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I'm ready to move on and be happy. Maybe my ex just isn't the one?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - so me and my ex have broken up for about 2 1/2 months now, we still talk and are friends, we were going to start dating in about a month and give us another try (we were together for about 3 years), but today she came to my house to tell me that she ...

2 children, a 3rd on the way. I fee blessed but overwhelmed. How do I cope?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Hi, I could really use some advice and someone to talk to in general. Some backround, Im 23, my fiance is 26 in nov. We have two young children (ages1 and 2) we both work and alternate our schedules around e/o, except sunday, the day my mom ...

Should I let her remarks undermine my trust in him? She claims I was second best, that he chose me because her friend didn't want him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Hi I found out my boyfriend cheated on me a few years ago Anyways we got back on track solved all the problems in our relationship, and everything was going great. We have a child our own home and I am madly in love with him. My problem is a ...

Will a time ever come where I can accept what happened and move on with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - Hi all, Ever since I aborted my unplanned pregnancy, I have felt such a great deal of guilt and sadness. I know this is to be expected but the feeling of resent and anger is becoming too much to handle. My boyfriend hurt me so much during...

Should I tell my guy that I might be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I was with my last boyfriend stuart for 6 months. I have the contraceptive implant and when me and ever since me and stuart broke up we still sleep together. I have miscounted my last period as I bleed everyday and have for a few months. I am ...

My due date is soon. I'm really scared. So how can I get this fear under control?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - When my mum had my youngest sister 6 years ago she had really bad complications in pregnancy (eclampsia) She ended up really sick and to be honest it frightend me to bits as being 18 at the time, the memory is very fresh. I'm now expecting my...

He's looking at Porn every night. Is this what men do or is this unacceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Mondote: Please provide your age next time you ask a question to help people who answer your question/s. Been with C for 8years, lived together for 5years and have an 8month old baby. Always had arguments about porn with empty promises about not wa...

Which woman understands me best? I feel more love for this second woman. What should I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - i have a baby with someone and i stay with her, but the problem is i have beendating someone else, for more than a year now. The other woman and I love one another so so much. It is like my first relationship ever ,we talk ,we laugh and we understan...

I'm jealous that his 16 year old daughter is pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Ok I know this is going to generate negative responses but here goes. My longtime baby daddy just informed me that his 16 yr old is 5 months pregnant. One, I can't shake off that he waited 5 months to tell me and second, I can't help but to feel ...

I've started taking the pill but the doctor gave no advice at all!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - so i went to my doctor and got the pill but she was no help at all with what to do. So i had to research and ask my friends, basically I started my period this monday, but i started taking the pill today. My friends said this is fine, because ...

My gay girlfriend told me she was pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

20 October 2012 (F) - I'm having some problems. The other week my girlfriend told me she was pregnant. Now I'm not stupid enough to be thinking its mine, I'm gay, it's impossible, that's the problem. She's obviosly been with a man. I've not spoken to her since she told ...

Love really can conquer all. A story of taking a chance and finding true love. Thanks DearCupid.org

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

19 October 2012 (F) - So this is more of a story than a question. I used this website to find advice about 6 months ago. I had asked if it was a smart decision to move 7 hours away with a guy I only met a couple times. The advice was not what I wanted to hear of cours...

I'm pregnant, I look after his son. But he's gone cold on me. And he's talking to his ex. Can we make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Dear cupid. I been dating my boyfriend for nine months now. At first he was the best. Now he acts different towards me and my family. He seems so cold like he doesn't care about nothing. He says he is hard on me to make me stronger, but its on...

How can I get my family and friends to accept my 25 year old pregnant Gf / future wife and all understand all that she means to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

17 October 2012 (M) - my family and friends will not accept that my 25 year old girlfriend soon to be wife is in love with me and wants to be with me. they call her horrible insulting names. yea i cheated on my wife of many many years, and left her for this girl. i...

I don't like it that my b/f tells friends our personal business but only tells part of the story!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

17 October 2012 (F) - I'm upset with my boyfriend, and i'm not sure how i am going to talk about this with him. He gave me his facebook password recently. He didnt say why he gave it to me though. I logged into his account last night, and i was upset by some things he ...

She is half my age and up the duff!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - OMG!! my husband of 21 years wants a divorce after getting his co-worker who is half his age pregnant. he says he loves me but he is in love with her and wants to marry her, and is excited about the baby. we had no children together but i had 2 from ...

I'm a lost girl and I'm losing myself in this sea of men I've been seeing. What advice can you give me please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - Facts and dates these thing occurred: June 9th- ectopic pregnancy August 17th- He went back to his hometown September 1st- October 12th guy number 2 who went back to his baby mamma October 13th- I slept with g...

