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Archived questions from: July, 2018 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

My family says I’m limiting myself by not going out as friends?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2294 days ago

31 July 2018 (F) - I have a bf, but I don't limit my social interactions just because I'm in a relationship. The other day a single guy asked me to a concert, just me and him. I see him when I gather w/family friends about once a year or so. Otherwise I rarely if ...

My wife is 35 but needs to grow up. I don't know how to get through to her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2286 days ago

31 July 2018 (M) - So my wife and I have been married 8 years. I love my wife and we have a 4 year old together. Currently we are trying to buy a home. Most things are pretty good. She is someone who craves people to talk to and she gets that with a few friends from ...

Should I even try to stay in touch? or just let things end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2296 days ago

30 July 2018 (F) - it was nearly a year ago when I started talking to someone who told me he fancied me but I didn't feel the same way but still spent time with him, I have nearly been speaking to him for a year and a few days ago was the first time he's ignored a few ...

I rejected my ideal guy years ago, and now he's with someone else and it's driving me crazy. Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2292 days ago

30 July 2018 (F) - Hey, I'm writing this partly to get it off my chest and partly because I need to change something about this situation, even if it's just my way of thinking about it. 5 years ago I was single, much more stupid than I am now, and met a brillia...

My ex alienated me from my friends but I'd like to re-establish contact with them but how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2296 days ago

30 July 2018 (F) - Ok so as a bit of background, I was in a relationship for almost 6 years that ended a couple of years ago now. The relationship was a controlling one, and without going into too much detail, he basically manipulated me into giving up many of my ...

Should I go away for a week or less with my friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2297 days ago

29 July 2018 (F) - I'm unsure of whether to go away for a week or less with my friend ,it will be in a few days ,as I'm trying to make my student loan last as best as I can until end of September time when I start college again . other reasons why im unsure are ive ...

I had sex with my best friend now I want to be his girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2194 days ago

29 July 2018 (F) - So I have been best friends with an American man for about 12.5 years now, we met online and started as penpals , we have emailed nearly every day for 12 years and always ring each other and there for each other if we were going through a tough ...

Many health issues. Only ever had one friend. Not ready to date again yet. Need suggestions for free online friendship sites?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2295 days ago

29 July 2018 (F) - Hello and thank you in advance. Question: do you have any suggestions of free (but decent) online websites that are for friendship and dating, rather than just dating? Background: I have a long history of physical and mental health issue...

Not interested in a boyfriend. Is that okay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2300 days ago

27 July 2018 (F) - Im 25 and i never had a boyfriend. Since my teenage years, i was never worried about dating or having a boyfriend, i would only focus my self on studying and making myself happy. I started going on dates since i was 19, and i would say, we would go ...

Do I tell my parents that my friend is dating a man 30 years her senior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2296 days ago

26 July 2018 (F) - my friend is in a relationship with a man 30 years old then her , ive known him for nearly a year no and I know age is just a number but I still find it so strange but I have accepted that is she is happy being with someone a lot older then her then ...

I'm uncomfortable with my boyfriends online long distance female friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2299 days ago

26 July 2018 (F) - I am very insecure about my boyfriends female friend. They have been friends for 5 years and have only met twice within the 5 years. She lives in another part of the country. They met online but he decided he just wanted to remains friends with ...

My friend never has time for me anymore since she started dating. Do I walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2301 days ago

25 July 2018 (F) - Not sure if anyone on here can help but I wanted some advice about a friendship. One of my best friends has recently become very distant and so reluctant to see me. I've been trying to arrange to see her one weekend for several months but I jus...

Am I overreacting or is there something going on that I am not aware of out of all of this ? Need opinions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2300 days ago

25 July 2018 (F) - Hi there, my boyfriend (which is OLDER than me) been together for almost 6 months,he has behaved like a true man with me, always very pleasing,loving,etc,he recently purchased his first house. very modest,it's a home that will eventually use for ...

What does it mean when a guy tilts his head while he's smiling you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2301 days ago

24 July 2018 (F) - My guy friend and I were sitting together in a room by ourselves and we were facing each other. After he was done talking to me, we both became silent and stared into each other's eyes. He was staring at me for about 10 seconds and I was starting to ...

I told my married female friend that I'd never date a woman with children (she has them) and now she's blown me off

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2302 days ago

23 July 2018 (M) - I have a female friend who's married with children. I've known her for 5 years and we work at the same company. I speak to her maybe 2-3 times a week and we usually go for coffee at least once a week. I am very fond of her, I would say I love...

