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writes:hi i need some help im doing this on behalf off my mum as she has never been on here before, she is in a relationship with her boyfriend who she has been with for 8 years and has got my brother who has just turned 8 living wit them, (ill explain now) before she meet her boyfriend she was on her own feeling lonely and she sort of thinks she went with her boyfriend just cause he was there, and at the time she never seen me or my sisters as we were living with our dad, but now she as got in contact with a ex from the past who she describes is loving caring she says she feels so much love from her ex and always did but with her boyfriend she never feels no love alright her boyfriend works and she loves him but she dont feel happy, she has tried to make it work with him but she can not go a day with out texting her ex. she says her heart hurts for her ex, she is scared and dont no what to do because she says she put us girls through it in the past and dont want to put my brother through the same, she is stuck in a love triangle, the thing is she can not just walk away from her boyfriend because they are in a brought house in his name and she has no where to go and she says if she finishes it with her boyfriend he might say get out, and then what she on the streets with my brother who is 8 and she has all her furniture in the house and has no where to put it either! some one please help me help my mum! what can i do to help her feeling so down and ill,
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reader, megan1111  +, writes (15 January 2009):
Been with a guy for eight years and not happy, well, she should be concentrating on her on mental state. I would suggest she resolve the current living situation first (find her own place). If your brother is by the b/f, she needs to be careful. When you break with a guy, he needs to be assured it’s not for another guy. Men are just like women, they don’t take it too well when you leave them for someone else. When she moves, she needs to let some time pass before the b/f sees or hears about her with another man. After you split with someone, they seem to accept the fact that you’re going to see someone eventually. They have scorn if you left them for someone. I would suggest she put the brakes on texting the ex until she splits from the current. What’s she’s doing now is tantamount to having an affair and being suspected is sometimes as bad as being caught because the current relationship always suffers. It’s tough mentally, trying to please two men when you’re living with one.
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