nothing alike. Second ...