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How would he afford these things on Military wages?

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Question - (6 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *attie90 writes:

Alright here it goes, my boyfriend of a year and a half wants 2 go into the army, he told me that when he gets back from basic training he wants 2 get engaged, and i started thinking abt it.

you dont get paid all too much during basic training, but what he wants 2 do for AIT is either a tech 4 sumthng or go into infantry, which scares me. his brother is in Iraq right now and his brother hates infantry, he said all he does is kill dogs, and i also have been thinking he tells me that when he gets back from basic he wants 2 get engaged.

alright sweet - but if hes not makin enough money how is he going 2 do that, he says that he wants 2 get a newer car when he gets out and he wants 2 buy me a ring. what should i think? i'm very worried abt him about going into the army it, scares me, i dnt wnt 2 thnk tht he can cheat on me either.

can some1 plz tell me how much money he can make and 2 put my mind at rest with everythng.

thnks so much

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (6 October 2008):

I think his wage is the least of your worries.

It doesn't really matter what he can afford when he comes back from training because chances are he'll be sent away some where anyway.

There is a big chance he'll get sent away to Iraq. The Americans are not pulling any time soon, they're moving into Basra to replace us over there at the moment.

Plus it may all change depending on who wins your election.

If he's going into the army then tell him to get into a trade where he'll get training he can use in the outside world. Tell him to be an engineer or something.

Tell him there is no guarantee that you will agree to marry him if he's going to be gone for several years and find out why he wants to go and be cannon fodder in the infantry.

Also tell him that when a mortar alarm goes off to just lie down on the spot. The US train their guys to run for cover which is really stupid and why they keep dying.

Good Luck!! xx

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