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Archived questions from: July, 2016 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

My girlfriend won't let me touch her. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

31 July 2016 (M) - Hi there. I'm looking for some guidance. I've been seeing a girl for a couple of months now and she barely touches me. I think I should maybe point out I am a very affectionate guy. I know I have a very high sex drive. My previous relation...

Will moving to another state bring me to a happier place than all the drama I've endure here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

31 July 2016 (F) - Hey I need some advice Lately I've been going through alot of bad things. I know it's life and everyone goes through things some point. But I feel like it's only me at the moment. I'm extremely frustrated!!!! I've never been this frustrated bef...

Why do so many men believe they have a right to sex without a condom?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

30 July 2016 (F) - I'm sorry if this comes across as a rant but I'm really annoyed at the moment and looking to hear opinions around whether I've been unlucky or if what I'm experiencing is the norm. Why do the men I meet seem to think it's their right to get to ...

Best friend or girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2934 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - So I've known my best friend since sixth grade,she moved to our hometown during the summer before sixth grade and every since then we've been inseparable. We've been there for each other during everything birth of her first born the birth of ...

How do I get over extreme loneliness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

27 July 2016 (F) - I talked to a guy on Tinder for about a month and after dating a week, we hooked up multiple times. He was interested in something sexual immediately and initially I was only seeking something romantic and a possible relationship. I hadn't been with ...

Why do I always have pain when we have doggy style sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

26 July 2016 (F) - hello everyone, please i have a question, I don't know if something is wrong with me each time my husband and i try to do the doggie style I always feel pain in my stomach so we will end up stoping it, and this is the style my husband love most ...

How do you get your guy to seperate physical affection and sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2961 days ago

25 July 2016 (F) - He does do some things seperately like holding hands or hugging. But like tickling or cuddling or play fighting always leads to sex! I really like sex but this makes me feel used, like everything he did was for sex. It'd be nice if he just jerked ...

Porn and masturbation and the ex. How can I raise these issues with him with it escalating to his usual angry response of, none of your business?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3003 days ago

25 July 2016 (F) - My bf have been together for 4 years on and on, mostly just seeing each other on the weekends. With in those 4 years I have been on my edge with him knowing he Jacks off every morning watching porn or some sort activities with porn on his computer...

My man has ED. How can I support him through this and pleasure him in bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - I've been with my partner for 10 years and we have the most amazing relationship. More recently he has had trouble getting hard enough- or staying hard enough to have sex. I want to be clear- this isn't a problem for me in any way shape or form. I...

My girlfriend doesn't like traditional sex. Is that a red flag?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

23 July 2016 (M) - Maybe this is a problem a lot of guys would wish to have, but my girlfriend of one year doesn't like traditional sex. She loves to give me oral and when we do have sex she always steers it towards anal sex. I say this jokingly, but feel like I a...

Is it wrong that my distant cousin and I share passionate times together? She has a Bf.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

21 July 2016 (M) - I love my distant cousin. We have made love and it feels like the most beautiful thing I have ever done in my life. I don't even feel guilty about it. I have had meaningless sex with other girls before but with her its just amazing and I cuddle her ...

How I get back to enjoying my favourite activity of fellatio, because currently, I gag when I try it ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

21 July 2016 (F) - Ok first is I have been with my fiance for going on 5 yrs, will get married in 2018. I have been previously married, and the reason I say this is I love the taste of cum. My previous husband was very sweet and tasted so good I can handle swallowi...

He likes rough sex, I don't! Am I being unreasonable or is he?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

20 July 2016 (F) - I recently started a relationship with a guy I met 4 months ago. We went out a few times in the last 4 months before deciding we wanted to give a relationship a go. We recently started having sex and it turns out that he is really into rough sex and ...

Do I show him what to do or stick to what's easy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - Hey everyone . This might come across as a bit of an odd question but here goes. Ive just got a new boyfriend hes on the large side body shape im not skinny myself more melissa maccarthy size after her weight loss. Weve not done the deed yet but are ...

FWB but getting emotionally attached

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

18 July 2016 (F) - Hi, i have a male best friend of 12 years who iv recently started sleeping with. We both don't want a relationship but i have found myself getting upset at the thought of him getting a girlfriend. I can't be with him because i know it wouldn't work ...

Is it bad to enjoy no strings attached?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

18 July 2016 (F) - I've been a goody two shoes my whole life. This has been partly out of my fear about making mistakes (I'm a perfectionist) and just a big worrier. I've always hated that I come across as such a square. I've been in a few serious relationships bu...

