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writes:Hey ive wrote up here before you may rememebr me.http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-so-confused-whether-he-likes-me.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/whats-going-on-why-is-he-acting-this.htmlAnyway basics of that were that i fell in lvoe with a lad i thought he liked me and so did others, they seemed to act as if they knew he liked me, my mate asked him and he denyed it but that seemed a bit weird and he said if he was being honest he was choosing to stay single. Then he still showed loads of signs of liking me, used to stare loads etc and a mate of ours(a girl) seemed like she found out something about me and then suddenly started talking to me as if she knew he liked me and was out to find out if i liked him. I told her because she asked and then she was teasing us when she came to see us once and then about 2 weeks later told me he didn;t like me, he didn;t add me on msn and throughout most of that year just generally wouldnt talk to me. Then we went back to college after summer and for some reaosn was talking to me mroe as a friend but was acting weird as if he wanted to tell me something and seemed nervous and was showing he liked me again and stuff. It turns out he loves this girl(the one that seemed out to find out if i liked him)he told her how he felt and she said to him if she;d was to ask him out would he say yes and he said yeah he would. Thing is she has a bf and although they are having problems, and yes i was talking to her to about this and she said to him she'd rather be friends. After this he asked her if she was single and she sent him a message saying she;d rather be friends. And i hpe to god thats how it stays because i couldn't bare to see them two going out or to have to it there and hear him talking about her. it would physically kill me!! i couldn't bare it no one seemes to understand I LOVE HIM!! I'm just hoping they stay friends and only friends because i couldn;t do it but what if she breaks up with her bf and decides to get in touch with him. I cant do this anymore!!My mates still reckon that from the way he acted he probably did like me in that way at one point but he wouldn;t admit to another mate of ours that it was this girl he liked and then he said well its a long story...its someone thats left(yes shes lft, its her) and then he said "its(my name) only jokin m8" why would he say that?Thing is i just cant bare knowing that he really wants to be with ehr and the thing is i now have hi msn because a mate sent him a msg saying if you like(my name) as a friend why wont u accept her msn? Is it because you know she loves you? he hasn;t said anything to me about it but im well scared now, thing is i told my mate to say that and i don't regret it but what if they start going out what am i gonna do, it will kill me. I can;t even listen to certain sogns anymore because literaly every song i listened to makes me think of him. its hard enough ebing friends with him as it is but i cant bare knowing that he really wants to be with her i just can;t do it i don;t know what to do! its gets me enough when people start joking about getting me a bf and stuff but why did he show he liked me so much, hes one of the nicest last you'l ever meet but i cant do this i need him! Please help me thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): Oh,my oh my!
GROW up!You are rambling on like a love sick puppy.
Concentrate on your studies. Get a grip on life.
Have a good look at yourself and listen to yourself. No wonder the guy does not want to date you. You need to grow up.You have an OBSESSION with this boy.
Stop wining about this boy and enjoy all your other friends. Make new friends and find a new boyfriend. Hopefully when you are more relaxed, and stop stressing this boy might notice you again and might develop an interest in you. No boy will want to be with a girl that seems so needy, clingy and desperate.
If need be ask your parent to arrange for you to go for counseling. This situation is not good for your schoolwork or your health. It is not healthy for your mental or emotional well being.
Stop this obsession and start enjoying your youth.
GOOD LUCK.
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