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writes:Hi. Im a 15 year old boy and my girlfriend is 14(turning 15 in December). We've been dating for about 5 months now. We do i guess the regular dating activies like kissing and making out and stuff... but i kinda want to move a little bit further like touching her in certain spots. she's already let me touch her boobs and butt. And this all happens with clothes btw. And she's felt me up but thats about it. and i kinda want to go further...How would i talk to her about going further? is there anyway i can kinda give her the hint?
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reader, mikey199 +, writes (6 October 2008):
 There's a good chance that she is not on the same thinking wave as you and maybe moving further isn't what she wants to do. In my experience, this has been the result 80% of the time. So in reality, you would just have to accept this and wait.
On the other hand, the best thing to do is maybe try and instigate moving further by starting to move your hands around that area and see what happens. If she immediately pulls back she is not ready for this and doesnt want it to happen so obviously you should stop.
Ideally, you'd want to actually discuss this in conversation with her, but remembering myself at 15, it can be quite embarrassing to do so.
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