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Archived questions from: 20 November, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I don't want a relationship but a one night stand might be ok, how do I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - I am in love with a guy who I dated best friend of him I desire him so much we were just friend at the beginning but some emotional reactions started and he ran away I am thinking it is because of his best friend that he doesn't want to be in a ...

Will expanding our sex life to include other people help or hinder our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - My bf and I are wanting to try something in our sex life that he is interested in having sex in front of another couple with no touching and no swapping partners which is what i want but i have a slight doubt. I'm afraid that maybe he will be ...

How can I ask him to make sex more meaningful for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - I'm 25 years old and my husband is 33. We have been married for 2 years now and have a beautiful 18 month old daughter. We got married after dating for only 2 months, because I got pregnant. Sex is now becoming more of a chore than it should b...

Should I come clean and tell him the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Ok, I need some general help here, I am really into this guy, who says he's into me but nothing too heavy, I didn't want a FWB but it's what we have, all we have done is kissed and some oral, he now wants sex but I have told him I am not ready yet ...

My girlfriend dated celebrities and I'm not sure what to make of it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 November 2009 (M) - I met my girlfriend 5 months ago in a nightclub through a friend. We got chatting and after an hour I got her number and arranged to meet her at her place to watch a movie. I was busy with work and didnt call. I saw her in the same club a week later ...

Is it normal to think sex is disgusting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - I am 33 yrs old and could care less if I had sex again!! It's gross, and disgusting I have to be drunk to have sex with my husband. Is that normal, and how do you think I should handle it?...

Can anyone tell me what these secretions are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 November 2009 (M) - i am almost 16 now. about 6 months back, i was sleeping when i got these really erotic dreams. now usually if i get erotic dreams there's semen secretion. but the next morning when i woke up, there was no semen. but instead, there was this really ...

He slept with me even though he had an STD but I still like him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - ok so here goes... i met this man who says he really likes me. we did oral sex but nothing else he texted me and rang all the time and i met up with him again and had unprotected sex. he continued to tell me he really liked me ect and we arranged ro ...

How do I turn my FWB into something more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - So there's this guy that I like, but I don't feel like he feels the same way I do. We are currently in a friends with benefits relationship, but I want it to be more. It would be very hard for us to be in a relationship, because I do online ...

I want to spend the rest of my life with him but I'm not sure he feels the same way about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - i have asked this questions,he doesn't want to marry a person who already have a child,is he using me until he finds someone for his life and i want to stop cheating but he dont satisfy me sexually.all this questions are from me and it speaks of ...

He just wont touch, kiss or hold me...and we've only been married 46 days!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Hi. I've been married for just under 2 months, been with him 5 years. We're both 25. Lived together for 3 years. In the past 2 years, our sex life has diminished drastically. Mind you, in the past two years, he's been in University doing a ...

Should I question him about this or leave it be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Hi I would really like the aunts interpreration of this man. I'm in a relationship with a guy we are both around 60. we have great sex and enjoy it very much.but sometimes he doesn't cum like today he always tells me how beautiful the love making is ...

Ex still wants sexual favors... WHY?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 November 2009 (?) - my bf and I live together but have just recently broken up. He asks me for hand-jobs, why? We are broken up but he asks me for hand jobs and also asked me if I still want something from him. I said I don't want anything sexual from him because we ...

Sexually frustrated new mom... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - My husband and I are very young. We have been together for two + years, I got married when i was 18 and my husband was my first sex partner! I just a few weeks ago had a baby, our first. I am very sexually frustrated, (you can't have sex for at ...

Phone sex making fiance sleepy... am I just a sexual relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Why is it that every time after we have phone sex my fiance gets very sleepy afterwards. I mean well have phone sex a couple times a day sometimes, then shortly afterwards, he's over there snoozing. Am I the only one that this happens to. When he ...

Bf has 11 inch penis... how can we make sex more comfortable for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Please take this seriously. Me and my boyfriend have been trying to have sex for a while, we have been going out for 5 years and trying for the last few months. It is really hurting me, and it is becoming unpleasant, we just end up arguing....

I bled after masturbating - what happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - some day before i did sex with my finger. my boyfriend see me on web cam and he told me how to do.i did that. he told me do it with pen so i take 2 pen and i did with pen.after sometime i get blood i dont know how its come. i am in tension and i ...