A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm 15 and like this boy name him A so i liked him for a while since primary school but he gave me the cold shoulder always taking the piss out of me etc... Now i'm in secondary and i do still like him but as i've gone through the years alot of people have liked him, and i mean alot (even in primary my own mates liked him not only one about 5 or 6 dey neva knew i fancied him, i told one but she wasn't one whom fancied him).I'v been getting emails, hearing people talk about him even though we go totally different schools but so many girls fancy him. However the other day he came up to me and asked me out, i was gob smacked cause i really didn't expect it at all. As plenty of prettier girls fancy him, so i thought why would he choose me out of all the other girls. I didn't know, next time he saw me he tried making a move i stopped him, and backed out, he didn't say anything except sorry. He's still waiting for my response about being his girlfriend but i'm not sure about him. He is a nice boy, and doesn't seem the type to take advantage, every time now i see him he always walks up to me and we talk about general stuff, i don't feel uncomfortable around him. I feel normal. I was surprised he was not ashamed to walk down the road with me. Hahahaha, but my question is, is he to trust? i'm not really jelous of the other girls cause i don't care if i am with im or not cause i know it's only young love nothing majour, i've got better things to look forward to e.g education, grades etc... i'm not really sure what to say to him, ok we talk when we see each other, but come on i probably am the standard looking girl out of the rest i know majourity are pretty. So why did he choose me? i just keep going through this question why? is it because i'm an easy target, cause as far as everyone knows me i'm not. Any help will be appreciated. thanks. P.S. I'm not really looking for anyone to go out with or be my boyfriend. I'm not really bothered about this kind of stuff. But he want's an answer and i don't really have one. And if i do just give an answer without help, i probably just say i'm sorry but i'm not looking for a boyfreind and prefer working towards my studies than being with anyone. Then knowing him he would try persuading me, if he does like me, if not then walk of. and he'd keep pestering me or something asking why? or like i fort you liked me so why don't you wana be with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (9 April 2009):
 thing is do you really like him?
if so have a shot with him
but if you say you're not bothered then don't.
i mean he seems pretty genuine as he has asked you out face to face as well!
if you want to go for it then go for it
but if you feel he's playing you tehn don't
it's up toyou hun
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