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female
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30-35,
*iveforfiona
writes:I've got one hell of a problem.Im only year eight and I'm head over heals in love with my maths teacher.She's just so amazing. She's gorgeous, she's got a great sense of style, she's such a woman, so intelligent, but such a little girl. In such a good way!!I dont know if I'm looking for things to make myself feel special to her or if I really am.For example, I'm a poet, and for a while I'd been quite different in class. Im one of the first to answer questions, I always to my work and try to make her smile. For a few weeks I hadn't done and I could see she was becoming concerned, always asking how things were going, how I was going and if i wanted to talk to her. I of course didn't, being the coward that I am. I eventually wrote her poem apologizing and just touched lightly on the fact that things weren't going well. Her concerd was immediately aroused and she kept me after our next class.It's now towards the end of the, next year im moving to a different campus and will only see her during whole school events if i'm lucky.Before I leave I really wanted to let her know how I feel. I've tried so much, but I dont know if she's taken the hint. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): i agree phil she may not have the same feelings for you also you are too young for her. it also may be awkward for her
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 October 2008):
If you are still going to be in the same school then I wouldn't.Most schools have a policy that she would have to report what you said to the head and then you would both be forbidden from talking to each other again. They may even tell your parents.If you keep your feelings to yourself and keep your friendship with this teacher but remember to act professional while at school then you will be happier in the long run.You can always tell her how you feel when you are 18 and leaving school. Then you are no longer her pupil so she could do what she wanted.Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): You're no more special to her than any other kid in the school. All she's concerned about is giving you a good education, which is what she's paid to do. It's her job. It's just a job that she does and there's never going to be any more to it than that.If I could make an analogy here- the love she feels for you would be no different to the love a milliner might feel towards all the hats in her shop or a greengrocer falling in love with his apples and oranges.
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