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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: My girlfriend and I have been dating for quite a while now. I've been touching her for well over a month and just a week ago she began touching me. I really have two problems here. For one, when she touches me it feels really good but I just can't seem to cum. I've tried looking for ideas but all I find is people saying to switch to oral which she is by no means ready for. Yesterday I gave her oral for the first time. I got down there and I it seemed great. But once I started I realized I really had no idea what I was doing. I tried all kinds of stuff and she seemed to like it all except whenever I would really lick her clit it'd seem like it felt really good but she told me to stop and lick somewhere else.How can I get her to relax and make her feel good when I give her oral, and how can she get me to cum? Please, any help would be great. Or even a website would be of at least some help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (6 October 2008):
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