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Archived questions from: May, 2015 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Should I apologize to my married co-worker for the touchy feely session we had?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

31 May 2015 (M) - Hi there. I'm a gay man and recently went on a work trip with a straight co-worker (who knows I am gay).We went out one night and got very drunk. We ended up back in my hotel room having a nightcap. We got to taking our shirts off to compare bodies, ...

I'm not very confident but think he likes me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3466 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - I've liked this guy for a while now and I think he's liked me even before I started to like him (romantically, I've always liked him as a person since I've met him). But the thing is, I don't actually know if he likes me. What should I even do about ...

Can you think of examples where a woman initiated a relationship? I need some examples to demolish my long held view that this never happens.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

30 May 2015 (M) - Because it seems, to me, that all boyfriend and girlfriend relationships are still initiated by the guy, where the man approaches the woman first, talks to her first and asked her out first, initiated everything or almost everything in the ...

He's a drama queen and blows everything out of proportion. But how can I give him support?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - So I've been in a relationship with my bf for almost 3 years. I have known him for almost 10. when we first got together, it was the beginning, that joy, we couldn't be stopped. Fast forward to now and I feel like I am going crazy. Needless t...

My partner has become snappy and a little controlling. But what to do about my growing feelings for my boss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - please bare with me with this question as it has been bugging me for a long time now and I'm at my wits end with it. Basically, four years ago I met my partner and I thought he was amazing to begin with. We became engaged in April of last...

Is there any chance we could end up with a deeper relationship? Am I fool thinking I can wait for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

30 May 2015 (M) - Figure I might just see if any old souls can offer wisdom. Almost a year ago now, I met a girl in an interesting state of mind, who recently broke up with her boyfriend. We work together at a late night restaurant which I rent an apartment above,...

He has blocked me and is ignoring me now. So how do I get back the money he owes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I am having on and off relationship with my best friend. We are very close year back, for last 1 year its all going downhill. He is avoiding me, not picking up my calls, telling me lies all the time He blocked me in phone, everywher...

Should I message him? Did I put him off by being a bit aloof in my response to his slightly gushing message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Hello I met a man through mutual friends and he contacted me via Facebook to ask me to join him at an event. I said yes and we then spent the week before the event messaging each other every day - I suppose getting to know each other. He is ...

I'm not planning on giving up on her.So advice please on how to get closer to her, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 May 2015 (M) - Close friends in high school for 3 years I occassionally asked her to movies via whatsapp, she said yes but with friends and that she may had a family trip. I stupidly sent her that i want es a one on one date. She replied: ooh, i thought it would...

How do I win him back and feel better? My Mom and My Aunt don't like him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - I fell for this guy; I'm 23 and he's nearly 30. He seems to like me and he's also sexually attracted to me. However, I haven't been able to date him as I was trying to finish off my degree at the time. This is still an on-going problem as I'm s...

Why do I continue to have drama in my life with friends? How can I be better, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - I continue to have drama in my life with friends. No matter what I do, drama follows. Nothing seems to work. I still end up losing friends. I partly think it's because I expect so much from them. Whenever I have a friend, I expect them to treat me...

Is she rejecting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3494 days ago

29 May 2015 (M) - Very close friends in high school. We went on our first date, went pretty well. Pretty standart one After that, she didn't change the way she acts towards me in school. Asked for a second date. She couldn't. Asked for the following week. S...

I feel vulnerable, does that make me selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - OK, I've been in a relationship for 6 months with my other half. I know it's not long but I do really care about him. Everything seems OK when we are together but I'm beginning to have cold feet. He is so blunt in his messages to me ( which he...

The Art of Arguing. What helps you to resolve issues in your relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3358 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - There's a song by Ne-Yo that absolutely cracks me up now whenever I hear it. "When You're Mad" talks about how sexy it is when your partner gets angry and more than implies the joys and benefits of make-up sex! Deep within my nature, I do hav...

Is my BF jealous of this other guy who is also a dance instructor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - MY BF is a dance instructor. I used to dance in his class as a student. Now this other dance teacher took over his class who is male. My BF puts this guy down at every turn in front of me. Not sure why. Says the guy thinks he's all that but he ...

Am I right in thinking that maybe he doesn't have time for a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

27 May 2015 (F) - I'm a 26 year old woman in a relationship with a 30 year old man, who I've been with for almost a year. We are kinda long distance, we live two hours away from each other so only get to meet once, maybe twice a week. I was happy with this at first ...

Not sure how she feels. But should I try to do some extra nice things for this customer, who I really like, for when she gets back from trip to Japan?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

27 May 2015 (M) - so this girl was a regular customer at my store, and we had so much in common. (How many girls love giant monster and horror movies lol) We started hanging out, nothing serious at all. We would watch cartoons together over Skype and text all the ...

