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writes:i am currently 15 and my mum and dad got a divorce a few years ago and im perfectly fine with that, but the thing is, when my dad found a new girlfriend last year (i was 14), she had 3 sons, 2 of which i was extremely close with. i will call them two J and D. a few months passed and i was getting along ever so well with J (17 at the time), my dad and his mum would take us out to places for something to eat and bowling and to the sea-side and our bond would just grow stronger, every time i saw or even text him my stomach would get butterflies. then it started to be that he was the only thing on my mind. it got to the point when i slept at his house (on the sofa) he would wait for our parents to go to bed then come down stairs and sit with me and we would be sat talking from about 12-5am. that time, i kissed him and it felt so amazing, like the best feeling in the world. (sad enough.. it feels like it feels like i can still feel his lips now)months went past and we got even closer, and then when my dad and his mum split up.. he was hinting about him wanting a girlfriend from around my area not his. it was then i knew for a fact i liked him! i told my best friend all of this and she even tried to drop hints to him that i liked him and he gave me the same feeling. But then all of a sudden he stopped talking to me like we used too.. i partly blame myself for playing 'hard to get' and not putting the effort in.But its been over a year since we were that close.. we still talk but only sometimes and the feeling i get when we do, its like the most intense butterflies you could imagine (still!!), and no doubt every day i still think about him..this will probably sound stupid but.. is it love? or am i just longing for him because i know i cant have him? im just really confused :/
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reader, Bee Rose +, writes (28 May 2011):
 Please tell him!
In fact better idea, that's beautiful by the way, just wanted to tell you that, e-mail him the question!
Yes please do, I mean then he will know, I know how you feel hun, I really do, I'm in love with a guy and he's with someone else now, but less about him.
But love is different for everyone, I can sit here and say 'yeah it's love and what!' But the fact of the matter is you have to work it out for yourself, but I nkow just how you wrote that question, there is something there.
That's the only way he will know how you feel,
Just a suggestion, look at me getting all excited hehe!!
Hope I Helped hun :))
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reader, aslan2323232  +, writes (28 May 2011):
 while its obvious that you have feelings for this young man, its hard to know if its love or not.
im going to take a guess here and presume your 15 now.
love is a strange thing, and its meaning varies depending on who your talking to about it with.
i mean if you still like him, then why not find the right moment to talk about it with him? (:
even meet up with him on your own for a day and see where it goes.
like i said if your only 15 it could hardly be love, but then again ive seen stranger things happen!
just remember to not let yourself get too worked up over it, the more simple it is the easier itll be to deal with!
hope i could help
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