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writes:How can I still have feelings for an ex, when its over 8 years ago? I am currently with someone else, for quite some time, but i often think about the other guy, often think what it would of been like to still be going out with him, i often have dreams about him.. it was never going to happen with him either has he has got married now...please help or any advice helpful..
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (15 January 2009):
 I agree with the other 2 post thus far .Until you resolve what there is that needs ti be resolved then you will never be completely over this other guy and never be happy with anyone else . If you have unresolved feelings or not sure what happened even you are going to have to work it out within yourself and probably your ex .Then move on with a new relationship you might find out that your ex and yourself are not over each other and rekindle the relationship .
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reader, Ashtarot +, writes (15 January 2009):
 Other readers are going to tell you to move on and get on with life. It's just not that easy. You try to forget but something just makes you think about them more. He must have been something special for you to still think about him 8 years on. Often when we dream about someone we once loved it's because there was an aspect in the relationship that wasn't quite dealt with properly when you broke up. It will leave you thinking...and wondering what if forever unless you get intouch with the party and discuss it. I'm sure once you get to the bottom of it, he will leave your thoughts and dreams. Good luck!
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