Feeling trapped but afraid to leave and regret it.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

17 July 2016 (F) - I feel like I am in a predicament. I am in a relationship of about a year and four months. We were friends a few years before getting together. Due to circumstances after a few months of us dating I moved in with him because I had nowhere else to ...

Should I be postponing things because I'm feeling lonely and unwanted as a 23 year old virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

17 July 2016 (M) - I'm having this mental block recently where not having sex has made me postpone plans about my life. I was a very awkward kid and didnt become more comfortable in myself until recently. I have one ex girlfriend but we never had intercourse just...

I don't want to let go of someone I love but my husband keeps on responding to this girl on line. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

17 July 2016 (F) - Hello everyone, I have been with this man a total of 7 years married for 3 and he unfortunately feel in a web web of lies with one of his friends from another country.. And he sent her inappropriate messages and a video of him self " releaving...

A real dilemma......

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

16 July 2016 (M) - Many of you know me for my brilliant advice on this site.... HOWEVER, I now have an enigma of my own.... for which I'd like to ask others their opinion. To wit: If there are two people who are being intimate.... and they have no in...

Is it the end of the road for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

16 July 2016 (F) - Is it the end of the road for us? - We don't talk like we used to do before. He barely contacts me during the weekday because of work issues. During weekends, we cannot see each other as often as we want because he has financial difficulties (I ...

I have an intimate question ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

16 July 2016 (F) - I have an intimate question ... I've been with my boyfriend for two years and we have had sex many times but I've never orgasmed. I'm not sure I can and I think it's really getting my boyfriend down as he feels like he can't satisfy me. Sometimes I ...

Wants a brood mare? Should I meet him? Been talking to him online but some of his questions are a concern.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

15 July 2016 (F) - I know this sounds silly however I have been talking to this guy online. I told him I would meet him as a friend. He has been asking some off questions like if I will be fertile when we have planned to meet. He has asked several times and also w...

Every one she has cheated on me with was a guy. I wonder, what should I do?.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - I am a 25 year old stud lesbian I've been with the same woman since we were 16. We are married. She is the love of my life and couldn't picture one minute with out her in my life But we have had are bad times we have both cheated on each other I ...

What to do? He says if I don't work out with both of them then he wants a divorce

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - My husband had an affair, after I found out and got past the initial shock, I approached his mistress. Asked her to have a threesome. We did, it went well. It didn't take any of the pain away that I am feeling, like I guess I hoped it would. ...

13 years old. Some of our friends have done more than we have ever tried. How should I react if he asks to to do more with him as far as touching?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - Errh', okay - so I'm fairly young, just turned 13 a few days ago. I have a very serious relationship with a boy, who is about a year and a few months older than me. (I'm off to gr. 8, and he's off to gr. 9.) It's extremely obvious that he absolute...

How can I make his family see how possesive they are?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

12 July 2016 (F) - Hi Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now and we have a great relationship we have had our ups and downs but we always work through them and we are confident we will be spending our lives together however we have ...

Guy I'm dating is leaving for an internship, Can you please help me make sense of what is happening?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

11 July 2016 (F) - I'm dating a guy I feel very comfortable with, we both open up a lot and there is a lot of safety, good feels, and emotional connection. However, we both know its short-lived. He's leaving for a great internship and may not move back after his inte...

I met somebody new, but in the past I had sex with his relative

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

9 July 2016 (F) - I recently met someone and we had an instant connection, although I have no idea where this will go as there is a distance factor. The problem is the guilt I'm having about something that happened between myself and this man's relative several ...

Saw 6 Condoms in His Travelling Bag

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

9 July 2016 (F) - Please my big brother and sister in the house, Am married for two years now, we have a daughter. Recently my husband job entailed him travelling a lot. He was travelling today and he took six condoms,he ought to be away for 6 days. I saw it in his ...

Eight weeks pregnant. Angry abusive father to be. I'm crying a lot. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

9 July 2016 (F) - Hi I feel completely lost and don't know what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for a year. We have been living together and I recently found out that I'm pregnant (I am 8 weeks gone) and have decided to keep the baby. Me and my boyfriend do...

I do not want us to split up but how can the issues we have be resolved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3049 days ago

8 July 2016 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now the problem is he has no sex drive whatsoever I'm lucky if it happens once a week at first it wasn't great but was more regular than now he always stares at other women He tells me he likes blondes who ...

