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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

Eight months pregnant by him and now he's broken up with me on Christmas Eve. What can I do? LDR and he's in the military. He says I've not given him enough space.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I met this guy almost 12 mths ago, we were in love an every was great. Now I'm currently 8 months pregnant an recently he started talking a lot less, saying he needs space and that i message him too much. Then he then dumped me on Christmas Eve an ...

I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...

Am I really just stubbornly holding onto a fantasy that is never going to come true?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - A little over a year ago, I met a man who I thought was different. He treated me in a way I had never been before and accepted and loved my young son from a previous relationship in a way I could only dream of. However, here were a few issues with ...

Since my miscarriage and his uncaring attitude I don't think I can love him any more. What are my options?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I have really been feeling like I've grown to hate my boyfriend at times. There are times when I think what would I do without him? I feel I don't want to leave him because all my friends either live on the other side of the country or I've ...

What are reasons for delayed periods other than pregnancy and stress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - My periods are 5 days late, took a preg test came out neg. I do have usual signs I get when I'm gonna be on periods and I don't have any preg signs. Besides stress( of which I don't have) what are the reasons for delayed periods? Should I be ...

Why do I still feel so much love for someone who has never loved me back and openly has told me he has never liked me in that way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - I was in a relationship when I was young and ended up having a child with the guy when I was 17. We broke up shortly after that due to him cheating and treating me badly. It has been over 9 years since we were together and over the last 9 years I ...

Why does he need to look at pictures of naked and semi-naked women? Is it because I've lost fullness in my breasts since breast feeding?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - Why would my partner look at naked/ semi naked pictures of women? Porn I can understand, but I guess he's looking at the naked women cos I lost the fullness of my breasts due to breast feeding. I was never big anyway. I don't feel the need to look ...

Would he really leave his baby's mother for me? Or is he just telling me what I want to hear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I have been with this guy for seven years and during the process of five years we were facing problematic issues because he was cheating. It happened that he made love with this other gal and she became pregnant, I left this guy immediat...

What can I do? I love my wife. I miss her. It's no no no too often. It hurts.There is no romance or passion in our marriage

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

25 December 2012 (M) - To start with I know woman like to say stuff like "your wife just needs you to be more affectionate" on these types of forums when men say they have this problem. This isn’t one of those situations at all...let me explain. Me and my wife have been ...

Thank you Dear Cupid. This is a WONDERFUL site. You showed me good directions when I was lost.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I just want to say thanks to all the wonderful people at dear cupid. Since from the beginning of the you have shown love and good advices. Mostly thanks to the wonderful founder of dear cupid. Its so good to know that there's someone out there who ...

7 months pregnant and sex has dwindled. Does this make my husband more likely to cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I am 7 months pregnant and me and my husband no longer are as sexually active as we were before I got bigger. This is not my first pregnancy but more unexpected. He says he is just not attracted to pregnant women like that and never has been. It was ...

When I want sex he says no, when he wants sex its a different story

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

22 December 2012 (F) - been with fiancee for almost 3 years. i had him wait to have sex for 8months when i decided to loose my virginity. i know how he use to be in the past he would have sex with every girl he met. we got together and that all changed it was jsut me he ...

What you do if your BF and ex wanted both wanted to marry you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

22 December 2012 (F) - If you were a gal and you had a child and both your baby's father and your ex boyfriend wanted to marry you, and you loved both of them, then,what would you do?...

My ex-girlfriend owes me money, but is pregnant with another man. What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

20 December 2012 (M) - I apologize in advance if this is lengthy. I'm 22 years old. I dated a girl for three years who is the same age. We lived together for the majority of that time, however the last eight months of the relationship was very rocky. Sex was a rarity...

Will my friends ever accept us as a couple and stop the snide remarks?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

18 December 2012 (M) - Just over a year ago I was in an 'open' relationship with my now ex-girlfriend. We both saw whoever we wanted to no questions asked. It worked for about 2 years Last December I started seeing a girl who was a friend of both of ours and our group of...

Infertility and my whisky dick...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

18 December 2012 (M) - Hi, my wife and I have been married for just over 10 years. We've never succeeded in having a baby over the last 8 years. Over these years we tried numerous IUI, IVF, surgeries, etc, but without luck. Now, my wife is 41 and I am almost 50. My ...

Pregnant? Condom slipped a bit and I'm worried about the chances of pregnancy. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 December 2012 (M) - I was having sex with a condom on and the i were on top.I ejaculated into the condom while still inside of her and we continued for few minutes. Condom doesn't break and slipped down maybe 0,2 -0,5 inch . Is there higher chance of pregnancy?...

