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writes:How long when dating someone should you introduce them to your friends...?I've been on a few (3) dates with this particular guy... He is moving this weekend and has friends coming up to see him and spend the weekend with him... then the weekend after he is going away for the weekend down south surfing. Anyway.... i was hoping he would invite me out for a drink this weekend with his mates so i could meet them but it doesn't look like his going to ask me. Is it to soon to meet the friends or do you think he doesn't like me and that's why he wont invite me, as im sure his mate are bringing there partners.? Maybe im reading to much into it?? Reply to this Question
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (24 August 2009):
 I think it is too early where it has been only 3 dates. I wouldn't worry about it. And like birdynumnums said he could be protecting you from his friends. Relax and good luck!
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (24 August 2009):
 Well, I've been married for 32 years. I was with my friends when we met. He didn't introduce me to his for 2 months, and frankly, upon meeting them, I could see why! It took them forever to warm up, and guys like "taking the mickey" out of each other - so he MAY just be trying to protect you from the lads and their laddish behaviour until you and he are more solid - and you have to put up with the idiots. That's what happened to me - not all male friendships are like this - but the majority that I knew of at age 20 were...Hope this was a bit reassuring. He's not hiding you (which was what I was worried about..), I think he might be protecting you!
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