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Archived questions from: March, 2012 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

What to do about unhealthy sex affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Having a 2 yr fling with a younger man.We only see each other once month and the only time we communicate is when it's time for us to hook up again.I for the ride just for sex.When we started I was married as well but divorced since then for ...

Friends with benefits for 8 years, then I find out he is married! How do I get over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - hi everyone, could do with some advice please, how do you get over a man who you see for 8 years as friends with benefits? im totaly heartbroken and there isnt a day goes by i dont think of him. he got married 2 years ago and never told me and yet ...

I don't want to admit I like him first, how can I make him make a move on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Exactly a year ago, I met a guy at my college. He is European and he is 7 years older than me. We met because he asked my best friend to introduce us. I knew the guy is a big player and he knew I have several guys too. We hung out for a few days ...

I'm his FWB is there a chance he'll leave his girlfriend for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - okay, i don't need to be judged, but 3 months ago i sent a fb request to this guy i had seen round, (drummer in a band.) well he accepted (despite the fact he only had 100 friends on his fb account, so he obviously doesn't just add randoms. anyway i ...

We have a casual relationship but I get the feeling he might like me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4622 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - i met this guy last october, and we have never really talked much or anything, i actually met him after seeing my boyfriend at the time cheat on me so we didn't met under the best circumstances anyway last christmas, i went into town and he was ...

I just used her for sex so how do I end it and still look good?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

25 March 2012 (M) - I started screwing, nothing serious, around with this chick from my job when I'm home from college. She was a rebound girl from my last relationship and i wasn't being to pick when i choose her. I'm not saying I'm a great catch but I'm way out of ...

Where did I go wrong in starting this 'rebound' relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend of two years broke up with me, about 5 months ago now, and I was completley heart-broken. Shortly after the breakup, I hooked up with a co-worker. I told this co-worker from the get-go that I wasn't interested in a long term ...

Does he want to be more than my sex buddy? How do I make this official?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - I really like my sex buddy , we always drink and go out usual , he doesn't like me talking to anyone else like he gets jeleous of other guys when I'm around them , he always picks me up to go over or just hangout , we watch movies I help him with ...

More that sex buddies ? Or do I move on ?? Help ? Advice needed! Please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

22 March 2012 (F) - i have a sex buddy , we text each other often. But lately it seems I've caught feelings for him. He gives me mixed feelings. One day he gives me hope the next day I'm upset thinking what it could of been. We act like were in a relationship when we ...

How do I offer this FWB situation to him without sounding like a whore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (F) - I have known this guy for a couple of years now and we have gone on a couple of dates. Well.... last week we had sex, but he let me know that he he is not interested in a girlfriend and Im not interested in a boyfriend. I want to be FWB but also ...

Can you strictly take care of physical needs and not harm the friendship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

21 March 2012 (M) - hey,, i have a friend,, but she's just a friend , we are both singles, and we do not love /crush each other. is it right for us to have sex, just for our physical needs, will it hamper our relationship, if we dont get mentally involved. plzzzz rply...

FWB with you ex boyfriend...good idea or bad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

20 March 2012 (F) - friends with benefits?? good or bad idea with your ex boyfriend?...

Why does he put an xo in some of his messages?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

19 March 2012 (F) - i'm 25 yr old. and i would like to know from guys and girls, what does it mean when a guy (27 yrs) pus an xo at the end his email to me? he started by doing it not me, and not at the end of all them just some. sometimes a x, xo, xx. help i really ...

Recognizing female friends that will let you go further then friends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

17 March 2012 (M) - Ok this is a dumb question, but one ive honestly began to ponder upon lately, and i thought what better place to take this question, I hang out with a lot of girls, not by any preference, it just happens that way, i never really even noticed until ...

How can I make him see how much he hurt me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

17 March 2012 (F) - Hi I am in a situation that I need to get out of before I drive myself mad I have been in a fwb situation with a man for a year now didn't plan it as this it just happened we used to see each other very regulary about two three times a week I have ...

When do you give up on wanting to be in a relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

16 March 2012 (F) - Hey to you all :) I have a question?? When do you give up wanting to be in a relationship? I'm almost 21 and I have NO luck with guys. Yeah I know I'm young and have my whole life ahead of me and blah blah blah lol! But when I tell you I can't fi...

We broke up but still havr sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

15 March 2012 (F) - i was with a woman for a about 2months. she ended it and said were not right for each other but she would like to be good friends. she hasnt had a relationship in years and her ex died years ago. that maybe why she ended it as she maybe scared but ...

A friend old enough to be my grandfather told me I drank too much and then offered to have a FWB relationship with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 March 2012 (F) - Hi everyone! Hope you can help me with this. I am a student in a country different than my own. I made a lot of friends at university and in my new life. One of them is a lot older than me and an artist (he just turned sixty and I am in my mid ...

Has his sex drive decreased with age? Or is he getting it elsewhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

15 March 2012 (F) - Hi I'm in a fwb kinda arrangement, I was wondering does a mans sex drive go down with age? he is 36 I am 26. or do you think he is getting it elsewhere? this is what has been happening, when we met he would come round two three times a weeks an...

How do I get over my younger FWB?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

14 March 2012 (F) - I have left my 19 year old FWB and now I miss him more then ever. I have gone in a depression mode. At first it was just all for sex and then i started having feelings for him. I want a relationship with him but he doesnt. I really dont think he ...