I'm pregnant after a one-night-stand. How do I tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

15 December 2012 (F) - 4 weeks ago I had a one-night-stand with this guy. A couple of days ago I took a test. I'm definitely pregnant. I want to tell him but I don't know how to. The major problem is he is in a relationship and his girlfriend doesn't know we had ...

We have a 7 month old son together. How do I turn my broken relationship around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 December 2012 (F) - How do I turn my relationship around? I really need some positive advice right now. My boyfriend and I have a 7 month old son now and have been together for two years. I grew up in a very abusive environment and he grew up on the streets. ...

Did I get my Gf pregnant in the last four weeks? In view of past medical advice I received?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 December 2012 (M) - Me and my partner have been together 9 weeks and I have major medical problems since I was born, and a few years back I was told that because of my operations there would be a very low chance of me having children as I can't ever ejaculate. During...

He's the father of our baby on the way. Was wrong for not trusting him? And what can I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4363 days ago

14 December 2012 (F) - Well my boyfriend of two years who I'm currently pregnant by, used to cheat on me . I had got past it and forgave him , he promised he wouldn't do it again and he just wanted to be with me and help with our baby . I believed it , well this mornin...

Fertility doubts!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

12 December 2012 (F) - hi! i seem to have a 32 days based period, does that make one less fertile? i wonder, i sometimes don’t get periods for 2 months do i still have a chance to conceive?...

In a troubled relationship should I tell him I had a miscarriage?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

11 December 2012 (F) - First of all, please don't judge my relationship. I'm not asking a question about how to "win his affections" or anything, I'm asking if I should tell him about a miscarriage. My boyfriend and I are in a complicated situation right now. He's abo...

Am I responsible for my B/f sleeping around? Did I drive him to do it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I am 24 and my boyfriend is also 24. We have been together for four years on and off after meeting while working in the same bar. I was at uni at the time and after i became pregnant, i left my final year with the hope of going back to university ...

I got pushed and want to know..if there could be any damage to my unborn baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I was just wondering if any damage would be done to my baby. Im 31 weeks pregnant and i got pushed and hit my back. my whole body is sore and my baby's movement has decreased im scared and worried i need help. ...

He was so happy about the baby. But will he still be there for me now that he's moved on? I can't let go of him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - hi I'm new in this thing. Five months pregnant, my bf of 5years just broke up with me. When this happened I found some msgs in his phone to another gal telling her he wants to sleep with her, I confronted him about it he admitted it. And I apologis...

Although I'm getting an abortion, hiding the pregnancy is taking its toll on me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - Last week I found out I was pregnant with my boyfriend's child. I'm 5 weeks in, and I've been going out with my bf for just over 9 months. I'm to say the least.... totally devastated. This was a complete accident and neither of us ever had any ...

Did he really love me if he got another girl pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

7 December 2012 (F) - i had a boyfriend for 8 years. while together he got another girl pregnant who is his classmate. did he really love me? he said it was all accident and did not love the girl. added he will just give the girl's request to get them married and later ...

How soon after a missed period should you take a pregnancy test?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - How long would you wait after a missed period to take a pregnancy test? I am not irregular, since I have started tracking my period 5 months ago it was always the same time 30 days apart. Yet I was supposed to start on Monday and still no period... ...

He doesn't want anymore children and wants me to give this one up for adoption, so what do I choose, being a single mother or giving up my baby?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

4 December 2012 (F) - I need help. Me and my boyfriend of 8 years are expecting again. Unfortunately for me, he doesnt want anymore children. He has expressed this to me before even before our first child, but he knew since I was 11 years younger than him and didnt have ...

We lost our first baby and now he is reluctant to talk about trying again, should I just go ahead and get pregnant anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

3 December 2012 (F) - Last summer i fell pregnant with our first child, however sadly i lost the baby a few weeks later. Myself and my boyfriend didn't handle it very well and we constantly fought and at one point we broke up due to the constant pressure from everyone ...

I am dating this girl she is 31+ and still a virgin!! will this bring any difficulty on ever becoming pregnant??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

3 December 2012 (M) - Hey, I am dating this girl she is 31+ and still a virgin!! will this bring any difficulty on ever becoming pregnant??...

I'm thirteen weeks pregnant, and the father is my best friends new boyfriend. How do I tell them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

2 December 2012 (F) - I'm a little over 3 months pregnant (13 weeks) and I still haven't told the father of my child as he's my oldest friends new boyfriend. They met after we had a one night stand at a joint friends house party. We both were drunk and I had no intention ...