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Archived questions from: April, 2015 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I just don't want to feel like I'm living with a lazy roommate any longer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - Please tell me if I am overreacting. My husband and I have been married for 4 years. I am in the army, and we have no children. The entire time we have been married, because we have moved around a little I have been the main bread winner which I am ...

Why do women expect men to be mind readers?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

29 April 2015 (M) - Why do women expect men to be mind readers? My wife has been grousing around lately. She finally erupted, "Just once I'd like to come home and find you made the salad for dinner!" "You want a salad? Call/text/e-mail and it's yours!...

What can I do about my suspicions that my husband is having an affair? He's not reacted well when I asked.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I have been married for 11 years and we have a 9 yr old child. Recently I feel that my hubby is not being truthful to me..... I feel he is having a extra marital.....if not an affair......maybe a friendship......stage of relationship with his sch...

My husband has gotten verbally abusive again - how do I help him stop?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - My husband has gotten verbally abusive again, even though things were getting better on that front for years. How do I help him to stop? (not so )Short intro: We've been together for almost 20 years. At the beginning things were OK. But as we finis...

How mean is too mean? Who should pay for what in our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Who pays for what in our two year relationship? Ok here is my dilemma and one that has really upset me to the point I am considering walking away because it has affected my respects for him. I am sure there will be many comments as I have googl...

Can a marriage last if only one side is in love with the other?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Ok so I've got in to a big mess and take full responsibility and need some advice. Please don't judge me as I hate myself enough right now..... 8 years ago I met a wonderful man whilst visiting some friends in another part of the UK. We hit it o...

Discovered that my soon to be ex got drunk while he was supposed to be caring for our child. He'll deny it. How do I confront him with what I've discovered?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3496 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - I have been separated from my husband for quite awhile now. Anyhow to make a long story short I have 4 kids, one of which is with him. Last week I was on vacation with my parents. He had our child and I had a friend babysit my other kids at my h...

Can she up sticks and go taking the children with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - My daughter in law is leaving my son and has made it clear that she is taking the children with her. Can she up sticks and go taking the children with her?...

I expected my husband to be my best friend and partner but he isn't either

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - I am a middle aged person who has been through 1 divorce, a 30+ year abusive marriage..now I am married for the 2nd time; I was not looking for marriage a second time, but after a couple of years I really thought he was totally different from ...

Can I expect a therapist to maintain privacy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

22 April 2015 (M) - My wife and I need counseling in a very bad way. I feel like all communication has broken down except for when we say things in an extreme way (loud fighting) and in that case it is not clear anyone is listening or even that what we say is the trut...

I am a stay at home mum, whilst studying a degree - my husband doesn't understand how hard this is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

21 April 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, My husband and I have an 18 month old little boy who at the moment has really start to test what he can and can't do. I am a stay at home mother and have been since the day our son was born. I have been studying a degree part time...

What motivates people to cheat? Especially why do married people cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - Hi all, ive been asking myself this question and i dont seem to get an answer. Why do married people cheat most. Why cant a person get out of a relationship than to stay when they are unhappy, than to sleep around with whoever thet meet?...

Does missing someone else other than your partner mean you love that person more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - Person A: my husband. married for less than 3yrs, together for longer than 10. my bestfriend. opposite personality. my enabler in co-dependent relationship. always felt that something was missing. Person B: co-worker who I had an instant connecti...

My husband is acting weird and distant and I can't figure him out! Should I get an attorney?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

18 April 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, I have felt distant from my husband for some time now. He always did have a low sex drive so I don't think he is cheating!?!? Anyway.. I can't figure out where the feeling comes from. It might have several factors in play here. It c...

My husband is as cold as ice between the sheets, but I love him and want us to be happy. Was I naive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

17 April 2015 (F) - Hello all, I'll get right to it. I am married and my husband is cold as ice between the sheets. I've tried some different things to spice it up, but to no avail. He says he's just not the romantic type, but we barely have sex anymore. It's ju...

I love my wife. I miss sex. I'm flirting online with an old friend. Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

17 April 2015 (M) - I'm married, I love my wife we have a beautiful little girl together that will be turning 4 in a few months. I have never asked questions on a forum before but I like to give as much information as possible so you get the picture. I wo...

What's up with my wife going to a Casino with a guy when she was meant to be coming home instead? And why the secrecy re what was spent at casino?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3506 days ago

16 April 2015 (M) - My wife and I and our 14 year old son,and his friend went to a motel for the night. My son and his friend got in a fight. It was 4:30am. The wife volunteered me to take kids home and she would come home shortly behind us. It's 100 miles to our...

