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writes:Hey everyone . This might come across as a bit of an odd question but here goes. Ive just got a new boyfriend hes on the large side body shape im not skinny myself more melissa maccarthy size after her weight loss. Weve not done the deed yet but are planning to soon . My slight issue is positions ( we are not virgins ) i dont always want to be the one on top and enjoy missionary i know ill be able to take his weight if he was on top but im concerned about his waist line getting in the literally . i know well have to work together to see what works for us , do i just take the lead and show and tell ? im not a confident woman or just stick to whats easy and works comfortably . thanks in advance Reply to this Question
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reader, Denizen +, writes (19 July 2016):
 He should be able to support his own weight unless he is grossly obese. Where there's a will...
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (19 July 2016):
 Considering you don't seem to know yet what will work for the two of you, it seems premature to take the lead. I think it should be a bit of mutual exploration. It's up to you, but given that you're saying you'd be out of your comfort zone, and you're not sure how your bodies will fit together, I think it'd be a more awkward experience than you want. I haven't been with a larger man, so this might be me being ignorant, but I don't see how other positions couldn't work out. Maybe angles would have to be modified a little. I also immediately thought of spooning, but he probably could stand and you be on on the bed. Maybe you've already thought of all this, in which case, disregard! Good luck!
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