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writes:dear friend, i have to talk to you for an advice, after 2 years brek up of my lover , he returned to me and asked me to be with him foreer, but before this i am going to tell you this short story what happend in the past, he met me at my school where i worked as a teacher, he shohw his love to me very much and he was ready to merry me, but my status was devorced women from his husband and he was never married, and after he told his familly about me ,they were not saticfied about that, after six moths he engaged very fast with another women, suprisle, but he told me everytime that he love me and he asked me to ecape with him in some other contry because he dosent love here , and i didnt acept , then after a few weeks he went abroad to work , returned back and he became married but as he told me he broke up his marrieage and after a year he wanted to get my numer of phone to be in contakt with me , after he found my phone numer he wrote to me and he said that he always loved me and somebody done something to him and it happend the marriage , know he want to talk with me for the future to get marry with me and live with me , because he told me i am his love life, dear friend what should i do , also i am singel, ,should i accept his invitation to continue my life with him or what to do ,does he love me realy .?best wishes for you Jeta
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2011): He left you in thr first place. He engaged. He got married for one year and got divorced. Now he doesn't have anyone to be with so he's calling you. Stay away from him. If he truly loved you he wouldn't engage. He would fight for you and him. But he dint. So its better to stay away from him and carry on. Life is too short, mate.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (27 May 2011):
 He loves you. You should be with him, even if it means moving abroad to another country.
No doubt.
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reader, MamaBear  +, writes (27 May 2011):
Jeta: there are several questions that need answering before you should even consider a future with this guy. First, you mention he got married - so is he divorced and free to be involved with you? Next, children. Do you have children? Would they like him for a father figure in their lives? Does he have children from his marriage? If so, does he plan to see his child frequently and provide financial support? Also, where do you two plan to live and would your family now accept the man? Or, would they reject him again? He says you are the love of his life, but is he the love of your life? Are you willing to spend the rest of your life with a man who, in my opinion, needs to just live alone for a time and sort some of this out. Or, is he looking for a good woman to take care of him? Seriously think over these questions before making any decision - or you could be married and divorced again! Good luck to you.
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