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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

We are 14 and in love. I need some xmas present ideas please..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6260 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are 14 and we love eachother (yeah, you'll probably think I am full of it, but it's real) Well. I know he is getting me a ring for Christmas that is worth about $300, and so I really don't have anything to get him. I just really ...

Anyone know why a guy wouldn't ejaculate through oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - i just gave my boyfriend a 20 minute bj and he didn't have an orgasm [cum] he told me it felt really good but he was confused that he didn't and i gave him one before and he didn't have an orgasm that time either so me and him are confused why, ...

I still love him and want to be friends but he says it wouldn't work. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - i need help me n my ex was going out for 3years but we broke up 4 month ago because he didn't want a relationship we was still really close,and now he has met someone which i don't like the sound of i still love him and still want to be friends...

I'm 14 and in love with 2 women. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Im 14. I love my gf but my best mate fancies her and i fancy his gf but my gf would be heartbroken if i left her. I love 2 women, what do i do....

I lost weight but I'm still not fully happy. How can I gain confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) - Hey everybody, i am 17 years old and did weigh 16 stone. i was a size 18/20 clothes and had glasses. i felt fat and ugly. i got bullied all the way through school every day i would get a comment "fat bitch" "errr look its blobby" "haha fatty bum ...

I get compliments all the time but not from lads I'm interested in. Why don't I have a bf?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) - why am i the only person that is still single!!! all my friends are in relationships of 9/10/11/12/13 monnths n even longer and i am still the one that's never had a bf. all people say is "oh dont worry mr right will come along one day." but hes ...

My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) - my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...

We like to have sex anywhere that could be fun, bus shelters etc; my bf is 17 and I'm 15, could this be wrong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) - is what im doing ok?? i like to be very passionate in the bedroom. i prefer to use handcuffs or belocked to a bed while a guy takes full advantage of me. i like to have sex in the back of a car, morrisons carpark, in bus shelters. on park benched or ...

I like him and don't know whether to stay away from him or get to know him a bit more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) - right, im going to a party on saturday, well its at my house, a suprise for my mums friends daughters 16th. only it might kind of end up as a joint because another one of my mums friends has a son that turns 16 the day before. i really really like ...

Arguements around my sister and her boyfriend are causing a rift in our family. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Im really sorry it is a long message but I need help. Im 12 and I know this site is for teens but still. My sister is 16 and she has a boyfriend. He is perfectly nice but on Myspace he has been posting affectionate comments to this other g...

Does he want me back or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - hello everyone! i have a question that i need to ask and get off my chest so here it goes...I went out with this boy hes 15 im gonna be 14 in a few days so there wasnt an age gap n all that hard stuff. but anyways things were going really good at ...

I like him, but I'm fridged! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I Really really really like this guy who is 2 years older than me. no1 noes about how much i love him nobody noes that i even like him!! we talk all the time, go out nearly every weekend But recently we have been gettin really really close. W...

I want her back, but it could destroy me. Do I gamble???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Do I gamble and try and get something back with my ex? For those of you who haven't bee keeping up. My girlfriend of 2 years split with me back in June, because she was going to University. We had endured a long distance relationship sin...

Am I pressuring him by talking about our future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - my boyfreind is to young to get married but does that automaticly mean he doesnt? we always talk about it. but im the one who brings it up. am i pressuring him by talking about our future? he agrees its going to be great but is he just saying that ...

Losing erection just when I have to wear the condom. Any solution?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Hi ive got a bit of a problem. Whenever me and my new girlfriend go for sex I can not get it up when about to use a condom, it will not work for me. If we do it without one im perfectly fine and I easily get one up fastly. Any solution ???...

I find guys attractive, only one girl caught my eye. Am I straight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - it seems like all my life i have been attracted to guys and i still am. but about 3 weeks ago school started and this girl named --- caught my eye. i still consider my self as straight because i finad guys attractive and only one girl. so my ...

He abuses me and loves me? I love him, is he ever going to change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - ok. so here is the deal. i've been with this kidd for one year nd he's always lieing to me, he is so jealous, he hit me before, mentally abuse me, hurt me verbelly and physically but i know that he's crazy about me. he's in love with me and he would ...

Flirtatiousness exhibited by a girl who is interested, as opposed to just being overly friendly? How can you tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - hi, i was wondering... how can one distinguish between flirtatiousness exhibited by a girl who is interested, as opposed to just being overly friendly, as i have a female friend (i am female too) who is very touchy and such. But i cannot tell if i...