Should I confront my ex's finance over her actions whenever my ex visits his son? Is she jealous or insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - Hello cupids! Some help here would be appreciated. I have an 8 week old son with my ex. I left him when i was 3 months pregnant because he cheated, and i was confronted by the "other woman". At the time he had been with her we were not serious...

How do I get through this? I'm a young Mom. BoyF left me. Despite medical assistance this situation is affecting my everyday routines.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - Hi fellow Cupids, Bit of an issue on my hands. Recently (The past month or so) I have been feeling depressed like you wouldnt believe. Im currently on medication to no avail, so I'm attempting a different route and hoping you guys could offer ...

Lost my baby to SIDS in Feb. My husband is totally unsupportive to me and only wants sex. Is it time to leave and take my daughter with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

13 October 2012 (F) - hey guys i have been married since 2007 we have a 3 yr old girl. When i met him i was so in love but then came him being outside all day with the guys. We lost the relationship we had He never has interest in finding a job to support us. It'...

My boyfriend got his roommate pregnant with twins. We have a child together. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - Please help me I just found out about my boyfriend, who lives in another house, got his roommate pregnant 7 months ago. She now had twins but she's not out of the hospital yet. I found out about it today I have never liked her. the first time I...

My guy's mother hates me. How can I get her to accept me and her grandson?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - I met my bf three years ago just before he left to go over seas with the army. We didnt "offically" start dating until he came home because he didnt think it was fair to ask me to wait for him, We wrote each other almost daily and I waited for...

My boyfriend has a thing for pregnant women, so does this mean he has a thing for my pregnant 19 year old daughter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

10 October 2012 (F) - Agony Aunts I need help please!!!! I just recently found porn on my boyfriends phone. I was looking for a pic I had emailed him of a rare protected snake so it coulr be forward to the DNR. The porn was in the downloads with the picture he downl...

I sometimes break down and cry because my daughter has ASD Autism Spectrum

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

10 October 2012 (F) - I know this site is for love, sex, and other questions such as this, but I have another heartache I would like to see if anyone can comment on. I have two daughter's 12 and 5 yrs old. My youngest has ASD Autism Spectrum Disorder. She was diagnosed ...

Have you ever caught your spouse, fiance or boyfriend perving on high school girls and I found his porn stash

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - When we go out to eat at a local restaurant (it's a small rural town) I noticed that my boyfriend will stare over quite a lot at the local waitresses teenage daughter who is 17 when the daughter decides to come into the restaurant to see her mother ...

When would be the right time to tell my students that I am pregnant?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - I'm a 29 year-old woman and I recently found out that I am expecting. I'm a teacher, so is my husband, and we work at the same high school. We've been married for 15 months. I'm fairly skinny and I'm about 6 weeks pregnant. I haven't starting ...

I want another baby, but I suffer from anxiety and depression.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - i just wanted to write I'm 20 with a 21month old girl and I've been talking to my partner for awhile that we want another one and i really want to have another baby but i suffer extreme anxiety and my pregnancy with my daughter wasn't the best i ...

Breast feeding with breast implants?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - just wondering with women who have had breast implants did any of you have a child afterwards? and did it change your breast implant could you breast feed. i have a daughter already and gotten breast implants i want another child and just wonderin...

He's in love with me and his ex-girlfriend. Is it understandable that I am not feeling as comfortable as before? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4434 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have, what we and everyone else call the perfect relationship. Both of our last two relationships were not good. We were always the calm, rational one being yelled at, griped at, fought with, argued with, exploded on etc. O...

Married to a Serial Cheater. Our baby will be born in January. And your advice about what to do about this situation would be?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

4 October 2012 (F) - I am married to what I think is a serial cheater. We have been together 7 years married for 4 years. Once caught him on sex dating websites, with hidden email accounts and we put an end to it and communicated on what and why he did it and some of h...

How can this be resolved? I have a feeling that my Bf does not want to tell his family that he has a daughter almost 3 years old.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

3 October 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm 18, and I have a daughter who turns 3 in December Basically, I fell pregnant and I didn't find out until i was 14 weeks pregnant, I'm still with the childs father but here's the tricky part, 2 weeks before I found out I was pregnant, my...

Could he care about our baby? Or is he just using me when he needs something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

1 October 2012 (F) - Hello My name is Sexy C, I need some help I have been with this guy for about 17 years off and on. When he goes to jail im there for him when he comes home I might see him but he will go be other places and then when he needs something Im the...