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Archived questions from: 22 November, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I smell bad and I don't want sex because of it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and have currently been in a 1 year relationship with my boyfriend. Only recently i have noticed and increase in the amount of discharge i am producing, its a white colour and is very think with an off putting smell which puts me off having ...

When is he going to ask me to be his girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Ok, pretty simple question. I've been seeing this new guy for nearly a month. For about 2 weeks it's been getting serious. We are together almost every night when we both get off work. He never makes plans without me and I always invite him to ...

How do you know when your hymen is no longer there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Okay so my question is pretty simple, how do you know when your hymen is no longer there? I mean I've been fingered before and I've managed to get like a 5 inch dildo up there so that mean it's gone right? I know it's an odd question but I was just ...

I can't keep it hard during sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I've got a problem but I don't have a clue what causes it: Whenever I have sex with my girlfriend; whom i care deeply for; I sort of gradually lose my erection- like really slowly over 20 minutes or so- and no matter what (if she's performing ...

Trouble with the contraceptive implant! help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - i have the contraceptive implant. i must of had it in for atleast 2 1/2 months now and ive been bleeding constantly, however its not normal menstrual blood its different. me and my boyfriend do not use condoms btw. i dont know whether im pregnant. i ...

I'm very worried that I can't tell if I like girls or guys, or both

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - [Moderator note: You are not bothering us with 'stupid teen' questions. We're here to help as much as we can.] hi i have a big problem and i need help figuring this out in my life. im only 17 but i am having trubble telling if i like girls or guys ...

My wife suddenly won't allow me to have sex with my girlfriend!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - [Moderator note: question edited for clarity] Me, my wife, and my girlfriend have been involved for a while. My wife has allowed this because 1) she was my ex fiance and 2)I have an over active sex drive that would make a porn star blush. My wife ...

Where can I get a sex toy without my parents' knowledge?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - Hey, I am 15, male, and i am straight, but i recently have been using my moms vibrator for anal pleasure. i like girls, but i also enjoy anal pleasure. is there any way i can get a butt plug, anal beads, or vibrator without telling my parents?...

Is this my period or implantation bleeding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hello I had sex with his guy I know ..I made him use a condom ... He continued to keep it on even tho he had came in it??? But, after a whle I made him put on a new one. Also, when he was puttin it on, he put it on he wrong way so he then would...

Sex with my girlfriend really bothers her as she says it's wrong. How can I change her attitude?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been having sex for about 3 months now, she says it really bothers her to have sex with me because she knows it is wrong and this is the only reason why she says... I really do love her but this is now going to seeam to me ...

He doesn't want me to masturbate when he's not in the mood for sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hi all, I am having a problem. I am 42 years old and since I can remember I loved making love especially oral sex at least once a day. As a result of having a high sex drive I have loss a lot of sleep and have had numerous arguments with m...

I can't stop having sexual dreams about him help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I can't stop having sexual dreams about me and my ex, i've been told its natural etc but its not how i am - I'm quite a shy girl and never used to think about sex really. Unlike my friends I'm in no rush to have sex, mainly because I'm quite ...

She doesn't seem to want me as much now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - Im in a new relationship (my first proper one). Im 22 and lost my virginity to her, every thing seems good but when we go to bed shes always tierd and i have a very high sex drive. We were having sex most weekends when we were together but now we ...

I had a one night stand with my cousin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - hello, there is no one else i can talk to about what im going to tell. what ive done is illegal and could get me into alot of trouble, here is my story. okay so my cousin moved in with me my brother and my mom at the be...

I need sex advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - hi i am 20 years of age i want to know wat can i do to make him nut more than once and moan as muvh as i do i also dont know how to ride or give oral sex please help me...

I masturbate to naked photos of father

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - my dad has an affair and i have seen him sharing his naked pics with an other lady and i masturbate after seeing this of my dad i dont masturbate but i find myself very hard to control it ........... please counsel me .... ...

I can't have sex because condoms turn me off!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - I Can't Have Sex Because Condoms Immediately Turn Me Off. What Do I Do? Cuz The Girl I Really Like Won't Go On The Pill. I've Tried To Have Sex But I Can't Because Of The Condom Issue So I'm A Virgin And I Just Want To Get It Over With. What Do I ...

Stuck on her sexual past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - Im 18 shes 17. Okay. So this may sound stupid to most of you. But hear me out. Me and my g/f has ben datin 4 almost 6 months now. She has 13 sexual partners she first claimed 4 were rape but has sense came clean to only one being rape. While i ...

Calming advice needed about pregnancy scare

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - help! i was stupid enough to have unprotected sex and im worried about my gf. it was our first time, and we mainly just tried getting in comfortably etc no full on fucking. hence i didnt come close to cumming, and i wasnt in her for more than 10 ...

We had great sex but she still doesn't want to be my g/f. I am so confused!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - Sorry if this is long. I've liked this particular girl for a long time, over a course of three years that I've been friends with her. When I first met her she was in a abusive relationship, then when they broke up I thought I would give her a while ...

Is it safe to have sex with my girlfriend, we are 19 this year?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - may i ask is it safe to have sex with my girlfriend,we are 19 this year,i was just afraid that having sex before 20 will higher the chance to have vaginal cancer?is it true?...

What does 'I lust you' mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - what does it mean if someone says to you "i lust you" instead of "i love you"? my friend said this to me and i dont quite understand...

He loses his erection quickly now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hello Guys, Iam just curious. what makes guys hard their penis? and when their penis getting harder, does it mean that they take a pleasure? what is that mean supposed to be? I have a bf and untill last week when we kissed , his penis was always...

My boyfriend can't achieve orgasm through penetration

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - From the 1st time my partner met we hit it off and from the 1st time we had sex we just knew we were made for each other but the 1st few times I spotted that he can't come from penetration and I'd have to wank him off or give him a blow job for him ...

Will he 'fit' when we have sex tomorrow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I really need help . I am 18 and i going to have sex with my boyfriend of 4 years tomorrow and i am worried that my vagina is to small for his penis.like stretching wise and i was wondering how can i make it fit if it doesnt? and some advice f...

How do I gain more confidence with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 3 months and i have not got any confidence around him what so ever, I really want 2 make the effort. How could i turn him on so he want to come onto me? Also have you any ideas that will help gain my confidence? Please...

How long can sperm be active outside of body? Can I get pregnant if he doesn't cum inside me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - okay so me and my boyfriend have sex, and i was just wondering is it possible to get pregnant even if he doesnt cum directly inside of me? how long can sperm be active outside the body???? ...

I want sex from him all the time now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and i have sex a lot. Is this a bad thing? I really like it but sometimes i wish i wouldve lost my virginity when i was older. Now i just want to do it, now that im not scared and i know how good it is. I have an amazing boyfriend that i...