Do I ditch this good time friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

26 May 2015 (M) - I have this friend, she reappeared out of nowhere, after I lived abroad for 4 years. She has lots and lots of problems, her girlfriend had gone travelling and she had an uncle pass away. It was strange she kept reaching out to me, it made me feel ...

Do you think being set up on blind dates will help me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

26 May 2015 (M) - im kinda shy guy....i cant talk to girls. i try and try but i fail. im not that social but the friends i have are very supporting and they are very good to me....like me n my friends have a strong bond. im cool to talk to my female friends but not ...

He has disappeared with only a note 'I love you and want to be with you'

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, Please help, I'm going through a really tough time. My boyfriend and I have been together only four months or so, and it has been a bit of a roller coaster. It's the first time both of us have opened ourselves up to ...

How do I tell my friend without offending him that he is way too touchy for my comfort zone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3498 days ago

25 May 2015 (M) - I would love your advice with things please, please take into account im gay and things between gay guys are much more "homosocial" than normal: a) I have a dear friend who gets very touchy feel-y. He does this with everyone, but I feel unc...

Should I date my best friend, who is also my colleague?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3497 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - A new guy started working with me a year ago. He is the level above me and more qualified (im training to gain the same qualifications). Over the last year he has become one of my best friends. Hes great company and we get on unbelieveably well. He ...

I like her, my friend likes her and she's with someone else. Do I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

25 May 2015 (M) - So it's the end of my first year at university and I realise that I like this girl on my course. She's a year younger than me, but I deferred last year to take some time out and do other things. I've only known her for about five months. The othe...

A man I chatted with online showed up unexpectedly at my home and now I am creeped out. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Hey all. So a year ago I met a guy online on an Expat blog through travel groups. Groups that travel together and have lots in common. In the group we had all planned to go to spain but i cancelled it because the booked date was my mum's birthd...

Should I be settling down?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I'm 23 years old and I still like going out and enjoying myself. All my friends are settling down with their boyfriends, moving in together or having children. I just don't feel ready for all of this! I still live at home with my parents although I ...

Why do I never get to meet or spend time with my boyfriends family/friends? He always has excuses!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. We have two issues in our relationship. One being hes not affectionate, romantic, and plays videos games non stop when hes off work. The second being ive only met his mom once and that was two years ago, ...

Should I stay away from where he works?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I was seeing this guy back in February. He owned a bar where I worked which we went into on weekend for drinks. My friends told me he liked me but I didn't really pay him too much attention. On New Years Eve, my friend and I went to his bar and ...

Despite all these set backs, and my feeling that I just can't win: how do I recover from all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3498 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - This has been the most frustrating time of my life. To start the year off I decided I would get back with my ex girlfriend. Who had gotten married for money so this guy could get a green card. Yeah there was no money lol. But I had been in a rela...

How do I keep my friend safe? why was I agressive?...and why didn't he stop me,or get upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Hi I’m a bit worried, I had just gotten yelled at rather bad by my family I went to be all snuggly with a good friend and yea was crying and quite a bit upset...and I did this terrible thing. Like I hardly knew but I asked if I could be not nice ...

What are my options, because I feel trapped? He shouts and becomes abusive. I want to pack my bags and go with our child.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I've been with my husband for almost 11 years, married for 5. We have a little boy who is 2 and a half. I'm really stuck as to whether I should leave my husband. I haven't been in love with him for a while. However we are good friends and bein...

Feeling hurt and confused. We are not official. Yet why tell me had a date? was it said to get a reaction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Dear Aunts, There is a guy that I have been seeing. Its not official or anything. We kiss, go out, go to each other homes etc. He has always described me as his part time woman which i feel like for the time but I want to take it to the next leve...

Feel betrayed, hurt, and extremely upset about her lies on her friendship/relationship with T. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - My wife and I have been married for a little over two years, and have been together for nearly 6 years. About 7 months after we started dating I met her friend, (a guy called T), who she said was her best friend. At first I was a little put off,...

Why does my ex blame me for his failed conquests?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - Why does my ex blame me for his failed conquests? I fell out with a guy I had a brief fling with. He is one of these smooth talkers, who likes to chat the women up - so I said I couldn't cope with his flirting around etc anymore. So anyway, we fi...

What is he trying to imply? He sent me back a message saying ''love,love,serve''

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - I wrote this man and said we are attracted to each other, he wrote me back and said love, love, serve. I know that is a tennis term, but what does he mean?...

