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Archived questions from: November, 2018 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

How to deal with a needy friend who’s staying over the Christmas?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2213 days ago

29 November 2018 (F) - (sorry I've just realized how long this post is) She’s a friend I’ve known all of my life. Our fathers were best friends. She has always been extremely needy and I’ve dealt with it and not always in a good way (meaning that I would often say ...

I'm lonely and need friends but I am worried that at my age the only friends I may make now will be "messed up" people.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2200 days ago

27 November 2018 (F) - I am nearly 50 and I am often lonely. I'm a 'high achiever' I suppose. Very highly educated, employed, fairly healthy but very low energy and a history of depression (which I've never told anyone about, but tended to hide, fearing rejection). I ha...

I tried to make new friends but apparently it isn't working. Where did I go wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2210 days ago

26 November 2018 (M) - Im at an age where I've lost a lot of friends for various reasons over the years and trying to make more interesting new friends so I msged an aquantance with a common interest and all seemed well and positive. She said she would talk to her ...

Why would my friend of 20 years spill information about me to my subordinate co-worker that he only met after just 10 minutes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2215 days ago

26 November 2018 (M) - Me and my best friend have known each other for 20 years. We are neighbours, we have grown up together. Throughout our lives, we have taken different paths but we always meet again, and things have been fine. I had been working at my job for 3 ...

She is comfortable being naked around me? So is she sexually attracted to me?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2210 days ago

26 November 2018 (M) - She isn't an exhibitionist and I am not a creepy pervert or anything like that. I just happened to bump into her while she was naked a couple of times but she was cool about it. I thought she would avoid me or move out but she didn't. She acts as if ...

I'm beginning to feel that its me vs my boyfriends flatmates

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2209 days ago

26 November 2018 (F) - Been with my partner for about a year and half (the first year was spent being long distance) before he moved back up here where we see each other every weekend (due to work). Lately, I have felt we are arguing/disagreeing more and I'm getting ...

My pregnant best friend and I had a misunderstanding and now she won't talk to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

25 November 2018 (F) - My best friend who recently got pregnant stopped talking to me over a small mis understanding. I was having a really shitty day at both personal and professional life and to vent i posted something somewhere..she assumed it was was her and went ...

I’m crazy in love with my best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2218 days ago

25 November 2018 (F) - Ok so here’s the thing, I’m like crazy in love with my best friend right but I don’t know if he likes or loves me back and I don’t want to ruin the friendship and I don’t think I can stop loving him what should I do?...

We had a threesome things went wrong and now my husband blames me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2217 days ago

23 November 2018 (F) - After 20 yrs of marriage my husband asks for threesome, after two yrs we finally tell my friend that she is our threesome girl, my husband was madly in love with me, then I hear that she is coming over to visit during the day to smoke, then I notice ...

Why did she block me when she said I could contact her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2220 days ago

21 November 2018 (M) - a female from school who I knew, bumped into me in the street. I don’t know if this was on purpose or if she was trying to get my attention. anyway we had a coffee and spoke for an hour and just had a catch up. all seemed good, she told me she was ...

My boyfriend's best friend doesn't like me and is trying hard to get him away from me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2222 days ago

21 November 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for around six months. I have a 16 month old son so things have gotten pretty serious between the pair of us. The relationship is great and he’s going to propose at Christmas. However his best friend never li...

I'm confused as to why she unfriended me. Did I do something wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2223 days ago

20 November 2018 (M) - Met a girl in class and I liked her (as a friend). Someone I thought I could get a long with as I enjoyed talking to her. She came across as strong, loud and opinionated but not over the top, I liked this. She has a bf and I have a gf so I figured ...

My best friend and my boyfriend were flirting with each other on my b-day right in front of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2222 days ago

20 November 2018 (F) - I went out for my birthday with my boyfriend. We met up with friends. Later in the night my best friend came to join us in a bar. We all sat around a table, me, a friend, my boyfriend and best friend sat next to each other. They were both very ...

Could this work out for us in the future or should I forget about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2225 days ago

18 November 2018 (F) - So I told my friend that I liked him and he told me that he wasn't ready for a relationship yet. I was really scared that our friendship was going to be ruined but luckily we're still pretty good friends cause he didn't want to ruin the friendship ...

