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He doesn't want to go out with me, but he hardly knows me! How can I get something to happen between us?

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Question - (28 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2007)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I like this boy so much and he knows that I like him. He said that he didn't want to go out with me and that he just wants to be friend. But he doesn't really know me because we don't talk that much and he hasn't known that for that long.

I really want something to happen between us, but I don't know how to make that happen. I could try and talk to him, but what do I say to him? What do you say to a boy that you like who knows that you like him? (One of my friends told him and I was there so it's not like he guessed.)

Are there any other ways to get to know him better other than talking? And what I really want to know is that if I did pluck up the courage to talk to him, what do I say to him?

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A female reader, Ms.Sweet dreams Philippines +, writes (29 September 2007):

Ms.Sweet dreams agony auntmaybe he dont like you coz he has his gf and he don't want to look for other girls. he like to be faithful. if u really like to know him ask him 1st if there is someone special in her heart and if he don't have someone then its ur time to tell him that u want to read books together, something like u want to impress him and im sure he will like u make some crazy stuff to him and make him laugh at ur jokes. thats the guy tickle and he wil stick with u. goodluck!!!

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A female reader, leanne.od United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2007):

leanne.od agony auntthere has to be an initial attraction and it seems that he doesn't feel that way about you.

just make the most of being friends and if anythig happens in the future, so be it but don't put all your energy into trying too hard to make him change his mind because he will see what you're doing and put him off even more.

be yourself, don't put on a act.

best of luck

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