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writes:On June 29, 2008 my handsome son was born. He means the world to me. Prior to that I had been with my son's father for almost 2 years till I got pregnant. When I told him he lied to everyone telling them I was a hoe and that we never had sex. Soon I found out that he had another girlfriend too. I finally took him to court for child support a month after our son was born and he then wanted to be a daddy. We soon made up and decided to start over and raise our son together. The last week of december I concieved again only to find out that he was back with his ex and he lied to his parents telling them that we hadn't had sex since my son was born and that this second baby was not his....but that was surely a lie. Last week I found out that another girl he's gotten pregnant. I wasn't mad at her at all. We are best of friends now. My baby daddy constantly screws with many girls and isn't maning up to our 2 kids or the other girls child. It hurts cuz he tells every1 he has no kids. Our son is almost 7mths. The hardest thing is getting over evrything including him. He even went as far a pushing me while I am pregnant. I don't know what to do. No matter what he gets under my skin. I just wanna him to reep what he sowed. I wanna move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): Two choices.
1: Take the kids and only let him in when THEY want see him. They ahve every right to know their father if they so choose.
2: Take him to court again and FORCE him into child support payments for his other children to other women. Then make sure everyone knows, his friends, his family, his workmates, that these children are his, take te borth certificates if you must, destroy the web of lies this moron has set up, make sure no one will ever believe him again if he tries to deny his duties.
Assholes like this give decent men (and there are plenty of us out there) a bad name.
Flynn 24
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