Should I ask my boyfriend if he knows what his friend says about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2225 days ago

18 November 2018 (F) - Recently a friend of mine was talking to me about an interaction she had with one of her guy friends, lets call him Brian. Brian happens to also be close friends with my boyfriend and lived with him last year. While my friend was hanging out with ...

I'm 15 and can't get over feeling the same way every day that I am a failure

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2222 days ago

18 November 2018 (M) - Hi all. I am 15 years old, approaching GCSE's and I'm under an onslaught of problems. My first is that I appear to be *VERY* unattractive (and not only just my apparent bad looks reinforce this). From what I've heard, seen and experienced peop...

Why is he acting like he has a broken heart when he is the one that rejected me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2223 days ago

15 November 2018 (F) - Since past 3 weeks me and this friend of mine didnt had good time. We had been through cold issues, ignored each other, pretended to be okay yet it was hearbreaking for both of us and then got back again. All of this we (rather I went through) just ...

I'd like to apologize to someone that I still like even though he now has a girlfriend. Should I and if so how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2227 days ago

14 November 2018 (F) - I think someone who I still have feelings for lives in my area and has recently moved here with his girlfriend,he is aware of where I live and doesn't like me due to what happened between us which I just accept and have learnt from it . I may be ...

How can I learn to cook? Should I go to a male friend's house to learn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2228 days ago

14 November 2018 (F) - unfortunately I have no idea how to cook and im not sure of how to even start or what to begin with . Im 22 and I think its rather embarrassing that I don't know how to cook , im not over reliant on my parents but I am in terms of meals and I just ...

Do I go with the flow on this one? Or try and dial it back to friends only and if so how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2230 days ago

12 November 2018 (F) - I got back in touch with an old male friend around 9 months ago. We were close friends years ago and I was a good friend of his girlfriend. I've been in a relationship with someone else and whilst it started out as friends only, around 3 months in ...

He literally flipped in 8 hours! Is he blowing me off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2224 days ago

12 November 2018 (F) - Is he blowing me off? I've been friends with this guy for years. We talk daily and have recently decided to take things to the next level since we are both finally single at the same time. Plus, he always lived about 6 hours away and now hes only a ...

I can't believe he couldnt see how I felt.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2232 days ago

10 November 2018 (F) - I love a guy who is a good friend of mine and he doesnt know that I love him. At present we are not at all in talking terms. Let me explain how all this happened. 6-7 months back it came to my realization that I love him because I sensed jealousy...

She seems open but what if she is telling me lies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2231 days ago

9 November 2018 (M) - Been single now for about 5 months after a long term relationship, and met someone a few weeks ago that i hit it off with, it happend very randomly and out of the blue. being careful, or at least trying to be ive had my guard up. but it feels right ...

My sex obsessed friend makes me feel uncomfortable.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

7 November 2018 (M) - I have a best friend who is obsessed with sex. He talks about sex endlessly. He details everything he does with every guy (he’s gay). Every week there is someone new, every week the sex was amazing and without really checking I’m interested he will ...

She loves me but has a LDR boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

7 November 2018 (M) - A girl has a boyfriend but she loves me. Her boyfriend lives far than Im living close to me. We had sex several times and we both promise to get married but she is yet break up with him? I need some advice.....

Does this mean he likes me, or am I friend zoned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2235 days ago

4 November 2018 (F) - Might be a bit young, but I’m a freshman who likes a sophomore. Now last year he started giving me hugs when ever I’m about to leave, same this year. (Extra information: Our school is small, so I see him often the the hallways or after school.) I’m ...

This friend intimidates me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2238 days ago

2 November 2018 (F) - I have been friends with someone for about 9 years now , in the years ive been friends with her , I always enjoy being with her ,she makes me smile , I look forward to seeing her , enjoy her company , we get along really well , have the same sense ...

My husband seems to think I am a bank, smokes weed all day and chats with other women!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2220 days ago

1 November 2018 (F) - Hello My husband isnt working and I am providing for our family. He is unable to work do to his new arrival to my country. During hid time here, he tells me his friends back home need an apartment to rent and they need to open up their ow...