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writes:I have this guy friend who I like and me and him were getting along great. Until i noticed that he became distant and now he doesn't talk to me at all. Last week out of the blue he texted me asking about our school scheduale. I first was like wow he still has my number. Maybe he would turn around our first day of school. Nope he still ignored me. Then the next day he stared at me from across the room a while. I've given up knowing whats wrong. People say he still likes me but i'm not so sure? I messaged him saying that I hope he doesn't hate me and he never replyed on myspace. So now when I go on facebook and answer questions about my friends i answer truthfuly about him. One question said do you think he is cute and i answered yes. I hope he gets the hint! What would you do in my situation? I tryed forgeting him but i end up back where i started.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2009): He isn't meant for you. Find someone who will give you attention and make you feel special. You may have to wait, but it will be worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2009): It sounds like he might be unsure, or changing his mind a lot. Maybe he's afraid to go out with you because of what others think. If that's the case, then it will be hard to work things out. The worst thing I've learned you can do is confront him about the issue. Is it easy and to the point? Yes, but it will create awkward tension between you two and probably will ruin any chance of you getting together with him.Another possibility is that he is having a hard time of letting you down. Most nice people have this issue. If that's the case, just cut your losses. Life may suck, but don't say anything to him that you'll regret. Doing stuff like saying you hope he doesn't hate you or doing those Facebook questions will only drive him away.
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