My bf is so immature and sulks if we disagree, then won't budge, even refuse to go out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - my fiance is so immuture and sulks if we disagree,i make the first move and he continues to behave like a spoilt brat and refuses to budge even declines to take me out,should i just go out with the girls since he doesnt want to know? why should i be ...

I want to have sex but my gf is never ready. Are there ways to make a girl ready?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - hey frnds ! i wanna know how to make a girl ready for sex??? i need to have sex but my girlfriend is never ready to do so!! i can't controle it....i need to have sex...plzzz help me out!!!!!!! thanxxxxxxxxx...

I'm fed up with people presuming I'm happy when I'm so down. They wouldn't understand me if I told them how I felt. Help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Im fed up with people presuming im happy when im so down. I know this is my fault because i put on a smiley face and pretend im fine but deep down i feel depressed. I have a great supportive family but if i say anything they would laugh it off and ...

Ideas to look older? (make up, clothes, hairstyles)

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - i am 14 years old i look a bit younger i want to look 14 or older but i still have a bit of a baby face i am about 5'2 so i am a bit small but i am still growing and i am thin too.my hair is longish but i want it longer.please can someone give me ...

My partner wants to go to university, but I'm afraid of the distance this implies; feel miserable verytime it's brought up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - my partner wants to goto university, and i hate the thought of them leaving me. I know a relationship couldn't work between us with a 50mile distance if they go. I don't know what to do or say. 'Cos its their life and they can do what they want, but ...

I helped her with tones of things and we were close. But she came back from vacation as a whole different person!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I think this is my lowest point... hello everyone, i have this friend, and she used to be very nice until she went away on vacation, she came back as a whole different person... we talk over IM and phone for hours, because we went to the same ...

I can talk with any guy, unless he is my crush; then I become shy. Advice, anyone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6250 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I like this guy... but.. I barely talk to him. I feel sooo shy when I am in his presence. I'm like, "WTF is wrong with me?" I basically can talk to any guy, unless he is my crush. I think he likes me back, because he is also shy around me. Once...

We nearly kiss, then he texts me to tell me the rumours of having been intimate with a third person aren't true. Does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I Really Like This Guy Who Is 2 Years Older Than Me I Went To His Party The Other Day And Got Really Close, We Nearly Kissed Then I got a text sayin that he had fingered this girl, but this girl is a lyer and she lies to make herself sound good....

When to be used and treated badly in a relation is a "need."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - The last 5 boyfriends I've had have all been lovely, charming, romantic gentleman. Three of them have told me that they love me. But i am SICK of KNOWING that I'm the one thats going to have to end it. Im not the kind of girl who sits pining after a ...

I have a crush on my Music Producer. Is it worth pursuing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I am a small-time musician and I have a seriously intense crush on my producer, who is in a (very) long distance relationship. He's 31 and I'm 19. Are there too many reasons not to pursue him, or should I just go for it? He sends obvious vibes ...

I've met a beautiful new girl... But conversation seems a little arkward! What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Confused about a girl. Ok we'll theres this girl I saw today in my gym class and as soon as I saw her I was like OMG, she was like the prettiest girl I have ever seen. I am very into vampires, and lets just say she looked like a slightly darker ...

I don't know if I should believe her anymore when she keeps blowing me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - my girlfriend asked me out the other day, and i said yes... were happy and talk alot!! but lately ive been coming un stcuk for words... i getvery nervous wen i talk to her and i am alwaiis trying to find reasons to talk/meet her... she keeps ...

I don't know what to do. My guy keeps dumping me because he doesn't like my mates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - ok here goes its really weired but i think i still love this guy, i have already been out with him twice and both times he has dumped me for the most stupidest reason e.g. he had a argument with my bestfriend then dumped me for it. i really don` t ...

Someone has txt me telling me my guy doesn't want me anymore. My guy wont talk to me, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - hi...i posted questions on here a few times about a boy named "J" well things were going really good. i loved him n i thought he loved me....well we got back together after 1 day of being bronken up. So he was supposed to walk with me like always to ...

Is it safe to use anything else apart from a vibrator? If so what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6138 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - is it safe to anything else other than a vibrator or dildo as a self pleasuring measure - if so what? i haven't got a bf at the mo and am a really horny!! any advice would be great. anonymous...

