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writes:I'm in love with my teacher.Yes, yes, i know what you will tell me... But let me tell you my own story frankly. I'm not English first of all, got an excuse for my bad english haha. i live in a far away country. i'm 22 years old and it's my first year in university. My teacher is 10 years older than me. He's teaching but, you know, still called as an assistant at school. Got a doctor degree i mean. (i don't know if you use degree in English but anyway you understand what i mean)i fell in love with him in the very first beginning of our lessons. He comes once a week to my class. No, he's definitely not a handsome man but you know it. You just fell in love, it doesn't need any reasons. For me at all.Anyway after months, on March, I sent him a mail about my feelings. Couldn't keep them in myself that long. I also told him that i was embarrassed ext. And he was, of course, acting mature. Told me to not to worry that much, and should talk to him as soon as possible. And i did go and see him private. He told me that 'you don't know me, you don't know what kind of a man i am in my daily life, don't know if i'm married, you don't know if i have a relationship; these are problems' etc. And added that:'i am trying to teach you something, and you are trying to learn something. This should be like this. this is also a problem' and then he said: 'but you don't have to be embarrassed and feel weird, i understand you'' etc. etc. And asked me that ''don't you expect something from me, do you?'' and i told him, of course i didn't. i just wanted to say that. And he said ok , i understand you. Bla bla bla...And after that talk, he tries to be polite to me. whenever he sees me, he even ignores my friends (which are in my class and in his lessons also) and says hi to me. He's a serious teacher, but he sometimes even stops and says good morning etc. He's polite you see. But however, i usually see him secretly looking at me. For example I caught his eyes on me last week when i was talking to my friends above and he was back, checking out the class from there. He was looking at me like, well i don't know how to say it. But he was looking at me like he admires me lolI don't know if he's married or not. Cuz he doesn't wear any ring.Do you think he may feel something for me? Might be affected or anything you know? Just want you to give me ideas about it, thanks to you all...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlol no i am definetly not the teacher's pet... since i'm not a good student at all. and i've failed the subject of him LOL
but yes, maybe it's because he keeps thinking about my feelings like you said. if so; he's not 'that' teacher like he told me then? if he wants the things on his way (the way he told me about) then these looks aren't normal... that's the point i didn't get. I know he's a good guy because he didn't try to take advantage of me after this talk.
I don't know what he feels really, it just keeps my mind busy... Might he like me? If so; why did he talk to me like that? i just don't understand anything... The main problem is: The things he said and the things he does don't match...
But believe me, i'm not trying to make myself believe in his 'love' for me. I'm just trying to understand what he 'really' thinks about me.
ps: about flirting... i don't think so. He's a serious teacher. He is trying to be 'frosty' you know lol but well, i may be an exception in this case. hehe
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answer! Ok i guess so too. But i still wonder; so what's the point of looking at me like that? Why?
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