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Archived questions from: 14 November, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Serious sexual dysfunction without a cause!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - What can you do if your husband is permanently, sexually off? It started few years ago. In our early 40's. Now, we tried everything therapy, medical investigations but there is no answer, why is he the way he is. No medical cause, and not clear wh...

My ex has a new girlfriend. Should we continue our secret relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfried broke up after i lost our baby, he has a new girlfriend but we are still messing around, should i stick around or leave him alone even tho i kno he still loves me?...

Should I be concerned about his fetishes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years who I love dearly, constantly talks about sex. He masterbates at least 2 or more times a day. We do not live together, but we spent the weekends together and some nights during the week. We both are 53 yrs old. He has star...

Is it wrong to have sex during your period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Is it wrong to have sex when you're on your period? I recently did and I believe that I freaked my partner out, but I didn't think anything about it and forgot to tell him....

Why are my friends so immature about sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

14 November 2009 (?) - Why is it that when I think of a guy I really like and him having sex with me I get horny...but most of my friends are not mature about stuff like this(example: they are always doing the 'thats what she said' and laughing about penises and think ...

He wants to have sex but I don't. Should I just use him to practice kissing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I need some advice: I have been interested in a guy a work for some time and he is really into me. The only thing is he doesn't want anything serious and I did at the time, but I realised that it was never going to happen, so because I like h...

Does a man get angry if I won't perform oral sex until he's cleaned himself off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Does a guy get upset/angry if when giving a hand job and he asks you to go down on him because he is about to come and he didn't have anything to clean him self afterwards and you refuse? I mean we were just making out and things went a bit furth...

I had sex with both brothers, but fancy the younger one. How can I fix this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Okay, this is very dramtic. but heres the story. I met a guy. He is 15 and i am 15. he became pretty close friends and by pretty close i mean really close. he kind of ended up falling in love with me. Well he was a virgin and i took his vi...

My husband has a small penis and I love the other man!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Im 29 and have been married for two years now but stil in love with a married man. Ive known this man before my husband and we love each other so much. I thought i was going to leave him after my marriage but i couldnt because i love him so much ...

Can one catch an STD through oral sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I really want to know if you can catch STD's through having Oral Sex? Thanks :)...

I'm angry hurt and confused about this dilema I am in

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - A few months ago, a friend in my social circle had been flirting with me. Things progressed, and we made out, fooled around a few times. I'm a virgin and didn't really want my first time to be casual sex, as he continually stated how he just wanted ...

Am I right or wrong for agreeing to have sex with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - hiii......i have frnd named sunny.we are family frnds.i know him from my childhood.he is a very good frnd of mine.he undrstands me in every situation.at first i used to be a good frnd of him,then without my notice i became very affectionate of him.i ...

Losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - My friend with benefits always used to arrange to see me, now it seems the other way around if I didn't put the effort in I could go a month without seeing him. When I do ask him to meet me he normally would. The time he did choose I was busy then ...

I feel insecure about not being his first. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Heya, I've been with this guy for awhile. He's my first everything. He's a few years older than me, and has more experience. He's my first relationship and love, while I'm not his. And this makes me feel insecure, does anyone have any e...

I am in love with my best friend.... oh yeah....and btw...she's a married woman.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - I am in love with my best friend and she is married. I feel so bad about it, but I can't ignore my feelings anymore. It seems like the more we hang out, the more I want to be with her. I have slept with a total of 43 girls (2 of which I was in a ...

She surprised me by saying she wants sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - Allo My girlfriend and i have been together for two years, and we're fine and dandy. Recently though she surprised me by saying she wants sex. She surprised me more then by asking 'What if I was drunk and I had sex with another guy at a party a...

I think I love him and I think he likes me back. I want to have sex... but will it fit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I have a couple questions. my first question is that I have know this boy since i was 2 years old and i always thought of us as just friends and now i think i love him. I am 14 and he is almost 17. I think he likes me back but i just dont know wat...