I've liked this guy for 6 years. What do you do when you find out you like a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Hi, this is a really stupid time to ask this and am stupid for not asking earlier. But hey am still going to ask I've liked a guy for 6years and still think about and might still have some feelings for him, am 14 he's 14 anyways i haven't told him ...

I think he likes me but I don't like to make the first move? Help please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Hiya everyone cannn u help me out please? I've known this lad for a few week now and he's really really nice. He talks to me looadds over the net but in school it's really awkward!! I really like him and i can't tell if the feeling is mutual, h...

What shall I do, I don't love him anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - hi i been going out with this boy 4 5 months now but i have relised that i dont love him any more.when i kiss him i dont feel anythink.plus he been tryin to snog me but i dont let him what shall i do?help plz ...

Does he like me and how do I let him know I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - hey im not great at talking to guys. and completly horrendes in relationships - too inexperienced and nervous. but i recently started at a new 6 form college - its great! and there's this guy i have my eye on. he's really cute! he's fairly quiet too ...

How can I get over this obsession about my famous hero?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a student who is currently studying hard and I cannot help but feel deeply upset beacuse, I love Martial arts and I am a fan of a hero who is my role model in the arts, I started out to admire him but then my admiration turne...

Why does my girlfriends mum limit us seeing each other to weekends only?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - My girlfriend's Mom is so over protective but she does give me the chance to date her but every time i speak to my girlfriend she tells me upsetting news about her mother, for example she has been cleaning the house all day and everyone just happens ...

Will it put off guys to find out I am going to wait till marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

28 September 2007 (?) - I am a devoted Christian and I am not going to have sex until I am married and I want to wait. I know I am only young but I was wondering if it would put guy's off me, because I wouldn't have sex with them. When I am older would it affect my ...

He doesn't want to go out with me, but he hardly knows me! How can I get something to happen between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

28 September 2007 (?) - I like this boy so much and he knows that I like him. He said that he didn't want to go out with me and that he just wants to be friend. But he doesn't really know me because we don't talk that much and he hasn't known that for that long. I real...

My mother was a good person, and I miss her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - i need help. im 16 and my mother died 2 yrz ago of cancer of the colon. she didnt smoke, drink or take drugs she didnt deserve 2 die. its soo hard and i cry nearly every day. i have no one to talk to and i feel like nobody else cares. how do i stop ...

My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying to her. But am I just headed for MORE heartache?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - My question is this: My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying. But am I just headed for more heartache? I posted a question just yesterday telling how miserable I was (Because yesterday, I really was miserable over the situation...

Am I still a virgin after oral? Am I a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Okay, so i feel pretty stupid for asking this but here it goes. So i decided to go out with my best friend (girl) because since i got into high skool its been really hard to see her. anyway.. i was going to meet at her house and then wee would goo ...

I was pushed into dating her and want to break up! How can I do that - I'm shy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Well I have been dating this girl who i think is cool for a few days now but i like her friends but i like her to but not like that i was kind of pushed into answering and i dont really know how to break up with her as im shy....

My don't remember cheating, but my gf split w/ me b/c of it! And now there's someone else who likes me! Any advice with both problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Hey. I am 18; my girlfriend has just broken up with me. She broke up with me because I kissed another girl. I don’t remember cheating on her (I was really drunk), but apparently I did. I understand that I lost her trust but I feel like I didn't ...

I cry b/c I know I can't have him; if love is so great, then why do I feel pain and suffering?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I know this might seem strange, but I think I'm in love, even though I'm 15. The guy that I love just turned 18. I like him for who he is, not because he's Mr. Whatever. I would take care of him; I would do whatever I could to help him. Every night, ...

My friend and I like the same guy, but she never talks w/ him! Should I say hi instead and tell him he's hot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - im 11 years old and i really like this guy kyle i mean like hes really cute and nice but the problem is that my friend likes him to and im trying to be supportive of her but she just wont say hi to him and i really like him and hes 2 of my friends ...

I want to ask a guy to homecoming, but I hardly talk with him! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I'm a sophomore, and the guy I like is a senior. Our homecoming is in 3 weeks. I don't talk to him often, and we don't have any classes together. I would like to ask him, but I don't know what he'll say. I asked him to prom last year and he said no, ...

How can I tell if a guy likes me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - How can I tell if a guy likes me or not? I think one of my friends, J, likes me. One day he told my friend we were going out. Today, he dropped his pen underneath my chair twice and asked me to get it. Also, he asks me, and only me, about homework. ...