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writes: I been this relationship for 2yrs now,, in the first couple of months we had some problems or at least i had some problems with him. such as his bm called my phone and then another time a girl called my phone talking bout they been together for 3mths and other things she was sayn. and i talked to him about it and he said that he had lost his phone and thats how she know everything about him ( RIGHT) but anyway i tried 2 look ova that and move on with this relationship, put it behind us. so then i gets pregnant with my first child,everything seems to be going ok UNTIL just recently i went to this social website he be on and i checked his mail.. he's on there talking bout how he wants 2 be with these gurls, asking them to come see him stuff like that. and i jus blew up like are u serious. so i confront him about he says im making something out of nothn because the gurls dnt even stay in the same city and state. he never talked to them on the phone but in the mail he gave them is num. so i broke up with him. and my Q is Was i wrong for breaking up with him. i really love this person with all my heart, he says he never cheated on me you but i like dont believe him . i want to trust him but i dont. so i dnt know what 2 do help !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): Hey i posted a pretty similar question to this this earlier today entitiled "I broke up with him because of -what I consider- cheating and I always felt insecure. Was breaking up the right thing to do instead of giving him a chance to change?" - the answers to my question really helped me and I think they apply to your situation too so maybe you could have a read. Hope this helps x
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (23 August 2009):
i would personally split up with him, i couldnt stand that, that is still cheating. It will b hard but its better for you and you're child. You dont deserve that
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reader, starfairy +, writes (23 August 2009):
YOU ARE SO RIGHT TO BREAK UP WITH THIS LOSER!!!
Be strong, keep your chin up x
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