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Archived questions from: 23 August, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I'm stuck between 2 rocks!!! HELP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I know these 2 wonderful women. I know one girl from one place, the other from another. It hit me the other night that I love both, I was like "WTF!?" I can't choose one for God's sake! I'm confused and don't want to hurt either of them......

How long before its ok to introduce your bf/gf to your friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - How long when dating someone should you introduce them to your friends...? I've been on a few (3) dates with this particular guy... He is moving this weekend and has friends coming up to see him and spend the weekend with him... then the weekend...

I've tried being 'just friends', then detaching myself from her completely, but I still love her! What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - Well, this is a long one, so I'll post a quick summary below but if you have the time to read it all I hope you do. There's a girl that I met three years ago in college. She was a beautiful girl that was down to earth and I loved her personality....

We were getting along great, and now he's completely backed off! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I have this guy friend who I like and me and him were getting along great. Until i noticed that he became distant and now he doesn't talk to me at all. Last week out of the blue he texted me asking about our school scheduale. I first was like wow he ...

What are the signs of a guy liking you, even though he's made it clear he doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - Erm... what are the signs of a guy liking you who right now doesnt want a relationship and wants to be single? The reason i say this is this guy in my class seemed to really like me, the way he looked at me, the tensionn between us and everythin...

I don't want a relationship with him, but I don't wanna be a one night stand either! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I've been single for a year now, and enjoy clubbing regularly, At the spot theres a DJ who really has made an impression on me. Hes not even mega anything, Not too cute just handsome enough - Dresses rather nicely though. We'd been making eyes, he'...

My best friend is dating a loser, I've got to the point where I'm sick of hearing about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - My best freind has been dating a loser for 4 years. He's addicted to cocaine, is violent towards her and her 5 year old child (both physically and emotionally abusive), walks in and out of her life when he wants and basically treats her like dirt. ...

The guy I like is best friends with the guy I used to like

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - Hi, Basically I Saw this boy at this convention I been through 3 days I kind of no him But I never spoke to him.He was watching me 3 days blah blah its really long yeah I had 3witnesses watching him and they said Yeah he does preety much Like...

Am I wrong for trying to push my boyfriends "best friend" out of his life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I hate my boyfriends "best friend" this girl cam out of nowhere in his life. And I can't stand her. Today I got another friend of mine to send her some very hateful messages. And I am glad I did. Hopefully she will get out of his life now. Wh...

Women aged 20-29 - please answer this!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - I've been seeing my gf for about 4 mos (I'm 39- shes 25) I know big gap. Anyway, about a month in -- we had "the talk" ---and I found out about her not so innocent past. It made me sick to find out she had slept with 15 other guys before me. ...

I find it hard to make friends, no one likes me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - I have a really big problem... no one likes me. I've always found it hard to make friends or talk to people, I think I might have panic attacks sometimes I don't know if its social phobia. I never know what to say to anyone or how to start a ...

Who do I do this to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - I'm not sure if I'm looking for advice here or if I just wanted to type this out. Hopefully that makes sense, but to me sometimes typing something out for others to see can be as therapeutic as actually telling someone what's on your mind. The ...

Can I trust him? He's telling other girls he wants to be with them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I been this relationship for 2yrs now,, in the first couple of months we had some problems or at least i had some problems with him. such as his bm called my phone and then another time a girl called my phone talking bout they been together for ...

My wife constantly wants to move

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - hi, i have been in a relationship for 12 years now we are married and have a daughter together. my wife is always unhappy where we live so we are constantly moving about 5 years ago we moved to the uk, to make a frsh start. she then went back to ...

One on one dinner with a friend of the opposite sex - yay or nay?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I'm in a great relationship where there is a lot of trust between my partner and I. I have many male friends that I hang out with or communicate with on a regular basis and he has female friends too. This is of course fine. But the other night, a...

How should I go about re-establishing contact with a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I'd like to re-establish contact with a friend of mine and I'm thinking on what to write in an email. -We haven't talked/seen each other for more than a year. -We are from different countries. -We were very close (although never in an offi...

Should I just leave her alone or at least try to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - hey, i'm in a situation right now that i'm sure has happened to many people before, but i am completely lost and i'd just like some good, honest advice. i had a girlfriend a while back and at the time we broke up, we'd been dating for close...

I feel things are unfair but I don't want to be selfish or ungrateful..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - i'm living with my mum to finish off my last year of high school while my dad has been sent overseas for work. he comes to see us maybe once a month so its not too bad. the thing is, i feel like because of that i have less freedom than my other ...

Is wanting t be friends with ther gay men a betrayal of my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - I am in what feels like an impossible situation. I have been in a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend for five years. I never really had many friends but of late have started making them. I am gay and would like to have some gay friends as w...

Masturbating to pictures of friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - Is masturbation to pictures of your friends okay? I have printed out pictures of a few of my friends that our females and I have masturbates to them. I printed the pictures from myspace and facebook. Is this behavior normal?...

Does my ex really want to be best friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - hi, just feelin quite confused and wondering if someone may be able to shed my situation.. Basically about 6 months ago I met a guy who I was pretty into. We were together about 3 months but it ended... for a new couple we had a lot going on.. t...

Why do people look at couples (even friends) walking together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - Everytime I am talking to a guy everyone notices us. I am always walking by myself on campus, but it seems that everytime I have a male companion, the guys would give him dirty looks. It was so weird, last time I was talking to this guy and he ...

She has a horrible past.. do I look passed it, try to fix it.. tell her parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

23 August 2009 (M) - There's a girl. She was abused as a small child and after a while being fostered was put up for adoption at the age of 4. This needs to be taken into account I think when you consider that she says she... Lost her virginity (willingly) wh...

I like him but he lives 4000 miles away

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23 August 2009 (F) - I've known this guy for 2 years now. we go to the same sleepaway camp. i really really like him and im almost positive he likes me. theres only one problem. he lives 4000 miles away and i will probably never see him again. I know your going to tell ...