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writes: Advice from men required! Am I overreacting or am I right to be upset? My ex-boyfriend has gone away with his friend for a few months to Vietnam. We agreed that this experience would do him good with the idea of us getting back together when he returns a better person. He knows I love him, he told me he loves me before he left. The trouble is, I have not heard from him much since he has been away, and I know he is traveling and busy, but my friends say it is not a good sign because if he loved me, he wouldnt be able to help himself from getting in touch. I have not heard for 2 weeks. Am I right to be upset? Or am I overreacting? I am worried about him too as I have not heard.
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reader, Kepi +, writes (16 January 2009):
Hmmmm two weeks isn't a good sign, especially with him being abroad, maybe he can't get in contact cos of phone coverage or maybe something else, have youtried contacting his parents to see if they have heard from him, explain that you have been in contact and suddenly nothing, that you are concerned and have they had any contact with him..... if they have, well at least you will know he is safe, as for the relationship, don't give up hope, wait and see what happens when he returns, it could be good news
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): its only been two weeks, you weren't together when he went. he maybe wants to be sure in his head that he definately wants to get back with you
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