How can I change him over to being just my buddy, instead of his snuggle buddy? It's just snuggles and cuddles, nothing more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3490 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - I have this casual snuggle buddy thing going on, but I think I'm taking advantage of him? something seems unbalanced in my mind. Anyways we've been friends for about three months and oddly enough we started out being cuddle buddies. whi...

My ex-boyfriend cheated on me and he and my former best friend, (who is also my cousin), are now a couple. How do I get over this betrayal by the two of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - I was relationship with a guy like for 4 years suddenly one day he told me he is seeing someone else and that girl is my cousin. She knows everything about our relationship and also she knows how much I loved him. But I don't know why the hell a b...

How can I come to terms with, accept, and overcome my jealous feelings towards a woman who has done better in life than me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - My problem is some kinda jelousy. I am 52 y old now and I am an artist. I did very well on my career,but had some very powerful people that wanted to exchange some favors with me,which I never did. My career went to a higher level,but in som...

Feeling stressed by people's negative outlooks re job market. I'm majoring in Dental Hygiene. But I am hearing that the job market is experiencing no jobs in this field. what else could I study allied to dental where jobs may be easier to find?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - Hello- I am currently in college majoring in Dental Hygiene. I have been stressed out due to negative feed back people have been telling me. I have considered ultra sound tech, and surgical tech as well and just not sure which path to choose. ...

How can I get over him? I am so hurt about the way he's communicated with me, and rejected me, in the past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3503 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - So I got with this guy at the start of freshers week in September, he's a friend of my housemate, he doesn't remember it and I don't remember much. Anyway my other housemate who likes to stir things keep on snapchatting photos of me to him so event...

Is this a case of Grass is Greener Syndrome? She broke up with me so suddenly

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

20 May 2015 (M) - Hello people. I am hopeing to get some advice here. I will keep it short: She is 21, and I am 10 years older. As far as I know she only had one real BF before me, and he cheated a lot on her. We have been together for about 8 months. It h...

Don't want to look desperate but I want to know her better . How should I approach her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

20 May 2015 (M) - there's this girl in this extraclass i go to after school. there are eleven students there i think... including her and i dont know nobody over there. She might be same ages as me.I got a crush on her....i read a little “understanding b...

Why do you think I haven't heard from her? Is she waiting till I contact her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3503 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - So I took a girl out on a date almost a week ago. She was very confident and poised and calm. She was definitely flirting with me, and when we were in the car she would look at me all the time and smile and when I would drive fast she would sa...

I still love him, I like the sex but I can't move on if this carries on can I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend messed me around so much that I ended our relationship. But now I'm in a friends with benefits relationship with him, and even though our sex is great, and we get on better then we ever did together, I feel like I'll never get over our...

Is our relationship really over? Is it selfish of me to want more from our relationshhip?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3504 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - I have been with my partner for four years since I was 16; we met in college and now he is university and I work full time. The past year we have both had our problems with families, mine has been awful and he is the light in all of it and what mak...

Do I unfriend her? Talk to my Bf? My Bf has been avoiding me for last few months. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - hi.. i've added one of my classmates as my friend on facebook. she came to know who my boyfriend is from my relationship status on facebook. within a week since i'd added her on fb i'd noticed some changes in my boyfriend's attitude towards...

How can he say he likes me but he doesn't 'like' my photos on Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupids, I have a guy I like and I was just wondering if this is normal behavior... so there's this guy who i like and who likes me but we are friends. lately i have noticed that he likes all the photos belonging to the girls in his Fac...

Should I tell my good friend that I'm worried about her? Drinking and drugs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

18 May 2015 (F) - She’s 40 and I’m two years her junior. We’ve been friends since I was born. We even lived together for 3 years (I let her stay with me because she had nowhere to go) and we get along well. However… as we grew up our lives changed. I got married an...

How do I get rid of him? I thought he was nice but now he's driving me mad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3505 days ago

18 May 2015 (F) - I was wondering if someone can help. I met a guy, and I thought he was nice, I was honest from the start in that I am not looking for anything but friends plus I didn't fancy him one bit but he seemed nice. (I was with someone I was really in lo...

I feel like they're being clingy and am hesitant to move in now that they've expressed annoyance about not being there every weekend. Am I right to feel this way or am I being a bad friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

18 May 2015 (F) - This year at college I made friends with two girls who are a couple years younger than me. We all hang out a couple of days during the week and sometimes on the weekends as well. The two of them hang out together almost everyday. Recently we all ...

I have a long distance boyfriend but male in lab is trying to be my friend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

18 May 2015 (F) - I am a postgraduate student at university and I help teach a first year laboratory. One of the students in my lab has really latched onto me. He is older than the other students and from another country so he really wants a friend. I have a ...