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writes:Hi, I'm a 16 year old boy living in a very popular city. 5 months ago i went with my family to Mexico for Christmas vacation, and i fell in love with a girl. :/ My parents actually introduced me to her when she started crying over a mistake she made about love. We both started talking, we really started to get to know each other, and later started to fall in love. Over the course of the two days of being together, we both really started to fall for each other; walking together on the beach, riding jetski's together, swimming in the ocean, and lying in the hotel lobby until 12 in the morning, and grasping each other to never let this moment pass. We both told each other that we loved one another, but we were on vacation. I had to go back to my city, and she had to go to hers. We live on opposite sides of the country, but we still talked, and Skype'd almost every day. But that was until she started school which ruined a lot, and she figured we couldn't be like this forever, and later just stopped talking. I wrote a letter to her pouring out my feelings toward her, and sent two pictures of us together on the beach. She then started talking to me saying she really liked it. Though we only talk about once every 2 weeks now, i feel we really have an awkward time speaking with each other. I try to spark conversation because we are friends, but its not the same as it was 5 months ago. I really need some advice because i am crazy for this girl, i care about her so much, but shes so far away, and we don't have conversations like we used to.Is there any advice someone can give me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI thank you both, i am currently trying very hard to move on. I do stay in touch with her, but ever so slightly i just say hi once in a while, sometimes it doesn't go anywhere. But thats fine for me now, sometimes she says hi as well, and i will keep it as that. Then maybe in the future it can go a little further.
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A 16 year old
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI thank you both, i am currently trying very hard to move on. I do stay in touch with her, but ever so slightly i just say hi once in a while, sometimes it doesn't go anywhere. But thats fine for me now, sometimes she says hi as well, and i will keep it as that. Then maybe in the future it can go a little further.
Thanks again,
A 16 year old
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2011): There's not much you can do about it. Try putting those memories away for a bit and maybe when you get older, if the friendship is still genuine, you can go to see her. Right now, a phone call or skype, or a letter is all you can do. And try not to get parents involved. Don't lose hope, and remember, someone else may come along.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2011): I think that you may need to move on, because even though you may feel that you're in love with her, the reality is that you're only 16 and traveling a far distance to see her is unrealistic. Maybe you don't need to move on forever, but at least temporarily.
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