Should I insist on marriage before sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

8 July 2016 (F) - Hello am 37 and dating a man of 60, I have never had a boyfriend or even kissed a man due to my fathers control of me for a long time. I am still a virgin. Recently I wanted to wait until marriage, but I wonder if I can find a man who can wait until ...

Should I give in to demands for anal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3049 days ago

7 July 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, my boyfriend has been bringing up sex up the butt. I feel like I don't please him enough because he keeps trying to convince me about this, but I'm clearly offended that I'm not enough. Am I over reacting and taking it personally, or ...

What satisfaction do some men get from sleeping with so many different women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

4 July 2016 (F) - What satisfaction do some guys get from sleeping with so many different women? Seriously, what satisfaction does one get from this? It really perturbs me that there are men like this out there. Men who think it's nothing to sleep with their friend's ...

How can I now deal with things that I now wish I did not know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

4 July 2016 (M) - My wife and I were doing spring cleaning and I came upon a set of her old notebooks. At first they seemed like ordinary college notes. But as I read on, I read about her past sexual addictions and how uncontrollable she was when it came to sex. I...

Now separated and some of the men I meet are a disappointment. Why are they so blunt about asking for sex when they don't know me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3049 days ago

4 July 2016 (F) - I was married for 20 years and now dating again as I separated from my husband. Nothing tragic, just grew apart though still friends and civil with each other. One daughter, away in college who is really cool with the situation . Men I meet: ...

I love women. But I seem to react differently. do get an erection when a woman sees me naked. Does this mean I might be gay?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

3 July 2016 (M) - There is something weird about me. As far back as I can remember, I have always been sexually different from normal men. I do not think I am gay. I am not attracted to other men at all. I am attracted to women, but in a different manner from ...

Is this normal in a good relationship? Or am I being submissive towards him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

3 July 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I have a history of being in abusive relationship. So I wouldn't know a anything about being in a normal relationship. Currently in dating a good person for about 4 months. We have good sexual chemistry and we talk, he doesn't push me ...

I do like the guy, and we've talked since we had sex, on our first date. How do I handle myself when we meet next time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

3 July 2016 (F) - I went out last weekend to the bar district. I had broken up with my boyfriend of 6 months about three weeks prior and just wanted to go out and have a good time. I met a really hot and fun guy. The two of us went back to his place and, obvi...

When I see my cousin all logical and rational thinking stops. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

2 July 2016 (M) - I am madly in love with my cousin. I just can't get her out of my head after a naughty night 3 weeks ago. We didn't actually had sex, but we were exploring each others body and kissed passionately . it was her first time. I thought it was j...

Could this man I've been chatting to for 2 weeks be telling the truth? Or is he lying to me about his dream? Why tell me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3053 days ago

2 July 2016 (F) - Hello iam chatting with a man of 57 years old, he actually lives in the same city, and we are planning to meet in a few days. We chat everyday, and exchange photos. Its been 2 weeks since we started chatting online. One day he told me that he dream...

We had unprotected sex but she took emergency contraception afterward. Should I still be worried about the possibility of pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3054 days ago

2 July 2016 (M) - The other day, my girlfriend and I made a big mistake in having unprotected sex. I don't really know how or why either of us let that happen and I most certainly won't be doing that again! Anyway, I didn't cum inside her and had urinated throughout ...

I'm a 29 year old guy. Virgin, never had a girlfriend, never even kissed a girl. I am thinking of giving up on finding someone, and just trying to have sex. What are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

2 July 2016 (M) - I guess the title says a lot of it. I'm a guy in my late 20's, no girlfriend, haven't had one before. Not really any friends, and it's been awhile since I had any of those either. I have a job, but I'm not really able to connect with anyone. I try ...

My LDR boyfriend isn't interested in phone or video sex after we met up and slept together in person! Is he losing interest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

2 July 2016 (F) - I am dating my boyfriend from last two years. we met through Facebook.In the initial stage of our relationship when we were in long distance. we used to Skype everyday.. almost every day we used to do naughty stuff on video chat. Whenever we used to ...

Should I say anything? If yes, then what can I say? I heard my Mom and her boyfriend having sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3056 days ago

1 July 2016 (M) - I heard my mom and her boyfriend having sex?!? I knew they had sex but I never heard it. It's happened twice already and I haven't told my mother but last night at 2am I got up because I'm sick with the flu and I heard them moaning and stuf...