My wife wants children and I don't she knew this when we married. Am I selfish?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

15 April 2015 (?) - My Wife thinks I'm selfish because I don't want to have children, whereas she is desperate. I'm 29 and she is 30, we've been together 5 years, married just under 1 year. To be honest I don't like kids, I've never understood the appeal of children. ...

The honeymoon phase is over and our sex life is suffering. How can I make sex fun again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3508 days ago

13 April 2015 (F) - My husband and I have recently been having some issues with our sex lives. Basically what it boils down to is that I am not very sexually driven, and I have lost a lot of my original desire for him (out of the honeymoon phase if you will) and he can ...

I want to save my marriage, but my husband and his sister say they're happier without me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

13 April 2015 (F) - Iwe had long distance relationship for two n half years, before we got married. We were supposed to move together one month after marriage. My husband told me the third day of our marriage that few days ago he had slept with his ex colleague on a ...

I'm confused and feeling guilty but think I need to end my marriage to my gambling husband

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

12 April 2015 (F) - I feel so confused and riddled with guilt. I am married to someone I've been with for nearly 4 years. I do love and care about him very much. However a few days ago I told him I didn't want to be with him anymore because I'm not inlove with him...

We've been married only a year and have big problems. When do you call it a day?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

12 April 2015 (F) - I‘ve been married for almost a year now and already we're in a bit of a crisis. We have many issues in our relationship, too many to mention but i'll give some examples. I think he's become very controlling since we got married, I am admittedly ...

What can I do about my husband's infatuation and his need to talk, all the time, about a girl he works with?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

8 April 2015 (F) - I am so frustrated with my husband! We have been married ten years but together for 15. I thought things were really good we have a child both have good jobs and holidays. Right now we are on a family holiday. My husband keeps bringing a girl up ...

Sharing and Caring? A time for advice that is empathic, not judgemental? Some notable differences I've noticed that have saddened me. Can this be addressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

8 April 2015 (F) - This is not really a question as it is a suggestion for this site that I would like to share. I've been visiting this site on and off periodically for several years. And because my visits here are intermittent and sporadic, I never made my own prof...

Husband facing unwanted divorce without communication

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

8 April 2015 (M) - Ok my wife and I have been married almost 6 years, we were deeply in love with one another . Then my wife got a job in another state almost a year after we were married. So I moved with her, I was arrested for a crime I did not commit, 3 years of ...

My wife works with her ex and he's always calling her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

8 April 2015 (M) - my wife works everyday with an x lover and he is always calling her on the phone for long conversations and she doesn't understand why this bothers me. We've been married for three yrs and it is becoming a problem so what should I do, leave or let ...

How do we help our sister in dealing with infidelity in her marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

7 April 2015 (F) - My sister (35) has this week discovered her wife has been having an affair for most of their two year marriage. Needless to say she is devastated and blindsided. Extreme anger giving way gradually to depression. Worst of all she was undergoing ...

Was his threesome suggestion just an excuse to have sex with another woman? Is it wrong that I felt hurt by his actions?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

7 April 2015 (F) - I agreed to a threesome with my husband and a friend. I've never been with a woman but agreed to try to please my husband. He didn't even touch me. feeling uncomfortable, i went outside. he proceeded to have sex with her. i was reduced to watching, ...

No matter how hard I try, I will never be as attractive to him as younger women!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

6 April 2015 (F) - My husband seems quite disinterested in sex with me. When I say that, I mean that he seems pretty unexcited by me even though we have regular sex . I try spicing it up with lingerie and new ideas . I've tried everything but despite the fact we hAce ...

My husband feels entitled to make all the financial decisions.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

3 April 2015 (F) - My husband and I have an ongoing issue with finances to the point that we actually split for a while . He earns a good income and I have up my job to support him in the businesss He makes all financial decisions often without my knowledge . I am pla...

I feel I am stuck between a rock and a hard place.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

2 April 2015 (F) - Why would my mother, treat me bad, just because I'm not interested in getting in the middle of my dad and my mom seperation.I've tried keeping out of there business, yet she is now threatening to tell lies about me to my boyfriend. My heart is so ...

The marriage is in trouble and it's my fault

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

2 April 2015 (F) - I am a stay at home mom with 2 babies 3 and under. My fiance works 10-12 hour shifts 6 days a week and I stay home with the kids. We live at his moms and hope to move out this month. The problem is that lately, after 2 years of being together our ...