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Archived questions from: October, 2014 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Why is he being so dodgy about this friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3674 days ago

29 October 2014 (F) - Hi all I need some advice. I recently found out A is coming back from US and visiting my bf whilst I am overseas. I have never met A and I know my bf met her through camp. A is currently studying in US. My bf initially kept it from me but somehow it ...

Do I tell him that I have a crush on him and that I love him? I don't want to ruin our friendship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - I dont know what to do anymore. I am head over heels in love with my best friend and we have known each other since we were 6 years old. I now live in a different country from him and we dont see each other a lot. We might see each other at christm...

Met on holidays. Is it too early in our friendship to get him a birthday present?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3677 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - I met this guy on holiday, he's in the army and is posted in Germany. But comes from the same place as I do. Just after I met him he was being deployed to Afghanistan for 3 months, we spoke everyday and he'd ring me sometimes too. After his ...

Feeling guilty about ignoring my family. How can I explain that I want a relationship and to see my family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

25 October 2014 (F) - Hello all... Briefly, i am in a new relationship.We have been together a month, met on the internet. Yes we had sex soon!too soon, i;m 24, hes 25. He lives in london. He is lovely! we went to wales last weekend and man treated me like a queen,...

Do I risk all and go Or cut my losses?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

24 October 2014 (M) - Hi! I live in England and was quite happily leading a quiet life of study martial arts and contemplation when a girl who had seen me in the street and just so happened to be friends with a few of my neighbors took a massive liking to me and we ended ...

Do you think his expectations may include sex on this fun weekend he's arranged?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

19 October 2014 (F) - Hi. I'm getting a divorce and incidentally met a very old colleague from about 15 ago. He's invited me to join him in another city to watch a big football game and generally a weekend together which I accepted. He's booked the hotel, I haven't...

I've been wondering if my LDR Bf is lying to me and cheating. Or has he stopped loving me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

19 October 2014 (F) - Ok so i'm dating this guy on the phone I live in one state and he lives in another place. Anyway so first he was all in love with me and all that and then after a while we started to argue a little. After some more time he said he is so busy with...

I think he's lost interest in me but I'm afraid to leave him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

19 October 2014 (F) - Hey guys.. I have a "boyfriend" but it's a long distance relationship and he tells me he loves me, usually just by words.. He asked me for nudes and I said no way but he kept insisting and saying he loves me. I used to be a shy and quiet girl but I ...

I feel like he's playing games!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3682 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - Over a week ago, my LD bf and I got into a disagreement when I criticized his spending habits. He didn't return my calls and didn't contact me until days later to text me "Happy Birthday" shortly after midnight. Then called me after he got off ...

I want to end our 3 year long LDR and get married but unsure If we should marry or end things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

16 October 2014 (M) - Hi, ive been with my long distance girlfriend for almost 3 years now and i think is time to close the distance. Its time to pop the question. However... We live in continents apart and we are citizens of diferent countries.we have a 13 years ag...

Met her on a flight and want her to be mine forever. But there are hurdles in the way!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

16 October 2014 (M) - Hello everyone. I have a question that requires very honest and authentic advice from people who may have had similar experience that I am having. Last week, I was flying from Doha (UAE) to USA. I was at the terminal sitting all by myself. There was ...

LDR told me to get lost, then told my Mum she was pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

15 October 2014 (M) - I met a girl about a month ago when I was on vacation in Florida. We spent the last week together and I stayed at her place on the beach and we slept together a few times. She said I was the best guy she had ever met and she could see herself having ...

How do I tell my LDR husband that he should have limitations on contact with other women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3687 days ago

15 October 2014 (F) - Hello everyone ;) Hello i have long distance love affair. He lives in iceland and i live in the uk. Were been 5 years known each other he came here back and forth just to see me and then now Recently i visited there and got married. We decide...

Was I wrong for asking for time and attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

15 October 2014 (F) - I was in long distance relationship. Never met him. Initially he took out time for talking. But then he started to work for around 16 hours. I understood his commitment for work. But he even stopped messaging. If I asked him something he replied ...

Did he just ''love me'' during his bad time? Should I be more distant with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

15 October 2014 (F) - My boyfriend (we've been dating for about 5 months) was recently going through a tough time overseas and really only had me supporting him from across the ocean. During this time, he was very vocal about loving me and we spoke every single day. It...

I'm very hurt by this comment he made! What does he mean? Is this a brush-off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

14 October 2014 (F) - I met my online friend last week which was amazing after being friends for a year. We hit it off and ther was a real connection both of us very attracted to the other. He has messaged me everyday since and we both miss each other so much already....

