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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Love stories category)

Love stories: Help and advice

This love just happened. How do I get over it? Why do I have to get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - How do I get over this. I am falling deeper and deeper in love with a women 26 years younger than I am. We met in graduate school and worked together for 10 months before she left for a fulltime position. The last day we worked together, just the...

Do you believe in those love stories like Carrie and Mr. Big?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - so... do you guys believe on those love stories like Carrie Bradshaw and Mr. Big, when they were in a relationship, break up then they both mess around, to then been in different relationships, even a marriage, all for this to end on them together? ...

The future holds... holds what for us? I'm so conflicted and uncertain!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I feel so conflicted I'm not sure where to start, I'm in a relationship with a girl I'm certain could be the love of my life, we love eachother so much, we talk about anything, we're happy, but there's one thing we can't figure out: the future....

Is it normal to have such an amazing day with an amazing guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - so, me and my boyfriend had an amzing day yesterday. it's not often that i get to hangout with him unless it's at my house. so, when i got to hang out with him yesterday, we could do anything. it felt like we could travel to the moon. so, we went on ...

My old lover has come back and asked me to be with him forever, should I take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - dear friend, i have to talk to you for an advice, after 2 years brek up of my lover , he returned to me and asked me to be with him foreer, but before this i am going to tell you this short story what happend in the past, he met me at my school ...

Help me romance her with roses to show how beautiful she really is!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - hi I have a new gf, but I want to show her how beautiful I think she is, but I have a idea, but need advice on if its good or bad. basically im going to buy a bunch of roses(12 but take one out), and give them to her, with the one of followin...

Heart spamming on facebook makes me sick. Normal, or am I jealous?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - This is a mixed question, but I will try to explain what I mean best as possible. This is about how people choose to use facebook and the reactions people have to it. Im especially thinking about the couples who declare their undying love for...

Advice on Dating For Guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4939 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - I would like to share advice when dating. I am a life coach and most of my clients always want me to help them in this area. Opening Conversation: Women dont like feeling like they are being hit on. And will reject you if they feel like the...

How to build a relationship

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24 May 2011 (M) - Truth is that its just not a natural phenomena for two humans to have what we call a relationship. So that means its down to management and people skills. Most people don’t possess these skills. They let their emotions drive their decisions an...

We had the discussion about my feelings for him, but I still wonder if he cares. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I'm in love with my teacher. Yes, yes, i know what you will tell me... But let me tell you my own story frankly. I'm not English first of all, got an excuse for my bad english haha. i live in a far away country. i'm 22 years old and it's my first ye...

Is it love? Or am I just longing for him because I know I can't have him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - i am currently 15 and my mum and dad got a divorce a few years ago and im perfectly fine with that, but the thing is, when my dad found a new girlfriend last year (i was 14), she had 3 sons, 2 of which i was extremely close with. i will call them ...

What's up with this girl?? does she like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

22 May 2011 (M) - Long story short. I met this girl with whom I'm befriended —if you could say that, actually I got the chance of meeting her through a friend of mine who's her friend too, now we 'all' hang out together— who's 'shy', like me. Before we were official...

Are these marriage proposal signs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4935 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - Hello, I've been seeing a 28 year old man for 9 months now. We're quite close (we've discussed our future together, even though we are currently long-long distance me in the US, him in Germany). This summer I'll be staying with him and his...

Should I appologise or leave it glossed over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, hopefully you can help me out! There is an awful lot of background information here but I think it’s necessary for the ultimate question which is whether I should revisit a dark time in my life to apologise, or leave it glossed over. ...

Should I go get my man, OR let the past be in the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Hello everyone I have this dilema... My ex husband and I split from eachother over 6yrs ago, at the time it was my fault, as I was dealing with emotional issues from my childhood and kept pushing my husband away. He finally moved on and met...

What can I do to win this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - This is long, but I hope I've made it easy to read! As I sit here typing away, I am crying; crying as so many do, over that one person who is more special to me than life itself. I know my problem is a common one, and doubtless one that is neve...

My love story...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm a 16 year old boy living in a very popular city. 5 months ago i went with my family to Mexico for Christmas vacation, and i fell in love with a girl. :/ My parents actually introduced me to her when she started crying over a mistake she made ...

She didn't want me 6 years ago, but now she's all over me. Shallow, and how do I get back at her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - Dear cupid, 6 years ago I asked out a certain woman i was 22 she was 20, she is very beautiful,smart and fun. She rejected me bluntly because am 5'7 and she needed to feel protected shes 5'2. It hurt very much but she said it was her preference. ...

What would represent a creative, memorable, thoughtful, romantic proposal of marriage that I could arrange?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - what are some creative, thoughtful ways to propose to your girlfriend? i know it sounds terrible that i'm having to ask, but i've just never been very good at this sort of thing. i try so hard and love her very much. i just want to make this ...

How do you know if you're in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - How do you know if your in love? I don't think I am, but could you tell me? I'm in an interesting position with the guy I like and i have never liked a guy this way before. Its not that i like him alot--which i do--but i've never liked a guy like ...

How do I make her realize that I love her beyond our religious differences?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - Hello. Since 7 months I've known a girl who was just a friend in the beginning but as I got to know her more and more I was deeply, very deeply attracted to her. It's just that only I see her that way and since she doesn't want to get into ...

I still love her. How can I be positive and get over the biggest break up in my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

10 May 2011 (M) - to whoever wants to listen, this is going to be a bit of a long story, but for those who take the time and read it, I would appreciate your thoughts, especially from women readers. Back Story: Story begins with a girl and a boy. I, the boy...

Is my plan to propose to her...a bit too cheesy? What do you all think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

8 May 2011 (M) - Hi all. I just wanted some input on this plan I have. My girlfriend and I have been together for two years (I was 17, she was 14 when we met seven years ago) and she's graduating from her community college to be an RN the day that I come back from...

How I met my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend and i met him when he was 15 years old. We met at my friend's apartment. It was sunny out and me and my friend were outside sitting on some stairs and he walks by because he lives in the same area the same apartment complexes. ...

Teenage friends, recently back in touch, how can I ignite a flame between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Can you rekindle a lost love??? We were teenage friends, nothing more just a chaste kiss now and then. Both of us moved away 35 years ago and have now got back in touch, we are both divorced. We seem to be total opposites, he sporty and ...

I still feel jealousy. I still feel pain. I still feel hatred. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - Firstly, I would like to say thanks to everyone who have helped me in here. I really appreciate all those valuable, useful and wonderful advisers. Especially those really harsh which makes realise how stupid I am to love someone who doesn't love ...

Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...

Can someone shed some light? Why do I like her romantically, but not sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - I have been having feelings for a girl at work for some time now. We don't interact outside of work, I only see her there. The thing is I am not sure if I actually fancy her. I really like her, I think she's pretty and cool, but I don't feel any l...

How can I get past this stupid drama and move on like a mature adult?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I'm struggling to forget my boyfriend's infidelity two years ago. Sure, it sounds reasonable enough, only that at the time we were referring to each other as "more like friends" and he never actually SLEPT with this girl. Since we met, we'd bee...

Does being in a romantic relationship contribute to happiness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Does being in a romantic relationship contribute to happiness? Romantic relationship meaning a committed, stable, relationship. you also must be with the same person for at least 2 years....

I love him..but I'm not sure how to say it, or what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - Here we go again... I just got out of a two year relationship, with 1 year olds father, he was very mean, and treated me like i was his property instead of a person, he doesnt treat me like a women, and i finally have had enough!! So as of two week...