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*exyC
writes:Hello My name is Sexy C,I need some help I have been with this guy for about 17 years off and on. When he goes to jail im there for him when he comes home I might see him but he will go be other places and then when he needs something Im the one he calls. Ok heres the problem last year in Aug we slept together and I got pregant when I wrote him in jail and told him he called and just mentiones that he had enuff kids and didnt want any more. But I did he told me that I needed to get rid of the baby. Well I didnt and over a very very heated argument we stop speaking. In feb of this year I gave him congrads on the birth of his grandbaby. So he emailed me back and said that we needed to be adults about the baby. Ok he has been around since the birth of our baby but not on a regular he has not brought anything. The only thing Ive asked him to do is come spend time so that our baby will know him. Now everytime he needs something Im the one he calls but I cant get him to come see the baby . He has a girlfriend that he lives with and he keeps saying he needs to tel her. But he hasnt. What am I too do is he just using me or could he really care about our baby
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (3 October 2012):
you have been with him 17 years, he has a live in girlfriend and kids with other people, he is a regular inmate at the county jail... need I say more? he sounds like trailer trash, to be honest. get whatever help you need/can find in getting over and away from this guy... I dont know anything about you but whoever you are as a person you deserve more and can do better!! your kid deserves more too. good luck.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (1 October 2012):
 Yes he is using you and NO he definitely doesn't care about your baby.
Just one question? How come you haven't figured this out by all the sh*tty stuff he has done to you?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 October 2012):
 he's just using you... I don't think he cares about you or the baby.
he told you to get rid of the baby that he has enough kids...
I'd get a DNA test, take him to court and get court ordered child support....
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2012): only calls when he needs something? that should tell you right there that he isn't interested in you or your child. Its a great thing that you didn't have an abortion but now you gotta step up and be both a great mom and dad. Forget about him. He's not worth you or your baby's time. Move on and stop doing favours for a jerk like him.
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