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writes:Please my big brother and sister in the house, Am married for two years now, we have a daughter. Recently my husband job entailed him travelling a lot. He was travelling today and he took six condoms,he ought to be away for 6 days. I saw it in his travelling bag.when I asked him, he said it's for his boss, he asked him to bring it for him. I was shock, although we use condom to prevent another baby.He assured me and told me it's for his boss honestly, but deep inside me I don't know what to believe.Please advice me, is he saying the truth....
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 July 2016):
 He is more than likely lying to you and while he is away on his travels he is hooking up with girls. I think you deserve better than having a cheating husband. I would have his bags packed for him and ask him to leave.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2016): He's LYING!!!I have enough experience with cheaters. And sadly, he came up with the quickest excuse his brain could think of spur of the moment. He wasn't expecting you to find the condoms or confront him. If he had longer to think about it, he might have been able to cover up the truth a little better. Come up with a more BELIEVEABLE excuse. This one can be chalked up to the element of surprise and being totally unprepared.He sucks at quick thinking by the way. He would not make a good career cheater. Also, hiding evidence and hiding it well is something all cheaters need to do flawlessly well.He cannot even seem to master the basics of Cheating 101.Why were you looking in his travel bag?Has he cheated on you before? Has he behaved questionably around other women in the past?Something tells me you are not at all surprised by his behaviour.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (10 July 2016):
 Of course chigirl is correct. Unprotected sex can potentially be lethal anywhere. I just was referring to the fact that Nigeria has a high incidence of AIDS/HIV.
There are currently 3,2 million people living with HIV there, but only 21 per cent are on antiviral treatment.
Of all people living with HIV globally, 9 per cent of them live in Nigeria.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (10 July 2016):
What kind of grown man would ask a co-worker to bring condoms for him? The answer? no one, specially not if he is the boss, that would just make him look shady. And seriously.... it's not a big deal to buy condoms for an adult male.
I'm sorry I think your husband is a liar.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 July 2016):
 *cough* Unprotected sex can be lethal in any part of the world *cough*
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reader, Denizen +, writes (10 July 2016):
Well I think we are all clear that the line about buying them for his boss is probably a white lie. I think the most likely thing is that he hopes to get lucky. It's the boy scout motto of, 'Be prepared'.
On the good side, at least he is not intending to have unprotected sex which can be lethal in your part of the world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am very grateful for the response so far, his boss is a male. Also, I can say I am very sure he is not gay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2016): Maybe his boss is a female and he forgot to mention it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2016): Im sorry but your husband is sleeping with someone on that trip. It is up to you to stay in that relationship or leave because believe it or not there is no guy who will buy another guy condoms. Unless he is gay and that is another hurtful situation.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (10 July 2016):
That is a lie. His boss would buy his own condoms. Not ask an employee to bring any. I mean, did you ever ask any of your co-workers or friends if they would bring you condoms? No, you buy them yourself.....
He is probably cheating, sorry to say so.
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reader, miss frank +, writes (10 July 2016):
It's so hard when you what so badly to believe someone, because the alternative is so unbearable tho think about. However, I wouldn't believe this, its too ridiculous I'm afraid. Hes either hoping to get laid or is sleeping with someone going on the trip. Sorry.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 July 2016):
 It sounds like a big fat lie to me.
I am sure that his boss would be perfectly capable to get himself his own condoms, and also that he ( the boss ) would PREFER to do that, rather that involving his employees in his own most personal and private business.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2016): I'm sorry dear, men don't ask men to bring them condoms. Unless they are sleeping with each other (I'm only assuming). Especially not one's boss that is very unprofessional. If your husband is cheating know that you should not blame yourself. Your husband is either sleeping with women or with his boss one or the other. This in no way has anything to do with you, you see we men are weak and often cheat easily. Now the choice of you staying or leaving is one you have to make. Don't ask why but ask how because it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with his own issues.
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reader, Caring Aunty A  +, writes (10 July 2016):
 Seriously what boss can not afford to buy his own condoms? A cheating married boss!
A single man would carry his own. A good faithful married man leaves his condoms at home and makes excuses to his boss, not to his wife.
I'm sorry to say; your husband is either lying or acting as a cover for his cheating boss.
CAA
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reader, Ivyblue +, writes (10 July 2016):
 Well it's 50/50. You either do believe him or you dont.I highly doubt that his boss would ask him to do such a thing. Why would a grown man ask another grown man to supply him with condoms? And exactly six, is he that confident he will pick up and get laid each day he is away or is there someone else you dont know about going along? Its not like his boss cant get his own. Personally, I wouldn't believe it for one second. Seems you have caught him out.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (10 July 2016):
If he's bringing condoms, he's bringing them to have sex with other women. End of story.
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