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Archived questions from: 20 August, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Flirting in the work-place. Is touching allowed or would this send out the wrong message to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - Hello. Just a very quick question about how to interpret a co-worker's behaviour. I teased her about something the other day and she reached out as if to touch me on the arm but then withdrew at the very last second. Can I read anything into this? ...

She's having a baby with a man who looks almost identical to her brother - Is this weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend's sister is pregnant at 17, and it's with one of his friends - drunken one night stand with a consequence. The thing I am finding weird is that the father of the baby is almsot identical to my boyfriend - her brother! Even his family...

Being friends with an ex. Why is everyone against it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - im friends with my ex ...i am genuine about my friendship and she matters to me a lot as a friend ...but her friends and wellwishers are against this friendship and tell her to break it off because they dont believe in it ...she says she is on my ...

Is it possible that my attraction for guys who treat me horribly stems from being sexually abused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - First of I'll start with a bit of history about me; I've dealt with depression, anxiety, paranoia, self-harm and a near miss with an eating disorder. It's all happened together and it was hell. At the same time I was dealing with feelings for my ...

Girlfriend wants to get serious, but are her words and actions too inconsistent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - Hello. I met my girlfriend online on a game program a few months ago. About 2 months after meeting online and talking everyday, all day (we still do it) we met in person (I was supposed to see her, something came up and she came to see me!) none...

I get embarassed and don't know what to say to guys that approach me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i'm horrible around guys, sure i know two or three, but i just can't talk to them at all. some of them are nice but i get all red and confused and then they just walk off and think i'm weird. my friends say i'll get past it but how ...

I'm scared that when we meet he'll be put off by my weight... what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - I became friends with someone online last year. The first 5 months, there was nothing at all overtly romantic or even flirty in our email communications. We just got along with each other very well. He surprised me by asking me out two months a...

My take on why guys notice looks more than personality!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - The other night i was talking to my friend who's a girl and we got into the ever-so-popular "all guys are perverts" argument. She asked me why most guys usualy focus more on the looks or a girl than their personality. I had never really thought ...

In love with my straight friend... I don't know how to get past my feelings without letting him know.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - Okay, so putting this out there: I am gay, and recently went through a pretty horrible breakup. In the midst of this, I developed feelings for a friend of mine. We have only known each other a few months, and though we have hung out a couple times ...

Could our friendship ever turn into something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - hey everyone, i am 20 and in last year of my degree. I have fallen for a guy (overseas student) in my class and its not easy. I have known him before the start of uni because he is a regular and active member in our community gatherin...

I no longer trust my friend because of her promiscusous ways

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - A very good friend of mine is very promiscous. She has a very high sex drive and does it like a guy. A few years ago, we were at a party and a guy who liked me was also there. He liked me and I didn't like him coz of his casanova ways. We all hung ...

Does he want to see me or is he just trying to be nice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - so me and my friend have a really screwed up relationship we slept together and then he didn't speak to me for 3 months i emailed him and asked for no contact a month later he mails me out the blue and starts talking to me. He found out i was ...