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Archived questions from: 23 November, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

What do you all think of 'one night' stands?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I'm sort of on the fence about one night stands and would really like other peoples opinions on them, both men and women.. I've had about 5 in total now and they've all been mainly when i'm drunk. Each time we have been careful and used protect...

Is he flirting with me just to get me in bed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - i have been flirting with this guy now for about 3 months however i don't know if i should take things further or not. Ok he works in the bar im a local at and i see him every weekend. The first time i seen him he just kept staring at me th...

Would his erection problem be okay, if he was with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Is it possible,that my husband can cure his erectile dysfunction with a new relationship? I mean is there any chance if someone can't have a normal erection and losing it when inside, but has no medical reasons for 5 years. My husband and me are ...

I would love to have a threesome with two BBW's!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - My question is a bit of a different one. How can I convince two BBW's (Big Beautiful Women) for a threesome.. My story started in 5th grade a long time ago.....(70's ) We we in line going to recess and we were lined up girl boy girl etc in a c...

Help! I can't orgasm!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hi. I am wondering if you have any advice for me - I can't orgasm. I enjoy sex, foreplay and masturbation and have a few sex toys and vibrators, but nothing seems to make me come. I get to the point where I feel like I'm about to come, I get a hot ...

Squirting problem...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I'm 42 and for 9 years while having sex I will squirt. I would like to know if this is normal and if there are other women with this problem?...

I am in love with my sister's boyfriend's son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts. Please Help. A Few Months ago I Got together with my sisters partners son. Hes 16 im 20. it took a while for us to admit how we felt and 1 thing led to another. my sister then split from her partner and he and his son left. i ...

I'm Falling for a Married man, "my boyfriend"...I Need Some Advice.(affair)

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Im Falling for a Married Man,were having an affair. Ive allowed him to consider me as his girlfriend, and hes my "boyfriend" Ok, I will tell you all the informantion i think you need to know to understand what im going through, from beginning t...

We just met on the phone and he's talking sex, kids, and marriage!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I spent a whole night...last night...talking to a friend I know on the phone. I don't really know what happened, but we started talking about sex after I described the outfit I was wearing. We met through a mutual friend of both of ours and though ...

I am having an affair and want to end it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I am 41 years old and married. i am having an afair with a 25 year old person. he is of lower financial class than I . i have a child that i adore. i want to stop this afair and i can not sometimes i dream of being with this guy for ever but i ...

She makes out with me and then tells me she just wants to be friends! I'm so confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - ok so this girl and I have been talking for over a month now. I really like her! she says she likes me. however I'm not sure and just wanna confirm it. we have partied together a few times and every time she has found me and been right next to me...

Pregnant and feeling rejected!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hi I am 18 years old and my boyfriend is 20 we have been together for 2 years although we broke up for 10 months and got back together in june not long after we got back together i found out i was pregnant. 5 months have past and everthing seemed...

Is it wrong to want to have sex with your first cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Is it Wrong to want to have sex with your first cousin? I have liked him since i was very young, around 14 or so, first it was wishing i could kiss him(which ive never done) but since i turned 17 its been to actually have sex with him...(ive had m...

Could "spotting" mean pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesterday, and it was the first time in about 6 months. I have went a year without sex before and this has never happened to me! I started spotting today, just barely. I am kinda worried. I think that ...

I want my girl to feel sexy and be sexy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - My long distance relationship has just eclipsed the 3 year mark. I love my girlfriend, but the distance has been a substantial challenge for us both. We are working to resolve this issue but there is no foreseeable resolution given the current job ...

Why is my wife not as tight as she was?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - I went away for couple of weeks to work, and when i came back, my wife was sort of lose, and before i went out, she was nice and tight. When i asked her why she got loose, she jumped and and chaged the topic and she did not want to talk about it...

Can anyone suggest some exercises I can do to make me last longer next time I have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - I really need help. I've suffered from premature ejaculation for ages. When I was with my girl we'd have sex about 3 times a week and that went on for 2 years until she broke up with me. I literally last about 10 seconds when having sex. As s...

Is sex painful?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend of 2 years with all my heart,the problem is when we kiss, whenever he feels horny and asks for sex, I get really scared, is sex really that bad and is it painful?...

She covers herself up during sex and I have no idea why!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - I am in a relationship with my partner for over 9 years now, everytime we are having sex she is always covering her breast and folding her hands round her chest with her eyes closed, never allow me to kiss her, I find it difficult to make her ...

Was this my period or do I still need to take a pregnancy test?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - is it possible for me to be pregnant? i had unprotected sex(yes i know, its my bad so no lectures or rants please) a week ago yesterday, last sunday, the 15th november, took immediate action by going to the local minor injuries unit to get the ...

How often per week should a couple have sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

23 November 2009 (?) - Ok since this has been a reoccuring theme on this site of late, I would like to settle once and for all, how often per week should a couple have sex. My theory is: 3 times combined with 3 times asking how her day was and back/foot rub. And one day...

My girlfriend wont have sex with me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - My girl(24) and I(21) have had a, ON and OFF dating history over the past 3 years but over the past 11 months we have been realllly serious. When we got back together (11 months ago) we used to have sex alllllll the time, im talking like 4-5 times a ...

Blow jobs and riding..need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - So there are 2 simple things i need help with... The first things i would like help with is as follows: I'm nervous about oral sex. "Blow-jobs". I don't really know why. But is there any way to make me feel a bit more comfortable about it? I ...

Why do I always have to stimulate myself during sex to have ogasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I have this issue. I cannot "cum" or have an orgasm during sex. We usually spend a while on forplay n stuff before actual sex but then i have to rub my clit during, or i won't cum no matter how good it feels. It makes me feel like there is so...

How to decrease the pain from sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - hey all after having sex for the first time the other day, my girlfriend and i were both sore as we expected is there anything we can do in between having sex next time to decrease pain? (ie stretching foreskin heaps, i dont have any problem re...

He wanted to slow things down, so we had sex. How does he feel about me now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - ok so i dont kno what to do ive been talkin to a guy for 7mos. in the begining it was great but then he said he didnt have time for a gf so we slowed down. recently we took the next step and became intimate. i really like him and i wanna kno what...

How do I get my boyfriend to show his affection physically?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - how do i get my boyfriend become more physical and touchy?...

To blow or not to blow?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Ive done alot of cyber sex in my day (not too proud either) and lately a guy that i have been talking to for several months now is talking pretty seriously with me as in a relationship...we've never cybered but we do talk openly about sexual ...

How does a woman know when she's had an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - How does a female know she has had an orgasm? i know that sounds stupid. but my boyfriend is always telling me that i should just let go and orgasm already or are you going to orgasm soon and i dont really know what it is like i dont know how i ...

Men don't turn me on, but they don't turn me off either. What does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - Hi. I'm 17 years old and I'm not really sure about my sexual preference right now. I've always been really attracted to girls but I've also never been GROSSED OUT by guys. I've dated a few girls and I'm still extremely attracted to girls, but whil...

He hasn't made a move and I don't want to miss my chance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I really need some unbiased advice for my situation. I really like this guy, and personally think he's right for me. We're both very religious, and saving ourselves for marriage. Neither of us have dated or kissed anyone, so we're both very ...

Not attracted to obese boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I have been with the same guy for three years, we are both in our 40s. When I met him he had just lost 140 lbs through diet and exercise and was running marathons. A big part of my attraction to him was admiration for having lost all that weight and ...