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writes:There is this guy I sit next to in class. He is really nice to me and we always talk. He seems interested in me, like always asks what i did the day before, what im going to do, etc. but i dont know if he likes me or if he is that way to everyone. Talking to him makes me realize that my boyfriend is a complete jerk and I would like to be better friends with him. I know he is a really nice person but how can I tell if he likes me? How can I be better friends with him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): Trust me! Im a guy about your age and I do exactly what you are describing to girls I like. So he is more than likely interested in you. Definitely go for this guy if you like him, and especially if he's a nice guy, we are few and far between, but most girls your age have trouble going out with the nice guy, you always want the bad boy, which I find really annoying personally, since I'm one of those "nice guys". Go out with this guy, give him a chance. : )
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reader, michelleAKAmandi +, writes (6 October 2008):
 It could be both and without asking, it's hard to tell.
Maybe you should pay some attention to him talking with others to find out if you are different in this aspect.
I do suggest that if you are considering having anything to do with this guy, or any other guy for that matter, that you go ahead and end your current relationship. You don't want to do anyone wrong even if they do treat you badly. You merely have more than one reason to end a relationship that you are in where the guy is a jerk to you.
Does this guy that you are speaking of know that you have a boyfriend?
If so, then maybe that's why he hasn't dropped more hints to being interested. He doesn't want to cross any boundaries and GOOD for him if that's the case.
Get your current relationship out of the way before you pursue anything else, then go from there.
Good luck sweetie
Michelle
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