I'm going to see him for a day at Christmas, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3689 days ago

14 October 2014 (F) - i realy like this guy and we are best friends and i realy like him but now i live in another contry i also kinda like two other guys in my class and they both tease me a bit. I'm going to meet my friend at christmas for a day. what shall i do i ...

I haven't met my LD boyfriend yet but I'm not sure if I should!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

14 October 2014 (F) - Hello! My LD boyfriend wants me to visit him but I don't know if I should and to even have the guts to tell my family about what he's planning? When he was in the same state as I am currently in now, he had plenty of chances to meet me, sometime...

What can I do? She is my very loyal LDR Gf. If I tell her how often I cheated she may breakup with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

13 October 2014 (M) - Hi, in 2009 i was visiting my friend in another town so i met and she is a neigbour of my friend ,she gave me her numbers when i went home the same day i called her we talked suddenly the following day her phone was not working,so i thought like she ...

Torn between my ex husband and the other guy. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

13 October 2014 (F) - I am torn between my ex husband and my new guy. Here is the story, My life overal was not too bad but I have been unhappy from some issues which my ex wouldn't do anything about it. The main issue was him being over passive and his family over ...

After 6 years how can I get him to step up to the plate and go for the next step in our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

11 October 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 years, we are 22 and 21 respectively. I just graduated college during which we had a long distance relationship, and I was sort of expecting our relationship to start moving forward after graduati...

Is this a sign that I'm the one for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3694 days ago

10 October 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, My long distance boyfriend and I recently celebrated our first year of dating. I think its amazing that we've maintained a connection being that we are 1000 miles away (he's in NYC and I'm in Atlanta). It gives true meaning to our r...

He's enlisting in the Air Force and wants to get married and try for a baby before he leaves!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

9 October 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I know it's been awhile since I last wrote and a lot has happened in that time I'm with someone new for starters and we've been together for a year with no breaking up or taking a break. I know I've said it before but with...

I think I made a mistake in ending the LDR. Should I try to get back with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3695 days ago

9 October 2014 (M) - I have split up with my ex last year due to various reasons. The main one being the long distant which caused so many arguments. But the last year I have had some nagging feeling that is was a mistake. We have been brilliant friends this las...

How do I let him know he needs to step up as a man and woo me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

8 October 2014 (F) - BIG DILEMMA. My LDR boyfriend who has been chatting me up non-stop everyday is coming to visit me next month. His plans according to him is to hopefully meet my parents, discuss his plans to relocate and scout around my town for business and futu...

What should I do, the lack of communication has me confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3697 days ago

7 October 2014 (F) - 6 months ago i went on a trip around europe for 3 weeks. I met a man and we continued to keep in touch after i left the trip. I live in Canada, he lives in England. When I returned home initially we talked a regularly. he even surprised me by calli...

Does it make me a bad wife to exclude my husband from my social life and travelings?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

6 October 2014 (F) - Doesn't make a bad wife that I don't want to travel with my husband anymore, and more...I don't really want to involve Him in my socialiZing anymore also. We are married for 23 years. I married very very young right after high school, had a ch...

I can't tell if he's a gentlemen or if he's just not that into me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3700 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - I met this guy while he was on holidays with his friends where I live. We spent about a week together and we eventually slept together. I have plans to travel near where he is in three weeks and he suggested I stopped by where he is living so I mad...

My 17 year old niece was extremely rude to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3698 days ago

4 October 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, this might sound trivial but it is really upsetting me lately. My niece is 17 and throughout her teenage years she has been a typical sulky teen. However since her 17th birthday she has been downright rude to me. She lives in another ...

I can't be with both girls! I have a lovely girl here but what about the one who I met in Florida?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

2 October 2014 (M) - Thank you for reading - it's quite funny as I'm normally the one my friends ask for advice, yet here I am asking you all... It's been hard and I haven't been able to sleep much so I really need an outside perspective- thank you. I met a girl about...

The girl I met online asked about my sexual past. I answered truthfully and now she's gone quiet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3702 days ago

2 October 2014 (M) - I met this girl online, really like her n she's 18 n im 23 almost 24. she says she's a virgin although I did not expect that i was really happy. she seemed shy to ask questions so i told her to ask anything on her mind n i won't lie. which i didn't. ...

Should I stay or take another break year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

1 October 2014 (F) - Hello (I'm 23 he's 24) I met a guy in December last year. We just exchanged contact information and almost a week passed before any of us contacted the other. After about a week of texting, he asked me out. I've dated quite a lot for someone my...