How can I let go of other people’s opinions

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2299 days ago

23 July 2018 (F) - How can I let go of these friends opinions and gossip? I Am Eastern European and I used to hang out with women from my culture that were gossipy and the only goal in life was to get married and show off. I have fallen into hard times and my fam...

I think my friend is seeing my ex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2302 days ago

23 July 2018 (F) - Hi all, Come to this site sometimes when level headed and anonymous advice is needed so here goes. Some years back I was involved with this guy for awhile. We drifted apart and then I moved to another part of the country.I thought e was ...

Can I call her my close friend if she forgot I had skin cancer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2299 days ago

23 July 2018 (F) - I was diagnosed with a cancerous mole a few months ago and had it removed. It was a simple procedure and I am very glad I caught it early, therefore I wasn't too shaken up by it. I had only told a few of my close friends that I had skin cancer. ...

Why don't any of my male friends think of me as a potential dating partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2302 days ago

21 July 2018 (F) - I’m a 34 year old, single, straight female and I’m in a real predicament as to how the opposite sex view me. I’m quite a sociable person so I have a large mix of friends but I also have a large group of close male friends of a similar age grou...

How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm done with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2305 days ago

21 July 2018 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year. Everything was great at the beginning, however, the past few months I've been feeling very turned off and disappointed by him. He had always claimed he's the good guy, until he was out with his ...

Is it time to distance myself from this friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2305 days ago

21 July 2018 (F) - I know this is going to sound petty, but my best friend is getting married and I’m starting to think she’s using the whole thing to try to get to me. I’m beginning to feel unwelcome. She hasn’t got many friends as she is the type of person that ...

Family problems, problems wth my friend, panic attacks, working two jobs and unhappy. Help me get out of my rut

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2308 days ago

18 July 2018 (F) - I feel like I'm stuck in a rut and I can't get out! I'm a university student and the most I struggle with is the odd panic attack about dying, but since being back at home they are getting worse and I think it's to do with being back. I'm tryin...

My best friend’s sister doesn’t seem to understand that she takes the “joking” too far!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2307 days ago

18 July 2018 (M) - Hi guys.. I have a situation that I need your help and advice on.. I have always got on ok with my best friends sister (she’s 30, I’m 36). But when she has a drink she takes the p*ss out of me. We’ve had like nights out (me, my best friend, his...

How do I close out this sad chapter in my life and start anew?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2310 days ago

17 July 2018 (F) - Hi all I am from conservative indian family. I am 24 and financially independent. I met my ex 6 years back on school. We fell in love . The relationship was intense and serious. All my school and college friends knew we were together. His pa...

Her depression is getting in the way of our love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2308 days ago

15 July 2018 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 9 years, and we are both in love with each others. We shared alot of great times together and i can't imagine my life without her. I was her first boyfriend, and she never dated anyone because she doesn't trust men, ...

My best friend is dating my younger sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2311 days ago

14 July 2018 (F) - my best freind has started going out with my little sister (20) and im realy jelouse about it. some back story, me and my best freind we'll call him Tim, we're both 27 and have been mates for about 26 years. anyway about six months back my l...

I overheard my wife saying that her ex was the best sex she'd ever had and now my ego is shattered!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2289 days ago

11 July 2018 (M) - So my ego has been devastated and I really don’t know how to handle this. Turns out I’m not the best sex my wife has ever had. Any advice is appreciated. About a week ago my wife had one of her friends at our house for some drinks. After ha...

I’m still sad and upset by how I was treated in primary school!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2315 days ago

10 July 2018 (F) - I was always left out in my friendship group at school and this was years ago now but it always upsets me , I look back and think they probably didn't even know they were leaving me out or did not know I was upset as we were all young and at primary ...

I don’t understand why people don’t want to be friends with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2317 days ago

8 July 2018 (F) - Sometimes i just feel that i can't find a friend with the same interests or at least someone i enjoy their accompany. I've had a best friend for 11 years and now she moved out of country, its been 2 years since she moved out and I've going some ...

She only wants to be friends but acts like we are more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2317 days ago

5 July 2018 (M) - This is a complicated issue that has really affected me mentally. I've been friends with this girl since secondary school and we have always been pretty close, we got closer as we moved up to college and since becoming close friends and spen...

I feel stuck because of his lodger! What do I do?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 2311 days ago

2 July 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I in early 60s, have been together 5 years, but nothing is moving on because he has a female lodger in her 40s been there 25 years! Pays little rent, no household bills and keeps dogs. She wont move out, we gave her 6 months notice, ...