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I started giving her oral then realized I really had no idea what I was doing....please help.

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Question - (6 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 October 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend and I have been dating for quite a while now. I've been touching her for well over a month and just a week ago she began touching me. I really have two problems here.

For one, when she touches me it feels really good but I just can't seem to cum. I've tried looking for ideas but all I find is people saying to switch to oral which she is by no means ready for.

Yesterday I gave her oral for the first time. I got down there and I it seemed great. But once I started I realized I really had no idea what I was doing. I tried all kinds of stuff and she seemed to like it all except whenever I would really lick her clit it'd seem like it felt really good but she told me to stop and lick somewhere else.

How can I get her to relax and make her feel good when I give her oral, and how can she get me to cum? Please, any help would be great. Or even a website would be of at least some help.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (6 October 2008):

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