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writes:hey, I am 15 year old gay boy, and I really want to come 'out' to y close friends. But I am worried that if I do I might loose them. I just not sure what to do. Can anyone help. Like how should I do it.Please!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Merisier  +, writes (13 October 2008):
well, my question is, why do you wana come out ? and again if you think you have enough closet time i will say go for it. and if your friend dont like you for who you are, well they were not your real friends
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all the help so far, it has made me want to do it more and has re-asured me. I will give a shot next week, possibly. Will let you all no how it goes. Thanks!
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reader, lovely lilly  +, writes (6 October 2008):
hiya..! shes right dont worrie my freind came out 2mounth ago and she feels a different person she has a spring in her step and seems a much better person she said its a massive waight off her and shes getting on more that ever with evryone. thier is alot more gays at schools now than their has ever been it dosnt seem that big a deal to people. am sure your freinds will understand x
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reader, Taylor-x +, writes (6 October 2008):
 Why are you worrying! if these guys reli are your 'fiends' they will accept you for who you are! My advice would to be tell your closest friend first but if they are all equal then just tell them! its not a big deal babe! If you do loose any of them it will show just how shallow they are !! Because gays are the most friendliest kindest and funniest people to be around and if ure mates cnt see this then u dont need them! Theres plenty more people out there who will love you just the way you are! i personlly dont think there will be any problem with teeling them. Just be honest and it should all work out for the best!! x
Let Me know how it goes! x
Taylor xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): Easy. If they're your friends, it shouldn't matter. If you "lose" your friends, then they weren't your real friends to begin with and it's best to find some new and better ones. I'd say just be blunt and out with it already! True friends will care about you no matter what.
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