My boss is married. He rubs and pats me at work. What are your thoughts? He's older but attractive to me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

14 March 2012 (F) - I've been working at a local restaurant in my town for almost two months now. It's the first real job I've ever had. I've been recently getting vibes from my boss. Last week, we had a moment. The area behind the counter is very narrow. My co-wo...

FWB told me "he could have me whenever he wanted me"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

13 March 2012 (F) - hey, im so fed up there was this boy in which i use to sleep with. i know its wrong but he did have a gf. on the weekend i went out and ended up in a party, in which he was there. he just totally blanked me. i was talking to one of his fri...

He's playing me in a FWB while cheating his Gf. How do I break it off with him and mean it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

12 March 2012 (F) - I am 32 and been divorced for about 3 years now. I have known a guy who is way younger than me as long as i can remember. He will be 20 in 2 months. We have been in a FWB relatinship since he was 18 (legal age in my state). We would fight and brea...

He wants a FWB relationship and I don't think I can do that

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

11 March 2012 (F) - Hi, I have just come out of a relationship and my man told me he wanted to be friends as he just isn't in the right head space for a relationship. He then said he wanted to get to know me more sexually. I asked if that meant friends with benefits, ...

My FWB and I can't stay away from each other!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

10 March 2012 (F) - Hi everyone sorry if this is long I have been in a fwb for a year now I told him how much I like him he says he likes me to but then we always end up having a disagreement over something mainly lack of not seeing one another he says he is going to ...

FWB has frozen me out. Is his ego that fragile?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

10 March 2012 (F) - Ok, hope I can put this down in some sense making way, might be quite long so thank you in advance to anyone who can be bothered reading it all.. I've been seeing this guy from my home town for last few months. It was never going to be serious as...

Does he want to be my FWB again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

10 March 2012 (?) - A guy friend text me last night but I didn't reply because we're both in relationships now and even though we're just friends we used to be sort of FWB and the last time we met up he kissed me. He text me at 10:30pm asking if I wanted to go for a ...

Awesome friend with benefits situation, but I want more and now I don't know if I should end it or try and move things forward..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

8 March 2012 (F) - I feel like I have sort of an uncommon situation... None of my friends ever quite know what to tell me. Here it goes: So, I have been thinking about ending things with my long term friend with benefits. He and I both care for each other deeply, ...

I led her on and feel horrible now.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

7 March 2012 (M) - I Dated this girl for about 2 months and things weren't going too well for us mainly because she had had a rough past growing up and in past relationships. There always seemed to be something going on and she was massively depressed a lot ...

Is she the one for me? But she has a boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

7 March 2012 (M) - Hello. hmmm well where do i start, ok well i've known this girl for about 10yrs off and on, when i first met her she had just hooked up with a girl i knows' older brother. We all lived in a flat together. I started noticing that she had a crush ...

We are only FWB because I don't feel good enough for him, but how do I cope with the knowledge that he is dating other girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

7 March 2012 (F) - I have been seeing an amazing guy for almost two years, he has asked me to be his girlfriend but I said no because he was leaving for college and I feel as though I'm not good enough for him. so we've just been a thing, or friends with benefits kind ...

Why does it seem that less and less people use personal restraint in relationships today?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

6 March 2012 (F) - How come less and less people have self restraint these days? There are so many instances about people cheating on their bf/gf, students sleeping with teachers and most recently an acquaintance of mine who slept with her sister's husband. Why does ...

He asked if I wanted to be FWB, I really want to but I'm scared because I'm a virgin! What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 March 2012 (F) - So I've been pretty good friends with this guy for a year. We had an instant attraction and we both have wanted to be just more than friends but he had a girl friend at the time so nothing happened but he's now single. We've been flirting and ...

My FWB got married without telling me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

5 March 2012 (F) - i had been seeing a guy for 8 years on and off always me doing the txting, when we met we both had just gone through a divorce him on is second, he had always told me he couldnt ,wouldnt get involved again and we could be friends so we became f...

I'm lonely and want sex and attention but my friends might disapprove.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

2 March 2012 (F) - So recently I've been playing with the dating scene seriously for the first time. I'm very shy and I feel I act awkward in front of new guys I meet. I have male friends that I've known for years and I'm lonely; so I was planning to be with them. I ...

My FWB keeps pushing me for a threesome and I am just not interested. How do I communicate this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (M) - I have a casual acquaintance that I sleep with. We have been together a couple of years. She sleeps with other people, too, and I am fine with that. The problem I am having is that more and more often she keeps suggesting that we involve the...

Girlfriend vs FWB. How do you know what the guy thinks of you as?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

2 March 2012 (F) - how do you know if a guy likes you as a possible girlfriend? or if he is just interested in sex- you as a friend with benefits? what are the signs that he wants you as a girlfriend? thanks...

I'm in love with my FWB guy and I think he's in love with me too. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

1 March 2012 (F) - Im in a very complicated fwb situation. We started out as drunk and completly random... he admitted after a few months he kind of had feelings for me, which i hadnt even acknolowdged in myself yet. Few weeks later i see him making out with another ...

Does my FWB still like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

1 March 2012 (F) - Hi everyone hope you can help me I ended a fwb relationship a few weeks ago as he was treating me very badly he would text after work early hours of the morning wanting to come and e See me for sex that was the only time I ever saw him and I had fa...