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writes:hi,i have been in a relationship for 12 years now we are married and have a daughter together. my wife is always unhappy where we live so we are constantly moving about 5 years ago we moved to the uk, to make a frsh start. she then went back to our home country and left me in the uk as i was doing a course in computers. me and my wife never sleep in the same bed she always sleeps in bed with our 9 year old daughter and has done since she was born she is always accusing me of things i have never done and has asked for a divorce twice she got really depressed when we were trying for our daughter it took us about 3 years to conceive. when i was living in the uk on my own i then met this lovely woman with whom i started a relationship with i know its wrong but i dont have any true feelings for my wife and i know that it sounds nasty but you cant help your feelings. this woman i have met she gives me all the love and attention my wife never gives me and i feel very comfortable around her i am really self concious of my body and my wife is always putting me down this woman i have met she is trying to help me overcome these issues i have. just lately i went back to my own country, thinking things would be better between me and my wife as we had nearly a year apart it was ok for the first couple of days but now she stresses out over nothing is always causing arguments and has turned violent towards me and my daughter, i dont know if i want to leave her or not as she has said if we split then she will stop me from seeing my daughter i have already missed out on 5 years of her life with my wife moving all the time. how do i tell her without hurting her a lot and still been able to see my daughter that i dont really have any true feelings for her please please help
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reader, starfairy +, writes (23 August 2009):
 Firstly I say good on you for finding someone who treats you right and makes you happy. Sorry if this offends but your wife sounds like a complete B*tch and I don't blame you for meeting someone else.
She can't stop you seeing your daughter - get some legal advice on this issue.
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