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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2009): Well, if you want to leave then just leave. There's no point in sticking around if you can't see eye 2 eye with this girl, things will never improve!
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reader, Jolin  +, writes (24 August 2009):
 just meet up with her personally, and tell her how you are sorry for that.Then arrange a hang out time, you, your boyfriend, and her..probably a movie or just a lunch. I bet things will be alright after that.good luck! :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate: he got extremely mad when he found out. Now he wants me to talk to her and "settle our differences" he keeps saying I created all this drama for no reason.
I guess is it the right to do. But I don't really want to. Not because of any particular reason. I just really could care less....but he still wants me in his life. So any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAfter this expirince...I have seen a lot and have decided to just meditate and work on my personal growth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe hurt me. And it was actually one of his own friends who send the message. Her ex boyfriend actually making it more hurtful for them. Everyone has a point in which they don't care anymore. And I'm at that point right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): Thats a bit immature, and you'll end up losing your boyfriend because of your immaturity if you carry on.
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reader, Accountable  +, writes (23 August 2009):
 Yes, you are.
Its his life and he can socialise with whoever he wants.
Certainly if she bothered you that much for a good reason you should have spoken to him about it first rather than gone behind his back. For all you know he might have agreed to end contact with her civilly, if you had behaved reasonably.
What had this woman done to you that gave you the right to send her "hateful messages" to drive her away?
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reader, starfairy +, writes (23 August 2009):
 How spiteful. I guarantee you will push your boyfriend away before she's out of his life.
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