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Archived questions from: 3 January, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Just walk away, right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - I was dumped by my girlfriend last year which really took me by suprize and upset me quite a lot. The thing that really hurt was that she dumped me by text and then cut off all communication for months. I have dated quite a lot since then but not ...

My ex and I are very much platonic friends, how much would be too much re me calling him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hey guys, if you and your ex still hang out from time to time and you call each other whenever you feel like it... How much would you consider too much calling from the girl? Sometimes I miss him and want to hang out. I don't ask very often and a...

Met up with my ex but he looks soooo different now and I find it hard to handle.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I had been with my boyfriend for six years and had a great relationship. Then my family suffered multiple devastating losses, the family members we lost were the glue of our family and everyone left behind seemed to be fumbling around in the dark as ...

Now I just feel used and like he never intended to get with me. I feel so hurt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for a few months and have liked him since I first met him. He said he liked me too but he has depression so I didn't want to rush into things and hurt him. A week ago we kissed and texted each other a lot over ...

Could lovesickness and obsession eventually lead to mental health disorders...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5806 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Could lovesickness and obsession eventually lead to mental health disorders such as multiple personality disorder, axiety, or depression? I'm very concerned about this - so please provide me with an answer ASAP. I'm finding it very difficult to move ...

How can I knock that smirk of the cheeky mare's face so that he at least thinks I have moved on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - I split up with my ex over 2 years ago, and I still have major feelings for him but would never go back as he has done too much. We were together for years and had some fantastic times and many laughs. When he sees me out he is all over me and I ...

Why is he choosing drinking over me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I recently brokeup with my ex husband because of his drinking and now he doesn't answer my text or calls when I try to contact him. We were married, divorced, and then got back together. Finally, I choose to end it again because he ultimately chose ...

She dumped me to get back together with her controlling ex...will she come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - hey all...need some advice. about a year ago i started dating this girl and things began wonderfully. she had just come out of a 7 year on/off relationship with a guy that was controlling, jealous and had cheated on her in the past...really had ...

Why is he still talking to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for 6 months on and off. He had commitment issues and couldnt handle our relationship and ended up breaking up with me. He insisted that we still be friends as he didnmt wat to lose me. We've hung out once since our break ...

Why is my ex playing these games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5806 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - right so, me and my boyfriend of like a year broke up about 5 weeks ago. it was my decision because he always promised he would change but he never did! he was perfect to begin with, always made me happy but then gradually after about 8 months he ...

I'm going back to my ex, but my Mom disapproves...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5806 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - i'm 19 turning 20 and i was with my bf for a year and a half before we decided to call it quits. Our relationship was a little complicated. We met at college and didnt live too far from eachother while being at home. My bf always respected my ...

She's insecure because of her abusive ex, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

3 January 2009 (?) - This is a two part question so might be a bit confessing. My girlfriend (of 2 years) had a very abusive ex-boyfriend (he physically and emotionally abused her) and she's afraid I hit her as well. I honestly wouldn't because it isn't right. I t...

Half of me wants him back and half of me wants to just stay friends, what's wrong with me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5802 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Yesterday down are local my friend said to my ex bf that why dont we get bk together, he replyed saying we get on better as friends but half of me wants him bk and the other wants a friendship, he nows how i feel about him, but then he replyed with ...

I want him back but won't be his game

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Exboyfriend came back from vacation and wanted to talk. I met him and conversation was light and I asked for my apartment key back he would not give. He asked if I worked Saturday and I said yes he said you get your key then. He went to kiss me ...

What he has said still hurts, should I leave things as they are?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - my husband cheat 3x in 11yrs. the last time I woulnt take him back he moved out to our other home and didn't help with any $ or the kids I turned to my older sons father for support my husband found out and started all these rumors about us..he is ...

I trust and love him but at times he makes me question us...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5807 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hi guys I have a bit of a problem recently I got married to the love of my life. But before we got married he had told that he had gotten back in contact with his friend whom he thought was the love of his life. He's constantly talking to her even ...

I feel he is a bit distant and I think he still love his ex-girlfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hi I have been dating this guy for 3 months. We met in a online site and things are going really slowly. He says he is serious and wants a long term relationship. His ex-girl friend broke up with him 9 months ago. After 2 months he left the onli...